Topic: y r nice guys invisable to women?? | |
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I just Love reading the forum,it is just so much Fun Only reason i stay here |
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i want some popcorn
and i do often tell a girl that i like her and am honest as it gets and although all the gals still turn me down, yet i am nice as can be-- so your guess is as good as mine |
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emote much? LOL
Yea forums can be fun, Seems pretty warm up in these forums. I think i am going to like em. |
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what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something? Watch the opening scene of 'four christmases' it puts everything in perspective |
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what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something? Welcome there, nubee. They ignore good guys 'cause I told 'em to. |
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F**k IT!!!
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F**k IT!!! But, you just got here!! |
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dude.. i totally know what you mean. and when you find out the answer let me know please. b/c just like you... it seems all we can be is a "friend"... i can't be a girls friend.. the only way is if theres no attractiveness towards each other.
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You're serious, right? It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS. That's why you're invisible. Because you don't take a chance. You want to talk to a girl that you like? TALK TO HER. Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her. Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move. I hate these threads. I have to agree here. Most nice guys are not confident (Cocky is not Confidence) and It is proven, Woman Love a man that is confident, self assured, first and foremost. Now the reason the "bad boy" gets the woman , is because woman mistake Cocky for true self assurance and confidence. just my 2 cents I agree with both of you... |
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You're serious, right? It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS. That's why you're invisible. Because you don't take a chance. You want to talk to a girl that you like? TALK TO HER. Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her. Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move. I hate these threads. I have to agree here. Most nice guys are not confident (Cocky is not Confidence) and It is proven, Woman Love a man that is confident, self assured, first and foremost. Now the reason the "bad boy" gets the woman , is because woman mistake Cocky for true self assurance and confidence. just my 2 cents I agree with both of you... |
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and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls,
just my 2 cents |
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F**k IT!!! F**k IT!!! What? |
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good guys finish last
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Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
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and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls, just my 2 cents That is not always True^^^^ |
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and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls, just my 2 cents That is not always True^^^^ [/quote there are exceptions to ANY rule |
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Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! |
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Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! |
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I am never nor will I be nice
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if nice guys would stop going after the wrong women they wouldn't be finishing last
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