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He's 24, you're 20. To be perfectly honest and blunt, neither one of you have grown up yet....probably him arguably more than you at this point. Exactly................ 
I know I am only 20 and I dont claim to know everything. I have a lot more to know and experience but just because I am only 20 also does not mean that I am immature...honestly I am more immature then some 30,40,50 year olds....i have my life together more then they do... why am i on a dating site? what kind of question is that....i joined this site over 2 years ago...and I dont really date anyone from here but getting into the forums and getting advice and meeting new people is always good. In this day and age its all about who you know not what you know, and you need to start networking as early as you can. Otherwise you will never survive. I havnt been on here in a long time....unless i have a message then i just tell them im in a relationship but thank you for your interest...last night was the first time I had logged in on this site in a long time.... |
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I have to bring this up..... I read this thread.... I read it again... Ok...ready? Somewhere in here you said every guy you have dated has said you were the best girlfriend....AFTER they had broken up with you...and they don't know why they let you go.... You also said...every guy has cheated on you...(except one?). Ok....here comes the tough bit..... What's the common denominator in all those relationships? YOU. You are the 'problem' you are having with men not wanting to be monogomous. Are you clingy? Over attentive? Completely compliant? Emotionally dependent? A really neat way of someone getting the hint, that 'I am just not that into you anymore'....is to have sex with someone else..sometimes it's the ONLY thing the dependent one will hear/see/accept...that it is over. Think about it. This keeps happening to YOU. Hmmmm......So do something different to what you always do....to get a different result to what you are always getting. I think I'd have to agree. The last guy I was with. The first person I think I fell in love with, did something pretty messed. He would do everything pretty much for me to break up with him. SO I am assuming. It's so f'd because I talked to him about a year later and he said, what's wrong with you I wanted to marry you when I found out you were pregnant. I know, I know...I'm one of society's statistic..young, single, teen mom. Anywho, I was a "clingy" person, and became quite dependant on him. IT's messed, cuz when I became more independant thats when things went "ape-s-hit!" I guess my point is...well some guys(and girls)do whatever for you to break up with them. Including cheating!!! |
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My husband cheats because one person cant make another person happy 100 percent of the time in 100 percent of their lives. Some people just cant suck it up and wait for the next happy time.
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Get rid of the cheater magnet in your purse. A lesson in humility is worth the effects of learning to be humble. Simple physics. For every action there's a reaction.
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dont act like you know me....you know nothing about me, who I am, or where i come from .....i can see why you have never been married.... ....uh huh. I know everything about you. Its all in your profile and in your posts. I know more than I want to know thank you. You've volunteered way too much information. Your vanity and behavior traits proceeds you. Good luck and god bless. |
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dont act like you know me....you know nothing about me, who I am, or where i come from .....i can see why you have never been married.... you dont know everything about me i can guarantee you that...nor do you sound like the type of person i would want to know everything about me....you didnt come in to this thread to give advice and if you did that is not what you ended up doing.... |
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there are some things in life that there is no black and white answer. and this would be one of them. there can be many reasons, but non of the reason are what you want to hear or need to hear. so just chalk it up to a life experience and keep your head up your heart open. good luck
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I didn't cheat on you. But everyones told you the justifications and ramifications. You're in denial. Not me. Good luck. God bless.
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im not in denial....infact he sent me a txt today and said he was sorry if he hurt me...fact is he didnt hurt me....i have come to the realization that i never really cared about him like i think i did if it didnt hurt when i caught him making out with a girl at the bar last night...i didnt cry i had no emotion....i didnt care...i just thouht i hope he doesnt play her like he did me...
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Your favorite song is 'I'm yours' by jason mraz.
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Your car got stolen back in the end of 08.
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Your favorite song is 'I'm yours' by jason mraz. that song used to be my favorite song....and yes my car was stolen...that is no longer my favorite song...and i have a new car now....did you find that anywhere |
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Your birthday is february 11th. The day before my dads.
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Your birthday is february 11th. The day before my dads. just because you know some things about me does not mean that you know who i am as a person or know everything about my life.... |
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you.
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Edited by
kaylas1515
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Sun 09/20/09 06:42 PM
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You wear thongs, and you failed 4 out of 5 classes at your community college, and your parents refused to help you. still doesnt mean you know me....and that was 2 years ago all that happend....people change i hope you know that....and i only failed 3 out of 5 i later found out...and it was cuz i partied way toooooo much....also i havnt talked to my parents since then.... |
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Why do guys feel the need to cheat? Why do they think they can get away with it and that the female will never find out? I know girls cheat too...but im looking for what goes on in a guys mind... People that cheat are weak |
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Your parents own a garlic farm and it takes you 2 hours to do your hair.
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Your parents own a garlic farm and it takes you 2 hours to do your hair. that still does not mean you know who i am quit wasting your time trying to figure out who i am....and it takes me two hours when i curl it like that....and make sure to check the dates on what your finding about me.... |
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I know you. I know you well. Inside and out kayla. We've met. We have mutual freinds. And I'm finding this all very funny that you don't remember. And your defensive angry posture is cute.
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