What do you want to know? "Can you help me?" is too general.

I've been getting attention from younger men (way too young to even think about). They tend to be persistent, not pushy, just persistent. Is there a way to tell them no that they will "get"? Or does it just take repitition?

This is a little off topic. But, I'll try to help you.

As I told someone yesterday, telling someone no often causes them to want you even more. Just tell them to leave you alone or you'll call the cops. And you have to mean it.

Mr Scoundrel, I have a serious question. I had lunch with someone who has been interested in me for the last 3 years and finally asked me out. Anyway, he is not exactly my "type" and I am not sure I find him physically attractive at all, but he is very rich. Apparently he has thought a lot about me over these 3 years, and wants me to travel with him, and he has numerous homes around the world.

So, I am honestly torn between giving him a chance and walking away right now. He is rather overweight and really doesn't do it for me physically. But, he is very caring and has a heart of gold.
Hey, and the wealth doesn't hurt, if you know what I am saying.
Do I give him a chance and just deal with the intimacy issue, or do I start running now?
What to do....what to do

If you choose to go with him you will only end up hating him and longing for someone that will touch you in that special place deep inside. But, if you go with him you won't have to worry about money ever again.

This is a tough call. You have to decide what is most important to you and ask yourself if you feel you could get a better man.

You are right, it is a tough call. I just need to be true to myself and look at what I truly want. I am torn, but I know when I ask myself if he didn't have a dime would I be with him, the answer is no. Thank you for what you said, I appreciate it.

Very good point! You didn't need me.

:) Damn, I wish I were just superficial and able to live with it!! lol

I have about two hours left before I start my weekend. Are there any other questions?

Whatchya doing this weekend Scoundrel?

I must confess i was curious about that too....how many dates does a serial dater already have lined up at the beginning of a weekend. or does he just wing it?

Oh no, he usually has them lined up.
Shoot, my hands are fasting than my brain tonight

Tomorrow I'm going to a party. I do this every Thursday.

No firm plans for Friday yet. But Saturday I'm going to a gallery showing in downtown FTW.

Sunday I do the household chores.

I don't really "date" anymore. I have a very full life. I simply invite women to come along with me where ever I'm going.

That's cool. I think people get too focussed on the whole dating thing and miss out on alot along the way.

I agree. I'm going to have fun if I have a date or if I'm going out alone.

I don't date either.

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Isn't it funny that we are all saying this on a "dating" website!

It is kinda odd, however I really don't.

you're probably a lot happier that way!