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Topic: Ask Texas Scoundrel.
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Mon 10/05/09 05:56 PM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Mon 10/05/09 06:02 PM
Another forum poster thought it would be a fun idea for me to answer any questions about meeting, mingling, attracting and dating. So, if any of you would like advice from a serial dater, fire away. I'll be here all night.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:00 PM
Edited by TxsSun on Mon 10/05/09 06:02 PM
Never mind

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Mon 10/05/09 06:03 PM

Never mind


Too bad I was about to post an answer for you.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:05 PM
If a guy says he likes me but doesn't show it what does that mean?


I expect a good answer here:banana:

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Mon 10/05/09 06:07 PM
Where's the Milk????


:wink: laugh

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Mon 10/05/09 06:08 PM
laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 10/05/09 06:09 PM
Dear Dr. Phil,
How do you get rid of stalker and psychopath?

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Mon 10/05/09 06:10 PM

If a guy says he likes me but doesn't show it what does that mean?


I expect a good answer here:banana:


Your question is a little vague. Can I please have more information?

Is it that he says he likes you, but is dating is dating someone else?

Or is he a shy guy perhaps?

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Mon 10/05/09 06:10 PM

Dear Dr. Phil,
How do you get rid of stalker and psychopath?


Call the cops.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:20 PM


If a guy says he likes me but doesn't show it what does that mean?


I expect a good answer here:banana:


Your question is a little vague. Can I please have more information?

Is it that he says he likes you, but is dating is dating someone else?

Or is he a shy guy perhaps?

I guess he is shy, but I want a guy that tells me some romantic stuff SOMETIMES...He says he likes me but doesn't act it...He has no excitement, no feeling, no PASSION!!

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Mon 10/05/09 06:22 PM


Never mind


Too bad I was about to post an answer for you.


How were you going to answer without a question? :tongue:

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Mon 10/05/09 06:29 PM

I guess he is shy, but I want a guy that tells me some romantic stuff SOMETIMES...He says he likes me but doesn't act it...He has no excitement, no feeling, no PASSION!!


Some men are self consciuos abut showing their feelings. It doesn't mean they don't have them. If you try to talk to him abut it he will only feel more uncomfortable about it.

He may change, but likely not for a long time. You must decide if this is a deal breaker for you or just annoying. If you really can't take it you should leave. f it's just annoying, get used to it. Whenever you want emotion from him an d don't get it hug him and say "I love you more every day."

But, this is a relationship question. From here on out I'm only answering questions about dating and attracting.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:30 PM
I'm still waiting.....

Honey....bigsmile



Where's the milk? huh

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Mon 10/05/09 06:32 PM

How were you going to answer without a question? :tongue:


I was going to say that you know where he eats lunch. You should go there and show (not tell) him exactly why you would be a better woman for him than his current wife is. You must fulfill his needs better than she does. If you can do this he you can have him all to yourself.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:35 PM
Wow.

Personally, I think you are asking for a lot of smart *** comments, but I'll throw you a softball.

I've been dating this woman for a couple weeks. This coming weekend, we have plans for an all-day date on Saturday (some home-town festival, in her town). That night is an "Oktoberfest" in my town, which neither one of us has been to before, but both would like to go.

Too much for one day/4th date?

We are very into each other, so far, but no sex yet.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:36 PM


I guess he is shy, but I want a guy that tells me some romantic stuff SOMETIMES...He says he likes me but doesn't act it...He has no excitement, no feeling, no PASSION!!


Some men are self consciuos abut showing their feelings. It doesn't mean they don't have them. If you try to talk to him abut it he will only feel more uncomfortable about it.

He may change, but likely not for a long time. You must decide if this is a deal breaker for you or just annoying. If you really can't take it you should leave. f it's just annoying, get used to it. Whenever you want emotion from him an d don't get it hug him and say "I love you more every day."

But, this is a relationship question. From here on out I'm only answering questions about dating and attracting.

Thanx for the help and input:smile:

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Mon 10/05/09 06:39 PM
Edited by Modela on Mon 10/05/09 06:40 PM


Dear Dr. Phil,
How do you get rid of stalker and psychopath?


Call the cops.

I did but the cops said, there is nothing they can do especially if the person did not hurt me physically. They said, all i can do is get a restraining order for both of these trouble maker in my life... what else I can do besides RO?

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Mon 10/05/09 06:43 PM


How were you going to answer without a question? :tongue:


I was going to say that you know where he eats lunch. You should go there and show (not tell) him exactly why you would be a better woman for him than his current wife is. You must fulfill his needs better than she does. If you can do this he you can have him all to yourself.


Now you know that isn't going to happen.

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Mon 10/05/09 06:44 PM

Wow.

Personally, I think you are asking for a lot of smart *** comments, but I'll throw you a softball.

I've been dating this woman for a couple weeks. This coming weekend, we have plans for an all-day date on Saturday (some home-town festival, in her town). That night is an "Oktoberfest" in my town, which neither one of us has been to before, but both would like to go.

Too much for one day/4th date?

We are very into each other, so far, but no sex yet.


Great question!

No, I don'think it would be too much. I like to plan dates that last 10 hours or more. I'd suggest you have her meet you at your place. Then when she arrives invite her in, but only for a few minutes. Then you drive her to your date. If things are going well go ahead and take her to the second location.

After that drive her back to your place and invite her in to watch a movie or something. It's time to put the moves on her. If you don't make your move pretty soon you'll end up with a "friend."

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Mon 10/05/09 06:46 PM

Now you know that isn't going to happen.


The advice is good. It's up to you if want to take it or not.

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