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Topic: y r nice guys invisable to women??
kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Mon 01/11/10 07:37 PM
I am never nor will I be nice maybe i should from now on just be a plain dik! makes me wonder..

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Mon 01/11/10 07:39 PM
if nice guys would stop going after the wrong women they wouldn't be finishing last good point actually but who is to say what is right or wrong?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 01/11/10 07:40 PM Edited by Jill298 on Mon 01/11/10 07:41 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... honestly?? OK Kirk. Because you always seem to be feeling sorry for yourself. It's quite unattractive. I don't care how handsome or ugly a guy is, the feel sorry for me pity thing, is so not attractive. You may be a nice enough guy, but being nice doesn't cut it. Seriously, even your pic is depressing and makes you look all sad and lost. Not hawt AT ALL. I'm nice. I don't have men falling at my feet. I go out there and I talk to people and be myself. If you reject me well, your loss and I didn't know you anyway so I don't care. I walk away with my head still up.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 01/11/10 07:40 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha!

upzaw2000 Joined Mon 01/11/10 Posts: 5	Mon 01/11/10 07:40 PM
lol, im a nice guy... i might have to go around smackin some bishes to get some more attention

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 01/11/10 07:42 PM
lol, im a nice guy... i might have to go around smackin some bishes to get some more attention sheesh you don't have to smack me, I'll say hello.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 01/11/10 07:42 PM
Oh, ffs...another one!

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Mon 01/11/10 07:43 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha! Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 01/11/10 07:45 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha! Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also I have no idea what you just said.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 01/11/10 07:45 PM
"Bad" boys are not ***...or ******...or mean etc Those kind of men can be "nice" too! I have a "bad boy" He just happens to be a really big biker He is a total Alpha Male--a take charge in any situation man A man who likes to be in the company of other men A protector of his children and his woman But he would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it he loves animals He gets soft and warm when I walk in the room Bad boys are not always what they seem!!!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 01/11/10 07:45 PM
Just shoot me now!

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Mon 01/11/10 07:46 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha! Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also I have no idea what you just said. figures

OhDeviousMe02 Joined Wed 08/12/09 Posts: 1	Mon 01/11/10 07:47 PM
I think that the nice guys are invisible because they simply don’t exist. I have met a few guys so said they were the nice guy and said that nice guys always finish last, but in my experience saying you’re a nice guys is simply a way of saying look I am a dick and am going to treat you like your are less than worthy of my attention cause I am a ‘nice guy.’ Nice guys shouldn’t claim to be the nice guy because I automatically assume they are an ***. Do women label themselves? I’ve never said oh well I’m considered a nice girl or a good girl.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 01/11/10 07:48 PM
Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself! And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult.

Pnronne Joined Mon 01/11/10 Posts: 17	Mon 01/11/10 07:49 PM
Oh and by the way, If a man has to say hes a "nice guy" 80 % of the time he doubts it himself. Just like a person that doesnt lie, is never heard telling people "dude, i dont lie" Honesty and the ability to be nice goes without saying.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Mon 01/11/10 07:49 PM
Look, coming from a guy, it isn't about being a prick, or being nice. But it does take balls to actually just tell the girl you are interested. And so what if she isn't into you? HELLO!!! Their is a more deserving chick out their who will be so awesome, that the rejection you went through will long be forgotten. UGH! Seriously. If I can go out, have chicks hit on me, then anyone can, okay??? LOL! very well said my friend ! that's is b.s. sorry. i know this really fat guy I mean fat who is married and told me the same scoop. Well explain why then i am not horrible looking actually kind of handsome and yet suffer and never get any ladies...... Ok...first of all...never doubt my wisdom. Second...my opinion, you lack confidence sir. A woman can smell it a mile away, and if she does, she aint gonna be intersted. And, you don't have to be a prick man. You just have to be confident in your ability. You do that...then yeah...you will score...haha! Fellow I aint sorry I am who i am i am confident Yes indeed I am not trying to blow sunshine down anyone's as.. I am honest and real is real it is what it is and this is for the gal also I have no idea what you just said. figures Kirk, I'm not tryin to pick on you. You asked the question and I answered. I know what you're trying to say. You just aren't being very clear.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 01/11/10 07:49 PM
Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself! And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult. OMG....Marry me!

Pnronne Joined Mon 01/11/10 Posts: 17	Mon 01/11/10 07:50 PM Edited by Pnronne on Mon 01/11/10 07:51 PM
Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself! And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult. i think I love you....LOL just kidding...good point tho, Most guys that cry "nice guys finish last" just arent that good at being bad. they are bitter. OMG goof did we post that at the same time...LOL

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Mon 01/11/10 07:50 PM
Why can't guys just be nice and not a push over? Know when not to fight and know when to say no, damnit I'm standing up for myself! And know when you just be quiet, drink your beer, eat your dinner, and give me all the sex I want. Seriously, it's not that difficult. well said i give credit where credits due!

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 01/11/10 07:50 PM
Nice guys are only nice off their own merit therefore no one else agrees with them...usually a "nice guy" is just a pushover that is always in agreeance with the other party (e.g. women). No one likes a whiny pushover nor do many people really want to deal with them...the only thing I can figure when someone says they are a "nice guy" is that they want a silver plate handed to them with a golden spoon. Grow up for crying out loud the only person holding you back from getting a girlfriend is you, that's right, you.