Topic: y r nice guys invisable to women??
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Mon 01/11/10 07:09 PM


I just Love reading the forum,it is just so much Funrofl

Only reason i stay heresmokin pitchfork :banana:

flowers

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Mon 01/11/10 07:12 PM
i want some popcorn

drinker

and i do often tell a girl that i like her and am honest as it gets and although all the gals still turn me down, yet i am nice as can be-- so your guess is as good as mine

drinker drinker

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Mon 01/11/10 07:13 PM
emote much? LOL


Yea forums can be fun, Seems pretty warm up in these forums. I think i am going to like em.

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Mon 01/11/10 07:15 PM

what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?

Watch the opening scene of 'four christmases' it puts everything in perspective

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Mon 01/11/10 07:16 PM

what is it about a nice guys that drive women into making them be just friends? girls always say they want to meet some one that just sweeps them off there feet with poems and flowers or with there sense of humor... they say that but when it happens they change there mind about it, y is that?? r they afraid to let that guy get close to them? r they afraid that if they enter a relationship with that person they might scare them off?? i have heard girls say "awe ur a nice guy, but i want to b just friends." and not even 10 minutes later that same girl says she wishes she could meet a nice guy... did i miss something?

Welcome there, nubee.
They ignore good guys 'cause I told 'em to.:wink: laugh :thumbsup:

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Mon 01/11/10 07:17 PM
F**k IT!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated



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Mon 01/11/10 07:21 PM

F**k IT!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated




But, you just got here!!waving

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Mon 01/11/10 07:21 PM
dude.. i totally know what you mean. and when you find out the answer let me know please. b/c just like you... it seems all we can be is a "friend"... i can't be a girls friend.. the only way is if theres no attractiveness towards each other.

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Mon 01/11/10 07:22 PM


You're serious, right?

It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS.

That's why you're invisible.
Because you don't take a chance.

You want to talk to a girl that you like?
TALK TO HER.

Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her.
Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move.


I hate these threads. grumble


I have to agree here. Most nice guys are not confident (Cocky is not Confidence) and It is proven, Woman Love a man that is confident, self assured, first and foremost. Now the reason the "bad boy" gets the woman , is because woman mistake Cocky for true self assurance and confidence.


just my 2 cents





I agree with both of you...

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Mon 01/11/10 07:26 PM



You're serious, right?

It's because NICE GUYS DON'T HAVE ANY BALLS.

That's why you're invisible.
Because you don't take a chance.

You want to talk to a girl that you like?
TALK TO HER.

Don't wait for someone else who HAS BALLS to talk to her.
Sure he might be a jerk, but he made the initiative to make the first move.


I hate these threads. grumble


I have to agree here. Most nice guys are not confident (Cocky is not Confidence) and It is proven, Woman Love a man that is confident, self assured, first and foremost. Now the reason the "bad boy" gets the woman , is because woman mistake Cocky for true self assurance and confidence.


just my 2 cents





I agree with both of you...
real is real and truth of matter is what it takes for a guy to be successful with cute girls, ect. ect.. is that they possess an arrogant confidence

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Mon 01/11/10 07:28 PM
and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls,

just my 2 centsdrinker

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Mon 01/11/10 07:28 PM

F**k IT!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated






F**k IT!!!frustrated frustrated frustrated

What?

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Mon 01/11/10 07:29 PM
good guys finish lastfrustrated

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Mon 01/11/10 07:29 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!

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Mon 01/11/10 07:30 PM

and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls,

just my 2 centsdrinker



That is not always True^^^^

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Mon 01/11/10 07:31 PM


and women want to correct the "bad guys" in order to boost their confidence or whatever and thus the jerks and bad *** guys get the girls,

just my 2 centsdrinker



That is not always True^^^^
[/quote there are exceptions to ANY rule

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Mon 01/11/10 07:33 PM

Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker

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Mon 01/11/10 07:35 PM


Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL!
very well said my friend ! drinker
that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies......

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Mon 01/11/10 07:36 PM
I am never nor will I be nice

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Mon 01/11/10 07:37 PM
if nice guys would stop going after the wrong women they wouldn't be finishing last