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I'm not your type, trust me on this.  That's O.K., not many are. |
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Edited by
Buttah
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why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Exactly! I will add that if you "think" you are interested in someone, and they are not "interested" in you, then it is not the person for you. Get it???? Perhaps this is a "sign" that you need to look at why you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, and maybe change that. "If the student is ready, the teacher will appear" The end. |
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why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Exactly! I will add that if you "think" you are interested in someone, and they are not "interested" in you, then it is not the person for you. Get it???? Perhaps this is a "sign" that you need to look at why you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, and maybe change that. "If the student is ready, the teacher will appear" The end. I was mulling over the type of guy I'm attracted to last night. It was a very sobering experience.  
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I'm a nice guy...really
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I'm a nice guy...really 
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why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Exactly! I will add that if you "think" you are interested in someone, and they are not "interested" in you, then it is not the person for you. Get it???? Perhaps this is a "sign" that you need to look at why you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, and maybe change that. "If the student is ready, the teacher will appear" The end. I was mulling over the type of guy I'm attracted to last night. It was a very sobering experience. We all can really take a closer look at this topic Nice? hmmm. Nice is an okay word, just overused, I think. How about "Pleasant" ? lol " I ride a Harley and I am a pleasant man to know" ?? |
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why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Exactly! I will add that if you "think" you are interested in someone, and they are not "interested" in you, then it is not the person for you. Get it???? Perhaps this is a "sign" that you need to look at why you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, and maybe change that. "If the student is ready, the teacher will appear" The end. I was mulling over the type of guy I'm attracted to last night. It was a very sobering experience. We all can really take a closer look at this topic Nice? hmmm. Nice is an okay word, just overused, I think. How about "Pleasant" ? lol " I ride a Harley and I am a pleasant man to know" ?? Still like 'edible'... |
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Nice guys are the guys women always say they want to be with. But, when you meet them you just don't feel the spark. So, you move on to a differant kind of guy that nice guys would call a "jerk." Women of course don't see him as a jerk. He challanges women. Women don't know what's going on in his head. He is a mystery. He pulls women in with one hand while pushing them away with the other. He doesn't care if a woman likes him because he knows there are plenty of women and the next one may.
Because he desires nothing from women they give him everything. It's like a Zen Koan. |
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Nice guys are the guys women always say they want to be with. But, when you meet them you just don't feel the spark. So, you move on to a differant kind of guy that nice guys would call a "jerk." Women of course don't see him as a jerk. He challanges women. Women don't know what's going on in his head. He is a mystery. He pulls women in with one hand while pushing them away with the other. He doesn't care if a woman likes him because he knows there are plenty of women and the next one may. Because he desires nothing from women they give him everything. It's like a Zen Koan. I don't trust 'nice' guys...... I can smell the agenda cloaked in chivalrous, charming pretension a mile away. Give me the bloke who says what he means....asks what he wants, and gets to the point. If he be seen as a jerk by others....that's their loss...they want the game playing pretender....I want the real man. |
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why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Exactly! I will add that if you "think" you are interested in someone, and they are not "interested" in you, then it is not the person for you. Get it???? Perhaps this is a "sign" that you need to look at why you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, and maybe change that. "If the student is ready, the teacher will appear" The end. I was mulling over the type of guy I'm attracted to last night. It was a very sobering experience. We all can really take a closer look at this topic Nice? hmmm. Nice is an okay word, just overused, I think. How about "Pleasant" ? lol " I ride a Harley and I am a pleasant man to know" ?? Still like 'edible'... some people are too bitter to be truly edible though
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They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates  What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards." SO would this be saying that they should just take what they can get and be happy with it?? Been there and done that. I was completely freakin miserable. |
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Geez a nice guy just can't get a break can he?
No wonder the nice guys think they have to be jerks... 
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Heh.
