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My girlfriend and me just broke up a bit ago... its hard to cope from having someone you're so close with, you spend so much time with, to having no one. Weekend nights are the worst. Thought I'd make a post and see if people out there are doin better or have any tips :(
I'm thomas btw :( |
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the only chance to see better days is to keep living
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My girlfriend and me just broke up a bit ago... its hard to cope from having someone you're so close with, you spend so much time with, to having no one. Weekend nights are the worst. Thought I'd make a post and see if people out there are doin better or have any tips :( I'm thomas btw :(  welcome and good luck  Why did you and your girlfriend break up?
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So sorry this happened...getting through it takes time...just keep yourself busy and your mind occupied....Mingle is a great help if you stay in the forums and talk...it does get better....and keep in mind....it only means there are bigger and better things ahead for you and that each person that touches our lives is there to teach us something...it may take awhile to figure out what it was....but you will see it some day. Good luck
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Thank you all for the kind replies.. I need all the kindness I can get. I haven't been this down on myself for a while. It may sound stupid, but I feel really unattractive lately. I feel like somethings wrong with the way I look or something, because the reason we broke up wasn't really clear. She kind've said we moved too fast, but mostly just didn't have enough in common. Our careers were worlds apart. She said she didn't think we'd last.
Such a shame, and it was crazy of her too... cuz that whole day, she was telling me how much she likes me, how much she wants to be with me right now... she made plans with me for the 16th and 30th, then broke up with me. Seriously screwed with me.. hard.. |
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Just jump into the forums and meet everyone...you won't be sorry...have some fun and good luck
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you can drive yourself crazy trying to figure out "what went wrong" i assure you its her not you...
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Thomas,
Thing sometimes just don't work out between 2 people. You are a very attractive young man, and I am really sure that you will move on to a better relationship. As another person said, you can drive yourself crazy trying to figure out the 'why'. Sometimes there is no reason, it just IS. Keeping busy and around your friends helps, but also just taking time to think positively to yourself helps. As in, "Things WILL get better, I just need to take a step back and give it time." Also, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to have 60 days with NO contact with her. You will feel much better at the end of it and more ready to move on. Maybe take this time to learn or do something new. Get involved in something that catches your attention, take a chance and try something new. Much luck to you. |
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Welcome
Tammy 
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Thomas, Thing sometimes just don't work out between 2 people. You are a very attractive young man, and I am really sure that you will move on to a better relationship. As another person said, you can drive yourself crazy trying to figure out the 'why'. Sometimes there is no reason, it just IS. Keeping busy and around your friends helps, but also just taking time to think positively to yourself helps. As in, "Things WILL get better, I just need to take a step back and give it time." Also, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to have 60 days with NO contact with her. You will feel much better at the end of it and more ready to move on. Maybe take this time to learn or do something new. Get involved in something that catches your attention, take a chance and try something new. Much luck to you. you are a good person.. thank you for typin out what you did, and the compliment. as well as the good advice :) hope you get some very good things out of life |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Fri 10/09/09 05:48 PM
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Thank you all for the kind replies.. I need all the kindness I can get. I haven't been this down on myself for a while. It may sound stupid, but I feel really unattractive lately. I feel like somethings wrong with the way I look or something, because the reason we broke up wasn't really clear. She kind've said we moved too fast, but mostly just didn't have enough in common. Our careers were worlds apart. She said she didn't think we'd last. Such a shame, and it was crazy of her too... cuz that whole day, she was telling me how much she likes me, how much she wants to be with me right now... she made plans with me for the 16th and 30th, then broke up with me. Seriously screwed with me.. hard..  She sounds sort of immature ,or perhaps she liked someone else ,or seen something about you that caused her to change her her mind about you. Still,sort of sudden. That sounds weird of her to be telling you all day how she liked you and then breaks up with you suddenly. What did you two do that day?
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I.. think she was just immature or something... because she would go on and on about how much she liked this and that, and how much she wanted to be in my arms all night, and how she'd rather be with me than her friends... then we broke up.
and we didn't do anythin that day. i literally was having a normal, good flirty conversation then had to go because i was in class. then next thing i know, she breaks up with me. I had an exam that I couldn't take because I couldn't focus. I wanted to try to come up with a valid reason for her behavior.. but I just can't come up with one.. she was kind of insecure about her looks.. so some of the people closest to me say she may have been intimidated by me. but i am down on my looks as a result of this all, so its hard for me to accept that excuse.. |
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I.. think she was just immature or something... because she would go on and on about how much she liked this and that, and how much she wanted to be in my arms all night, and how she'd rather be with me than her friends... then we broke up. and we didn't do anythin that day. i literally was having a normal, good flirty conversation then had to go because i was in class. then next thing i know, she breaks up with me. I had an exam that I couldn't take because I couldn't focus. I wanted to try to come up with a valid reason for her behavior.. but I just can't come up with one.. she was kind of insecure about her looks.. so some of the people closest to me say she may have been intimidated by me. but i am down on my looks as a result of this all, so its hard for me to accept that excuse.. From what you are saying it sounds like she is immature. Almost like a teenager mentally. The way she acted is so highschool
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Thank you for all the replies mirror. I think you're very correct. I just wish things could've been different. She said all these kind things, made all these plans... it just didn't add up. I'm going to have to just accept something may have been wrong with HER..
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Sorry you are hurting. Know that you can only be who you are and who you are is enough.
Welcome
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Weird how she just broke up with you all of a sudden. But best thing you can do bro is not rack your brain trying to figure out what went wrong. Just gotta move on hang with your friends or find something to do that will keep your mind off of her. Thats how I got over my last gf.
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My girlfriend and me just broke up a bit ago... its hard to cope from having someone you're so close with, you spend so much time with, to having no one. Weekend nights are the worst. Thought I'd make a post and see if people out there are doin better or have any tips :( I'm thomas btw :( Having a is just part of life and yes it does hurt. You just have to keep your chin up and keep living life. I have been down that road before and all I did was think "Hey life goes on", I keep saying to myself that there is someone out there for me and we will find each other when the time is right. 
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Thank you for all the replies mirror. I think you're very correct. I just wish things could've been different. She said all these kind things, made all these plans... it just didn't add up. I'm going to have to just accept something may have been wrong with HER.. It takes 2 people to make or break a relationship. Whether it's your fault or her fault, at the end it doesn't matter. You'll realize this after a while and get in peace with yourself too. It will take time, there is no other medicine for it. Just hold on and look forward. Right now you think, that the whole world went down in a nose dive, but later you'll see that you just opened a whole lot more possibilities that you didn't have before. |
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i feel ya boss...
old saying goes when one door closes another will soon open, keep your head up and let nature take its course |
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