Topic: Some women .
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Tue 11/03/09 03:37 PM

well maybe it's ur hairdo, and all that latin u speak that nets u a nun...flowerforyou


Well, from your posts on here, it's obvious no one has ever referred to you as a nun, have they?flowerforyou

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Tue 11/03/09 03:38 PM

Me no likey. Pet names from strangers are condescending, IMO.


Really? People you don't know throw terms such as that your way?

*Incredible*

(I'm thinking the OP was referring to using the term on
women he knows rather well - I *assume* that :)


What's with the sarcasm, sir? Considering this is a dating site, I'm assuming the OP meant he called someone "hun" in an email and she didn't respond favorably. Do you know something I don't?

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Tue 11/03/09 03:39 PM

Hahahaha!!! fancy seeing you lot here! LMAO!tongue2 rofl


Hi Jess........flowerforyou

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Tue 11/03/09 03:39 PM
Ohhh heck people in the south call ya hon, sweetie , baby ect just terms of endearment. As long as they are not cursing me I can deal with it.....bigsmile :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 11/03/09 03:40 PM
id like 2 get exercised. how do ya do it?love

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Tue 11/03/09 03:41 PM

Hahahaha!!! fancy seeing you lot here! LMAO!tongue2 rofl


Hey, lady! flowerforyou This thread has a familiar ring to it, don't you think? ;)

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Tue 11/03/09 03:42 PM

Some women find the word " hun " offensive . Are they justified or are they nuts ?. Your opinions as sincere as you can...:wink: .
I hear it more from the ladies, usually directed towards men :smile:

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Tue 11/03/09 03:42 PM
bigsmile I like hun

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Tue 11/03/09 03:44 PM

Ohhh heck people in the south call ya hon, sweetie , baby ect just terms of endearment. As long as they are not cursing me I can deal with it.....bigsmile :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


There ya go! (he said, in his best Southern accent)laugh

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Tue 11/03/09 03:48 PM
well to answer all of ya...
l. i never was a nun, but ive been called a hun, maybe cause i was one at one time. being a nun, however, has it's advantages in this day and age. so i might try that at a later date....tho i am not one now.
2. sorry u wanted to exorcise someone not exercise them. i believe that one means to pull the devil out of you, while pushing u 2 the limits, and trying to raise your cardiovascular rate. right?
3. i checked. hun or hon is the right way to spell a term of endearment used with either sex.
4. so for all u huns, hons, or hunks a burning love, whatever keeps u happy....drool drool flowers

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Tue 11/03/09 03:48 PM
Edited by centered on Tue 11/03/09 03:48 PM


Me no likey. Pet names from strangers are condescending, IMO.


Really? People you don't know throw terms such as that your way?

*Incredible*

(I'm thinking the OP was referring to using the term on
women he knows rather well - I *assume* that :)


What's with the sarcasm, sir? Considering this is a dating site, I'm assuming the OP meant he called someone "hun" in an email and she didn't respond favorably. Do you know something I don't?


I wasn't being sarcastic ... the OP never put his original thought
into perspective ... I *assume* he was talking about talking like
that with someone he knows *outside* this site ... personally.

Sorry I asked :(

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Tue 11/03/09 03:49 PM

Some women find the word " hun " offensive . Are they justified or are they nuts ?. Your opinions as sincere as you can...:wink: .


I like being called a "hun". Because I'm a Hun. Like Attila. :wink:

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Tue 11/03/09 03:50 PM

id like 2 get exercised. how do ya do it?love



Oh good question. Maybe we should ask for a teacher :wink:

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Tue 11/03/09 03:50 PM

id like 2 get exercised. how do ya do it?love


You start by spelling it correctly: exorcise. tongue2

Duffy, I have no idea why you care so much about why I don't like men calling me hun, but that's your problem not mine. As far as I know, you're not a man, so you shouldn't care one way or another if it annoys me. And if you were a man, for several reasons, you'd have no reason to refer to me as anything but my screen name on here, but whatever.

I'm an adult and I live in America, and I have a right to find a term offensive, just like you have a right to think it's acceptable. I also have a right to respond to a post on here honestly without being insulted or made fun of. Maybe you meant it in jest, but I find it rather classless and rude to call someone a nun just because she thinks it's tacky for strange men use familiar terms with her. What works for you doesn't work for me, and that should be cool.

Like I've told other people who've tried to chastise me, if my replies are rude, feel free to report me, but I'd rather not swap words with someone I don't know and don't care to. I come on here for fun, not to be made uncomfortable. I'm off this thread now. You have a wonderful rest of the evening, hon.

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Tue 11/03/09 03:53 PM
MAYBE if someone I knew very well called me “hon” I might consider NOT cutting his vocal cords. :laughing:

Pet names are only endearing when two people know each other well – and only then should the names be original and specific to that person.

Hon, babe, baby, et al, are homogenized, general, thoughtless, and lazy. whoa

I really detest nicknames from someone I don’t know. Its sounds smarmy and cheap. slaphead

I happen to like my name over nicknames anyway. A few try to call me Mel. rant I am NOT Mel and if they knew me appropriately they would know I hate Mel. winking

My name is Melody! :banana:

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Tue 11/03/09 03:55 PM


i think the spelling is "hon" not "hun" which is like atilla the hun...
and i have a gf that calls me "hon". it is a term of endearment i hope.
why would i be affended unless someone said "ur a *****, hun", then i would sad orrant or maybe slaphead then again i couldrofl

I saw it in some chat rooms as hun so I have no idea if it is hun or hon the correct one .


As with most slang and text-speak -- "hon" is misspelled as "hun".

Hon as in honey! slaphead

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Tue 11/03/09 03:57 PM



Me no likey. Pet names from strangers are condescending, IMO.


Really? People you don't know throw terms such as that your way?

*Incredible*

(I'm thinking the OP was referring to using the term on
women he knows rather well - I *assume* that :)


What's with the sarcasm, sir? Considering this is a dating site, I'm assuming the OP meant he called someone "hun" in an email and she didn't respond favorably. Do you know something I don't?


I wasn't being sarcastic ... the OP never put his original thought
into perspective ... I *assume* he was talking about talking like
that with someone he knows *outside* this site ... personally.

Sorry I asked :(



LOL, don't be sorry! I'm just messing around. I had NO idea what you meant, or how to take your comment, so I was just goofing off. laugh

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Tue 11/03/09 03:58 PM

a lot of people I know say hun/hon. I say it all the time


I do to, well I say honey especially to the younger ones. Babe is for my one day significant other:wink:

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Tue 11/03/09 04:00 PM


Me no likey. Pet names from strangers are condescending, IMO.


Really? People you don't know throw terms such as that your way?

*Incredible*

(I'm thinking the OP was referring to using the term on
women he knows rather well - I *assume* that :)


What's with the sarcasm, sir? Considering this is a dating site, I'm assuming the OP meant he called someone "hun" in an email and she didn't respond favorably. Do you know something I don't?

Agreed .
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: .

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Tue 11/03/09 04:00 PM
Edited by tohyup on Tue 11/03/09 04:01 PM
Sorry double post....huns....hons.....etc......laugh .