I'm nice....most of the time. But I'm not gonna sit there and take a load of crap from anyone. Does that make me enough of a " jerk "?? lol |
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They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards." SO would this be saying that they should just take what they can get and be happy with it?? Been there and done that. I was completely freakin miserable. If you're not willing to take what you can get, you shouldn't complain about being alone. I might decide I want to date a certain guy who has made it quite clear he has no romantic interest in me at all. Do I throw a hissy fit and decide all men are jerks, and I'm a "nice girl" who deserves a good man? Hell, no, I go find a guy who appreciates me for who I am and quit my b!tching. I'm single right now partially because I like it and partially because I don't want the kind of guy I have access to, but I'm not complaining about it. If you take what you can get and you're miserable, and then you stay alone and you're still miserable, either way you're f*cked, you might as well have companionship. Get what I'm sayin'? |
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Heh. I'm nice....most of the time. But I'm not gonna sit there and take a load of crap from anyone. Does that make me enough of a " jerk "?? lol I don't think so..I'm not gonna take any crap either, does that make me a b!tch?? 
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Heh. I'm nice....most of the time. But I'm not gonna sit there and take a load of crap from anyone. Does that make me enough of a " jerk "?? lol so be content alone, and not complain, that's my point. "nice guys" are always whining about being single. if being single was the worst of the two evils (the other being not having their "dream girl") they shouldn't mind not having exactly what they want. i don't care about being single, and it doesn't bother me, but if it did, i'd suck it up and get what i could, not constantly whine about what i can't have. |
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They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards." SO would this be saying that they should just take what they can get and be happy with it?? Been there and done that. I was completely freakin miserable. If you're not willing to take what you can get, you shouldn't complain about being alone. I might decide I want to date a certain guy who has made it quite clear he has no romantic interest in me at all. Do I throw a hissy fit and decide all men are jerks, and I'm a "nice girl" who deserves a good man? Hell, no, I go find a guy who appreciates me for who I am and quit my b!tching. I'm single right now partially because I like it and partially because I don't want the kind of guy I have access to, but I'm not complaining about it. If you take what you can get and you're miserable, and then you stay alone and you're still miserable, either way you're f*cked, you might as well have companionship. Get what I'm sayin'? Yep. Totally get it. Good thing I'm not miserable being alone...lol 
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They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards." SO would this be saying that they should just take what they can get and be happy with it?? Been there and done that. I was completely freakin miserable. If you're not willing to take what you can get, you shouldn't complain about being alone. I might decide I want to date a certain guy who has made it quite clear he has no romantic interest in me at all. Do I throw a hissy fit and decide all men are jerks, and I'm a "nice girl" who deserves a good man? Hell, no, I go find a guy who appreciates me for who I am and quit my b!tching. I'm single right now partially because I like it and partially because I don't want the kind of guy I have access to, but I'm not complaining about it. If you take what you can get and you're miserable, and then you stay alone and you're still miserable, either way you're f*cked, you might as well have companionship. Get what I'm sayin'? Yep. Totally get it. Good thing I'm not miserable being alone...lol thank you!! that's all i'm saying. glad someone gets me on here. |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Wed 09/02/09 10:06 PM
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Heh. I'm nice....most of the time. But I'm not gonna sit there and take a load of crap from anyone. Does that make me enough of a " jerk "?? lol I don't think so..I'm not gonna take any crap either, does that make me a b!tch?? Not as far as I am concerned. The " b!tch " is the one that throws around the crap and expects the guy to sit there and take it...lol |
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They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards." SO would this be saying that they should just take what they can get and be happy with it?? Been there and done that. I was completely freakin miserable. If you're not willing to take what you can get, you shouldn't complain about being alone. I might decide I want to date a certain guy who has made it quite clear he has no romantic interest in me at all. Do I throw a hissy fit and decide all men are jerks, and I'm a "nice girl" who deserves a good man? Hell, no, I go find a guy who appreciates me for who I am and quit my b!tching. I'm single right now partially because I like it and partially because I don't want the kind of guy I have access to, but I'm not complaining about it. If you take what you can get and you're miserable, and then you stay alone and you're still miserable, either way you're f*cked, you might as well have companionship. Get what I'm sayin'? Yep. Totally get it. Good thing I'm not miserable being alone...lol thank you!! that's all i'm saying. glad someone gets me on here. Pah. You know I do...lol |
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