Topic: Ask Texas Scoundrel.
Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 10/05/09 06:48 PM
Because I don't look or act my age I seem to attract much younger men.

I have never dated them..seems strange to me.

What is a REASONABLE age difference? And don't say age doesn't matter..

because it does to some degree.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 06:49 PM

what else I can do besides RO?


Get used to them hanging around.

LewisW123's photo
Mon 10/05/09 06:51 PM


Wow.

Personally, I think you are asking for a lot of smart *** comments, but I'll throw you a softball.

I've been dating this woman for a couple weeks. This coming weekend, we have plans for an all-day date on Saturday (some home-town festival, in her town). That night is an "Oktoberfest" in my town, which neither one of us has been to before, but both would like to go.

Too much for one day/4th date?

We are very into each other, so far, but no sex yet.


Great question!

No, I don'think it would be too much. I like to plan dates that last 10 hours or more. I'd suggest you have her meet you at your place. Then when she arrives invite her in, but only for a few minutes. Then you drive her to your date. If things are going well go ahead and take her to the second location.

After that drive her back to your place and invite her in to watch a movie or something. It's time to put the moves on her. If you don't make your move pretty soon you'll end up with a "friend."


Thanks, that is kinda what I was thinking, but it is good to hear it from "the master." I'll send you an email next week and let you know how it went.

TxsSun's photo
Mon 10/05/09 06:55 PM
I don't feel well and I would like
my friend to come cuddle with me and
bring me soup. Will he expect something
in return?

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:01 PM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Mon 10/05/09 07:13 PM

Because I don't look or act my age I seem to attract much younger men.

I have never dated them..seems strange to me.

What is a REASONABLE age difference? And don't say age doesn't matter..

because it does to some degree.


Another great question!

Id say look at the two of you and ask yourself if you look appropriate together. Demi is more that a few years older than Aston, but when I see a photo of them, they look good together.


TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:02 PM

I don't feel well and I would like
my friend to come cuddle with me and
bring me soup. Will he expect something
in return?


I wouldn't.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:04 PM
Edited by wannacuddlewthme on Mon 10/05/09 07:05 PM
My babysitter has gone a little too far letting me know she would like to(you should know what i mean)How should i tell her no/without losing the only sitter i got

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:10 PM

My babysitter has gone a little too far letting me know she would like to(you should know what i mean)How should i tell her no/without losing the only sitter i got


Buy her glasses.

Sorry couldn't resist.

I think your best bet is to just find another baby sitter. The more you tell her no the more she'll long for you.

"Tell a woman she can't join your club and she'll do almost anything to get in"

Groucho Marx

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:14 PM


My babysitter has gone a little too far letting me know she would like to(you should know what i mean)How should i tell her no/without losing the only sitter i got


Buy her glasses.

Sorry couldn't resist.

I think your best bet is to just find another baby sitter. The more you tell her no the more she'll long for you.

"Tell a woman she can't join your club and she'll do almost anything to get in"

Groucho Marx
Your funny.Can't get another one.I'll bring up the glasses though

Gator76's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:17 PM
I'm flying to New Orleans on Thursday and will meet a woman there for the first time...we have plans - if it goes well - for a few days, including the French Quarter, great dinners, the Florida-LSU football game on Saturday in Baton Rouge, and all the fun that is N'awlins. Written her 25 emails...talked on the phone first time yesterday..and she sounds lovely. Question: I'm talking to a couple of women online here...something just doesn't seem right about not telling them I'm seeing someone else...I haven't had a date with these women...but could likely see one of them soon. Of course, if they see this it probably won't matter!frustrated Should I tell them I have a multi-day date?

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:18 PM


Because I don't look or act my age I seem to attract much younger men.

I have never dated them..seems strange to me.

What is a REASONABLE age difference? And don't say age doesn't matter..

because it does to some degree.


Another great question!

Id say look at the two of you and ask yourself if you look appropriate together. Demi is more that a few years older than Aston, but when I see a photo of them, they look good together.




I get what your saying..this is real life not Hollywood.
As long as I don't look like their mom...I suppose is what your saying.
Ashton and Demi are like 15 years apart..something like that.

TxsSun's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:22 PM


I don't feel well and I would like
my friend to come cuddle with me and
bring me soup. Will he expect something
in return?


I wouldn't.


But you are working.ohwell

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:23 PM

I'm flying to New Orleans on Thursday and will meet a woman there for the first time...we have plans - if it goes well - for a few days, including the French Quarter, great dinners, the Florida-LSU football game on Saturday in Baton Rouge, and all the fun that is N'awlins. Written her 25 emails...talked on the phone first time yesterday..and she sounds lovely. Question: I'm talking to a couple of women online here...something just doesn't seem right about not telling them I'm seeing someone else...I haven't had a date with these women...but could likely see one of them soon. Of course, if they see this it probably won't matter!frustrated Should I tell them I have a multi-day date?


I don't think you need to tell them yet. Just make sure they understand that you are not in a mutually exclusive relationship with any of them. Tell them that it takes time and you want to be sure before you make any kind of commitment. There is no reason to lie.

Gator76's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:25 PM


I'm flying to New Orleans on Thursday and will meet a woman there for the first time...we have plans - if it goes well - for a few days, including the French Quarter, great dinners, the Florida-LSU football game on Saturday in Baton Rouge, and all the fun that is N'awlins. Written her 25 emails...talked on the phone first time yesterday..and she sounds lovely. Question: I'm talking to a couple of women online here...something just doesn't seem right about not telling them I'm seeing someone else...I haven't had a date with these women...but could likely see one of them soon. Of course, if they see this it probably won't matter!frustrated Should I tell them I have a multi-day date?


I don't think you need to tell them yet. Just make sure they understand that you are not in a mutually exclusive relationship with any of them. Tell them that it takes time and you want to be sure before you make any kind of commitment. There is no reason to lie.


I don't lie..so this confirms my feelings. Thanks.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:25 PM

But you are working.ohwell


Well, you could stay sick until Thursday.

no photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:39 PM
... Hmmm ... OK, I've got one ...

Whatcha gonna do w/ that epic crush on Dancere ... :tongue: ...

:angel: ... Lil stanker here ... I just can't resist an easy openin' and head messin' ... smokin

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:49 PM

... Hmmm ... OK, I've got one ...

Whatcha gonna do w/ that epic crush on Dancere ... :tongue: ...

:angel: ... Lil stanker here ... I just can't resist an easy openin' and head messin' ... smokin



Don't be solipsistic.

no photo
Mon 10/05/09 07:56 PM


... Hmmm ... OK, I've got one ...

Whatcha gonna do w/ that epic crush on Dancere ... :tongue: ...

:angel: ... Lil stanker here ... I just can't resist an easy openin' and head messin' ... smokin



Don't be solipsistic.


... Make me ... :laughing: ... or not ... tongue2

TxsSun's photo
Tue 10/06/09 12:07 PM
Ok, I think we need to fill this up before he gets back laugh laugh

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:08 PM

Ok, I think we need to fill this up before he gets back laugh laugh


Well, I am back and there's nothing here. But, again I'm here all night.