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Topic: guys answer this one please
chillywillow's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:47 PM
been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:52 PM
It's the male equivalent of a 'cleavage shot'.laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:55 PM

been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.

RKISIT's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:56 PM
cause they are proud of their $35 a month fee

chillywillow's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:56 PM


been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.


but maybe some women care more about their smile

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:58 PM



been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.


but maybe some women care more about their smile


Usually, the guys that post that type of pic are young dudes who don't much care about what the woman wants. They are just looking to hook up with the " hottie " and figure that putting " long term " makes them more appealing when combined with the " sexy " body.

vacavillebob's photo
Sat 11/14/09 03:59 PM
Its like in the animal kingdom. The male stuts his stuff trying to get the female aroused for mating.

The problem is you can only beleive half of what they say and nothing of what they do haha.

sinbadd's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:00 PM
People in general are like peacocks showing off there feathers to attract like minded birds?

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:00 PM

been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Well, women do like to look at a dude if he has a good looking bod. I don't have that, so therefore I don't post pics of my "average" bod and "non" six pack abs. But I do have a large......

Anyways, the answer could be a multitude of things. Some guys just like to show off. Some guys are lying in there profile, and they want a fling or something like that. Eh..I dunno. Did I mention I have a large......

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will1488's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:00 PM
ha hahahahahahaha well when you look good you look good

RKISIT's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:02 PM
men show their chest cause they can....but for some reason in america body parts that dangle are a no no...excluding vaginas even though some of them donoway

chillywillow's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:02 PM


been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Well, women do like to look at a dude if he has a good looking bod. I don't have that, so therefore I don't post pics of my "average" bod and "non" six pack abs. But I do have a large......

Anyways, the answer could be a multitude of things. Some guys just like to show off. Some guys are lying in there profile, and they want a fling or something like that. Eh..I dunno. Did I mention I have a large......

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yes , you mentioned that twice lol, ty for sharing that with all of us, lol

chillywillow's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:06 PM
just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:23 PM
No biggie to me!!

I never see the kind I like though!

Hairy!!:heart:

no photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:27 PM
okay let me shuffle thru my pics and then post!

Scrittore's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:28 PM

just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?


Stop trying to be rational Chilly, it's no wonder you don't understand their behaviour!

But in fairness to them, bars are terrible places to go looking for a woman. Everyone's too guarded.

krupa's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:29 PM



been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.


but maybe some women care more about their smile


True.....the problem with that theory is.....THIS IS EARTH.

Women are every bit as visually oriented as guys are. Sure, tastes in personal decorum may vary.....but from my experience......women like flesh.

Scrittore's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:29 PM

No biggie to me!!

I never see the kind I like though!

Hairy!!:heart:


Hooray for Gossipmpmlove

Jill298's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:30 PM
they may as well add photos of them beating their chests "uug, I am man"

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 11/14/09 04:31 PM
I don't assume that a shirtless guy is only looking for one thing. There are guys with shirts looking for one thing too lol. But not all guys fall in these categories.

I look at it as they are trying to catch someone's eye to make that contact to get to know someone. Similar to women using leg or cleavage shots. JMO

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