I think that the nice guys are invisible because they simply don’t exist. I have met a few guys so said they were the nice guy and said that nice guys always finish last, but in my experience saying you’re a nice guys is simply a way of saying look I am a dick and am going to treat you like your are less than worthy of my attention cause I am a ‘nice guy.’ Nice guys shouldn’t claim to be the nice guy because I automatically assume they are an ***. Do women label themselves? I’ve never said oh well I’m considered a nice girl or a good girl.