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Stalking is fun! I'm not sitting behind my PC at home though. I've got a blackberry duece daisychained to a blackberry pearl with bluetooth and auto dictation transmitting over satcom. Look out your window!
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BOO!
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BOO! no i dont remember you but you should send me a private message and inform me cuz i might knwo what your talking about....but....i know you arnt outside cuz my neighbors would be out there in a heartbeat.....i have very protective neighbors..... |
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problem with this....is i have been cheated on by every guy i have dated except one...some say its the guys i pick...but honestly i have dated all types of guys...bad boys to good guys....yet they all cheat....and it has always been with girls younger then me....this last particular one he had younger older didnt matter but there were a lot...i only know about 7 but im sure there are more....im not looking for sympathy...just answers because i cant figure it out on my own anymore.... Kayla...viewed your profile for clues on why this seems to happen to you with such regularity. Some might suggest that it isn't due to the kind of guys you choose to become intimate with. It's your generation. 
IMHO, many of us here on mingle2 who are a bit older than you (I'm 49...)are continually dismayed by the apparent widespread degradation of morals and character which seems to escalate with every new generation. There are shining contradictions to this in many individuals who make the news. 
Incidently, have you read the news lately? How many sports figures are in trouble with the law? How many celebrities are celebrities simply because of their looks, ABILITY to be determined later (Megan Fox...can she actually ACT? We'll see...), and how many of them behave badly in public?  And how many who CONSUME the "products" of these various celebs PUNISH said behavior by BOYCOTTING THEM?
What do they do instead? THEY BUY MORE OF THEIR CDS, TICKETS TO THE EVENTS THEY APPEAR IN, ETC.  This is a telling factor.
However, in contrast to other nations who actually REVERE those who are older and quite possibly a bit more wise, THE OPPOSITE is true in this country. We worship youth and beauty, and to be old is to be ignored. 
...and you're being constantly cheated on... 
Funny old world, ain't it? 
POSSIBLE SOLUTION: Get involved in community service...services for the elderly, the disabled, the homeless...and seek your new man in these environments. It's a start. 
VERY well put. |
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ok - i'll give it a shot. men and women cheat for the same basic reason. they are not happy in their relationship. Short, but very accurate and truthful. This usually is the case. And it does not mean you are the one at fault, it could he is the one with the problem, caused by any number of his own personal demons. He may even have doubt or remorse for not being good enough to you, so he wallows in debauchery. Totally inexcusable, but a reason, nonetheless. |
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Having read all of this stuff, I'm drawing the conclusion that you are too adult for a guy your age, and not really in a good way.
We're talking about young guys who are still trying to have as much fun as possible. All of that crap about responsibility and getting the bills paid is like nails on a chalkboard to your average twenty-something guy (probably a lot of girls too). It isn't even about sex or any of that "spreading your genes" caveman s**t. You are busy living the way adults are supposed to do in a rational world, but expecting a relationship from people who have yet to reach that level of maturity. If you're busting your arse to support yourself, it's great for your fiscal success, but it can be hell on a relationship unless the man in your life is as responsible...and understanding. The fact is, the way you live (admirable though it is) is probably pretty overwhelming for the guys you have dated. Why they cheat their way out of it is another matter. I would agree with the notion that the coarsening of our culture has a lot to do with that. There's a lot of poison out there, and I suspect that most people under 25 have bought it and scarfed it with out reading the label. Changing THAT will probably take an act of God. All the best. |
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Edited by
chrissy613
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Sun 09/20/09 11:12 PM
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. A bit creepy don't ya think? Either you have an interest in her or, I just don't know what the or could be... But seriously, a bit creepy...just my perspective... If you see someone finding that much out about you on mingle think about how much the government knows about you, lol. Well it kinda isn't funny................
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Hey.............
Can I join the club? I just found out my best friend was having sex with my girlfriend........ do I get a pin or a ring or something? |
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. A bit creepy don't ya think? Either you have an interest in her or, I just don't know what the or could be... But seriously, a bit creepy...just my perspective... If you see someone finding that much out about you on mingle think about how much the government knows about you, lol. Well it kinda isn't funny................
Ummm...you needed to read further.... and LHB was only reciting what Kayla had posted on the site.... and he knows her personally... they have met... |
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Men, or women cheat because they want to.
