why don't we discuss booty calls instead?

was not all intended for you was intended to respond to the entries of the thread as a whole. But what you said was pretty biased and offensive and not a mere question. but it's cool no harm done just hit a nerve! You know if you met me you would be suprised i work in a suit five days a week and i'm quite intelligent and social. mingle is my vent hang out! sick of being wanted for money i want real substance of all persuasions physical is only one of them i want! But the suit and i am a good boy profile is golddigger heaven!
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well not sure about your profile being gold digger heaven, i looked at it and it seemed pretty honest and upfront to me. and i didnt mean to be biased or offend anyone, but some guys that have a shirtless pic show them on the beach, fishing etc... normal shirtless pics, the ones i meant were pics that were taken for the sole purpose of showing off their bodies to get attention. or a booty call. and just so ya know some of us older gals are not shallow and i took offense to that. now dont go off on me again , we are discussing this not trying to start a war, lol

Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes!

I have done this both ways! When my pictures where at a distance and really just showed someone i got nothing but shallow older women looking for a free lunch! so i tried close ups of my face and body with shirt off and found genuine people interested only in me and not what i have. so yes it is probably about physical attraction but that was the actual results. Not to mention my email blew up over night so it was expediant as well! So it absolutely works to the power of 10! I dont think attraction is wrong in any persuasion and we all have our different wants and desires. yours happens to be different than others thats all.

Well, women do like to look at a dude if he has a good looking bod. I don't have that, so therefore I don't post pics of my "average" bod and "non" six pack abs. But I do have a large......

Anyways, the answer could be a multitude of things. Some guys just like to show off. Some guys are lying in there profile, and they want a fling or something like that. Eh..I dunno. Did I mention I have a large......

Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs.

It was like a lil sausage.....

He is telling you that you are a friend. But he is also keeping the lines of communication open with you in case things with the other woman fall through. And, I do not mean this in that he is trying to be an a-hole. He would only be that if he told you things like he was really into you, or that the felt that something could materialize between the two of you. If he were professing love for you, and then mentioned this other woman, then it would show you that he has you on the backburner. Hope that makes sense.

what i look for is a woman that represents all of the positive values that i feel a woman should represent as a mother a daughter and a potential wife and on the top of that list should be self respect and dignity and family values and intellegence because i feel that these qualities as well as many others that a woman posesses represent strength