Topic: guys answer this one please
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Sat 11/14/09 04:31 PM

People in general are like peacocks showing off there feathers to attract like minded birds?


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Sat 11/14/09 04:32 PM
Edited by ronny4dating on Sat 11/14/09 04:35 PM
I have done this both ways! When my pictures where at a distance and really just showed someone i got nothing but shallow older women looking for a free lunch! so i tried close ups of my face and body with shirt off and found genuine people interested only in me and not what i have. so yes it is probably about physical attraction but that was the actual results. Not to mention my email blew up over night so it was expediant as well! So it absolutely works to the power of 10! I dont think attraction is wrong in any persuasion and we all have our different wants and desires. yours happens to be different than others thats all.

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Sat 11/14/09 04:36 PM




been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.


but maybe some women care more about their smile


Usually, the guys that post that type of pic are young dudes who don't much care about what the woman wants. They are just looking to hook up with the " hottie " and figure that putting " long term " makes them more appealing when combined with the " sexy " body.


well the women i met before these pics where shallow and havent dated one since so go figure?

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Sat 11/14/09 04:38 PM

been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.


Hmmm....maybe they are really poor...and cannot afford a shirt. Naw, I'm gonna go with they're just goofy, egocentric and shallow. And maybe MOST women looking for a serious relationship should avoid them! Kind of the same reason I never took a girl home to mom and said, "Wow, mom, look at her t***!"
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Sat 11/14/09 04:40 PM

I have done this both ways! When my pictures where at a distance and really just showed someone i got nothing but shallow older women looking for a free lunch! so i tried close ups of my face and body with shirt off and found genuine people interested only in me and not what i have. so yes it is probably about physical attraction but that was the actual results. Not to mention my email blew up over night so it was expediant as well! So it absolutely works to the power of 10! I dont think attraction is wrong in any persuasion and we all have our different wants and desires. yours happens to be different than others thats all.


ok but why not a close up of you with a shirt on? i mean what was the purpose of this pic? just asking

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Sat 11/14/09 04:42 PM
Edited by skanktricil on Sat 11/14/09 04:42 PM

No biggie to me!!

I never see the kind I like though!

Hairy!!:heart:


waving hi!

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Sat 11/14/09 04:42 PM
They are getting their pimp on lol

laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 11/14/09 04:45 PM


No biggie to me!!

I never see the kind I like though!

Hairy!!:heart:


waving hi!




Hey!bigsmile

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Sat 11/14/09 04:48 PM



No biggie to me!!

I never see the kind I like though!

Hairy!!:heart:


waving hi!




Hey!bigsmile


<slides up next to Gossipmpm> hey cutie how U doin??

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Sat 11/14/09 04:48 PM

just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?



Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!

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Sat 11/14/09 04:53 PM
hhhmm maybe they are just tring to show what they have inorder to attract attention...I myself do not feel it necessary to do this. As far as the corelation of one night stands and long term relationships....I do not think that this is realy true....It could be that you might just have been unlucky in your picks in that they wanted only one night stands yet say they want long term commitments. Try not to give up on us there are some of us that are geniune in our intentions and mean what we post and what we say...:smile:

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Sat 11/14/09 04:55 PM


just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?



Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!


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u got nothing to be ashamed of and you don't need to validate what u do or the reason u do them to anyone. keep doin ur thing. i kno if i had a body i could show off i would. i'm working on it but i'm not quite there yet. close.

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Sat 11/14/09 04:55 PM


I have done this both ways! When my pictures where at a distance and really just showed someone i got nothing but shallow older women looking for a free lunch! so i tried close ups of my face and body with shirt off and found genuine people interested only in me and not what i have. so yes it is probably about physical attraction but that was the actual results. Not to mention my email blew up over night so it was expediant as well! So it absolutely works to the power of 10! I dont think attraction is wrong in any persuasion and we all have our different wants and desires. yours happens to be different than others thats all.


ok but why not a close up of you with a shirt on? i mean what was the purpose of this pic? just asking


i have a few pics showing all of me as i am no apologies thats it! Why is it okay to judge me? I am just different, i am not looking for a good girl! I am not attracted to good girls! I like girly girls that strut there stuff and have an attitude! I like a challenge and the thrill of the chase! Hell i am little off the wall and perverted! But you know making assumptions is wrong!

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Sat 11/14/09 04:56 PM


just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?



Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!


ummmm ok dude lol no need to get all nutty , i only asked you a simple question, and you answered it after alot of ....self reflection, you like women to look at you and desire you, i didnt say there was anything wrong with that, just asked, a question, no need to get so defensive,

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Sat 11/14/09 04:58 PM
How do ya get a booty call from this site??

I'd have to travel at least 4 hours!!!!bigsmile

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Sat 11/14/09 05:00 PM

How do ya get a booty call from this site??

I'd have to travel at least 4 hours!!!!bigsmile
Tammy....have you looked localy in your area?? All you have to do is asklaugh

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Sat 11/14/09 05:07 PM



just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?



Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!


ummmm ok dude lol no need to get all nutty , i only asked you a simple question, and you answered it after alot of ....self reflection, you like women to look at you and desire you, i didnt say there was anything wrong with that, just asked, a question, no need to get so defensive,



was not all intended for you was intended to respond to the entries of the thread as a whole. But what you said was pretty biased and offensive and not a mere question. but it's cool no harm done just hit a nerve! You know if you met me you would be suprised i work in a suit five days a week and i'm quite intelligent and social. mingle is my vent hang out! sick of being wanted for money i want real substance of all persuasions physical is only one of them i want! But the suit and i am a good boy profile is golddigger heaven!

skanktricil's photo
Sat 11/14/09 05:08 PM

How do ya get a booty call from this site??

I'd have to travel at least 4 hours!!!!bigsmile


waving hi, remember me?

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Sat 11/14/09 05:10 PM


How do ya get a booty call from this site??

I'd have to travel at least 4 hours!!!!bigsmile


waving hi, remember me?
Its in the water !!

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Sat 11/14/09 05:14 PM




just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?



Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!


ummmm ok dude lol no need to get all nutty , i only asked you a simple question, and you answered it after alot of ....self reflection, you like women to look at you and desire you, i didnt say there was anything wrong with that, just asked, a question, no need to get so defensive,



was not all intended for you was intended to respond to the entries of the thread as a whole. But what you said was pretty biased and offensive and not a mere question. but it's cool no harm done just hit a nerve! You know if you met me you would be suprised i work in a suit five days a week and i'm quite intelligent and social. mingle is my vent hang out! sick of being wanted for money i want real substance of all persuasions physical is only one of them i want! But the suit and i am a good boy profile is golddigger heaven!
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well not sure about your profile being gold digger heaven, i looked at it and it seemed pretty honest and upfront to me. and i didnt mean to be biased or offend anyone, but some guys that have a shirtless pic show them on the beach, fishing etc... normal shirtless pics, the ones i meant were pics that were taken for the sole purpose of showing off their bodies to get attention. or a booty call. and just so ya know some of us older gals are not shallow and i took offense to that. now dont go off on me again , we are discussing this not trying to start a war, lol