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Fri 10/09/09 08:16 PM
you have some awesome eyes.

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Fri 10/09/09 06:18 PM
Edited by ThomasX on Fri 10/09/09 06:18 PM
Trust me, no matter how attractive you or me may be, there will always be people who think we aren't. No one is immune to this hah.

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Fri 10/09/09 06:00 PM
Thank you for all the replies mirror. I think you're very correct. I just wish things could've been different. She said all these kind things, made all these plans... it just didn't add up. I'm going to have to just accept something may have been wrong with HER..

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Fri 10/09/09 05:54 PM
I.. think she was just immature or something... because she would go on and on about how much she liked this and that, and how much she wanted to be in my arms all night, and how she'd rather be with me than her friends... then we broke up.

and we didn't do anythin that day. i literally was having a normal, good flirty conversation then had to go because i was in class. then next thing i know, she breaks up with me. I had an exam that I couldn't take because I couldn't focus.

I wanted to try to come up with a valid reason for her behavior.. but I just can't come up with one.. she was kind of insecure about her looks.. so some of the people closest to me say she may have been intimidated by me. but i am down on my looks as a result of this all, so its hard for me to accept that excuse..

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Fri 10/09/09 05:43 PM

Thomas,

Thing sometimes just don't work out between 2 people. You are a very attractive young man, and I am really sure that you will move on to a better relationship. As another person said, you can drive yourself crazy trying to figure out the 'why'. Sometimes there is no reason, it just IS.

Keeping busy and around your friends helps, but also just taking time to think positively to yourself helps. As in, "Things WILL get better, I just need to take a step back and give it time." Also, one of the best things you can do for yourself is to have 60 days with NO contact with her. You will feel much better at the end of it and more ready to move on.

Maybe take this time to learn or do something new. Get involved in something that catches your attention, take a chance and try something new.

Much luck to you.



you are a good person.. thank you for typin out what you did, and the compliment. as well as the good advice :)
hope you get some very good things out of life

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Fri 10/09/09 05:36 PM
Edited by ThomasX on Fri 10/09/09 05:37 PM
I mean I'm straight and everything but you seem like a nice looking, outgoing guy... you'll find the right one

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Fri 10/09/09 05:22 PM
Edited by ThomasX on Fri 10/09/09 05:22 PM

don't change a thing!!!!! wow your stunning


thank you, truly for the kindness.... i hope you know you brightened my night..

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Fri 10/09/09 05:19 PM
Hello everyone, I recently just went through a breakup... kind've down on myself.. well, hell, I'm very down on myself.. the reason I made this topic, is because I have kind've been doubting my looks since the breakup, and I want to hear if there is something I should be aware of.. somethin I can change, to make myself better.......

gah, im kindve a mess right now cuz of things. really sucks goin from a relationship to single..

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Fri 10/09/09 05:13 PM
hey im new here too man...... best wishes, hope you find everything you want out've it..

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Fri 10/09/09 04:59 PM
Thank you all for the kind replies.. I need all the kindness I can get. I haven't been this down on myself for a while. It may sound stupid, but I feel really unattractive lately. I feel like somethings wrong with the way I look or something, because the reason we broke up wasn't really clear. She kind've said we moved too fast, but mostly just didn't have enough in common. Our careers were worlds apart. She said she didn't think we'd last.

Such a shame, and it was crazy of her too... cuz that whole day, she was telling me how much she likes me, how much she wants to be with me right now... she made plans with me for the 16th and 30th, then broke up with me. Seriously screwed with me.. hard..

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Fri 10/09/09 04:31 PM
My girlfriend and me just broke up a bit ago... its hard to cope from having someone you're so close with, you spend so much time with, to having no one. Weekend nights are the worst. Thought I'd make a post and see if people out there are doin better or have any tips :(

I'm thomas btw :(