They want everything that comes along with CHEATING.. Noone does anything they dont want to do.. noone puts a gun to their heads.. It has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them. Anyone can leave a relationship. Noone has to stay. If your so awful.. why they stickin around? |
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. A bit creepy don't ya think? Either you have an interest in her or, I just don't know what the or could be... But seriously, a bit creepy...just my perspective... If you see someone finding that much out about you on mingle think about how much the government knows about you, lol. Well it kinda isn't funny................
Ummm...you needed to read further.... and LHB was only reciting what Kayla had posted on the site.... and he knows her personally... they have met... O thanks for clarifying. Sorry guys! Take care! |
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Hey............. Can I join the club? I just found out my best friend was having sex with my girlfriend........ do I get a pin or a ring or something? I'm sorry to hear that. It just goes to show woman do it too...obviously..wow.. I am actually kinda speechless... 
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It's ok. My best friend was also a lesbian, that looked like a cross between PeeWee Herman and Slim Shady.... My X, well she was gorgeous to be honest and this was the first time she ever let me down, she was a good woman..... key word...WAS.
That's just life though ............right? |
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Dude, that really sucks. Thats like a double kick in the nuts. I wish I knew what to say.
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. A bit creepy don't ya think? Either you have an interest in her or, I just don't know what the or could be... But seriously, a bit creepy...just my perspective... If you see someone finding that much out about you on mingle think about how much the government knows about you, lol. Well it kinda isn't funny................
Ummm...you needed to read further.... and LHB was only reciting what Kayla had posted on the site.... and he knows her personally... they have met... actually we have never met.....but why would someone go through all that trouble to look at my posts from 2007??? that is a little creepy....he doesnt know me personnally |
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First i would like to state that all men don't cheat, i think anyone that cheats is a coward, i myself have never cheated, mainly because of my beliefs if you are having problems in a relationship, then try to work them out, if unable to work out your problems, then you don't belong in that relationship.
Cheating is a lot of times a childish act in order to get back at the other person. if you cheat, you are not truly in love with the other person. Another reason i don't cheat, i don't have to lie to the other person,then tell more lies to cover the other lies, people need to just grow up and act like responsible adults, instead of teenagers. |
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. A bit creepy don't ya think? Either you have an interest in her or, I just don't know what the or could be... But seriously, a bit creepy...just my perspective... If you see someone finding that much out about you on mingle think about how much the government knows about you, lol. Well it kinda isn't funny................
Ummm...you needed to read further.... and LHB was only reciting what Kayla had posted on the site.... and he knows her personally... they have met... actually we have never met.....but why would someone go through all that trouble to look at my posts from 2007??? that is a little creepy....he doesnt know me personnally STALKER STATUS !!! |
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problem with this....is i have been cheated on by every guy i have dated except one...some say its the guys i pick...but honestly i have dated all types of guys...bad boys to good guys....yet they all cheat....and it has always been with girls younger then me....this last particular one he had younger older didnt matter but there were a lot...i only know about 7 but im sure there are more....im not looking for sympathy...just answers because i cant figure it out on my own anymore.... Kayla...viewed your profile for clues on why this seems to happen to you with such regularity. Some might suggest that it isn't due to the kind of guys you choose to become intimate with. It's your generation.
IMHO, many of us here on mingle2 who are a bit older than you (I'm 49...)are continually dismayed by the apparent widespread degradation of morals and character which seems to escalate with every new generation. There are shining contradictions to this in many individuals who make the news.
Incidently, have you read the news lately? How many sports figures are in trouble with the law? How many celebrities are celebrities simply because of their looks, ABILITY to be determined later (Megan Fox...can she actually ACT? We'll see...), and how many of them behave badly in public? And how many who CONSUME the "products" of these various celebs PUNISH said behavior by BOYCOTTING THEM?
What do they do instead? THEY BUY MORE OF THEIR CDS, TICKETS TO THE EVENTS THEY APPEAR IN, ETC. This is a telling factor.
However, in contrast to other nations who actually REVERE those who are older and quite possibly a bit more wise, THE OPPOSITE is true in this country. We worship youth and beauty, and to be old is to be ignored.
...and you're being constantly cheated on...
Funny old world, ain't it?
POSSIBLE SOLUTION: Get involved in community service...services for the elderly, the disabled, the homeless...and seek your new man in these environments. He's likely out there even now, delivering "meals on wheels" to the sick and disabled, seeking out those homeless who require medical attention... ...and he hopes to meet a girl just like YOU one day soon! 
It's a start.
VERY well put. biglife: Thanks. |
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Cheating is Unacceptable, and the end of the relationship.
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