Topic: Nice guys!
Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:07 AM
I once thought that I knew what 'nice' was. I feel like I am becoming more of an a$$ with each passing day, but maybe I am just tired.

Lately I find myself having to deal with the other person's insecurities in relationships and it's draining the hell out of me.

I have spent a great deal of time alone (single) in the past doing soulsearching etc, making sure any emotional or mental baggage I had was gone out of respect for a future relationship. It would be wonderful to find the same.

Recently, I was in a relationship where the lady said she knows that I would treat her kids right (is that a nice guy?) Later she said that I'm playing it safe because I'm not committing to any responsibility (hmmm maybe that would just make me a dumba$$).


A smart lady said some very wise things in this thread. flowerforyou



I'd advise folks to stop wondering why others don't see how wonderful you are and start focusing on being a better you so that hopefully when that really great person comes into your life, it does'nt get screwed up because of insecurity and baggage.

peace

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Mon 09/07/09 01:11 AM

I once thought that I knew what 'nice' was. I feel like I am becoming more of an a$$ with each passing day, but maybe I am just tired.

Lately I find myself having to deal with the other person's insecurities in relationships and it's draining the hell out of me.

I have spent a great deal of time alone (single) in the past doing soulsearching etc, making sure any emotional or mental baggage I had was gone out of respect for a future relationship. It would be wonderful to find the same.

Recently, I was in a relationship where the lady said she knows that I would treat her kids right (is that a nice guy?) Later she said that I'm playing it safe because I'm not committing to any responsibility (hmmm maybe that would just make me a dumba$$).


A smart lady said some very wise things in this thread. flowerforyou



I'd advise folks to stop wondering why others don't see how wonderful you are and start focusing on being a better you so that hopefully when that really great person comes into your life, it does'nt get screwed up because of insecurity and baggage.

peace


I have tons of insecurities. But I'm not trying to date anyone so they don't cause problems.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:13 AM
i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!

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Mon 09/07/09 01:14 AM

i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!


I just like a man who answers emails, I'm sooo easily pleasedlaugh

Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:18 AM


i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!


I just like a man who answers emails, I'm sooo easily pleasedlaugh


That's really not too much to ask.

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Mon 09/07/09 01:19 AM


i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!


I just like a man who answers emails, I'm sooo easily pleasedlaugh


hell as long and he aint got a Vienna sausage and aint over 32 im happy..hun you just like a guy that known how to form a sentence!laugh

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Mon 09/07/09 01:19 AM



i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!


I just like a man who answers emails, I'm sooo easily pleasedlaugh


hell as long and he aint got a Vienna sausage and aint over 32 im happy..hun you just like a guy that known how to form a sentence!laugh


yep, and that's pretty rare on here.laugh

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Mon 09/07/09 01:20 AM



i like my guys to be evil and crazy and egotistical like me but with a soft side.i dated a guy like that he was perfect except he was a whore.and i was too good for him!


I just like a man who answers emails, I'm sooo easily pleasedlaugh


That's really not too much to ask.


nope, shouldn't be.

Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:20 AM
I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:21 AM

I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


date those body builder chicks

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Mon 09/07/09 01:21 AM

I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh

Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:22 AM


I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:23 AM



I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


lmao well we thought you were having a fetish moment there.

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Mon 09/07/09 01:25 AM




I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


lmao well we thought you were having a fetish moment there.


yeah i thought he fantasized about zena the warrior princesslaugh

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Mon 09/07/09 01:25 AM



I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


oh. so you want a b!tchy woman? that shouldn't be hard to find, tons of them about.

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:25 AM





I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


lmao well we thought you were having a fetish moment there.


yeah i thought he fantasized about zena the warrior princesslaugh


well he cant date her she only likes the puzzy

Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:26 AM




I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


lmao well we thought you were having a fetish moment there.


that would be interesting, but I don't think a voice deeper than mine would turn me on noway

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:27 AM





I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


lmao well we thought you were having a fetish moment there.


that would be interesting, but I don't think a voice deeper than mine would turn me on noway



heck and they dont even have cleavage after a while!noway laugh

Monier's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:28 AM




I'd like to date a woman that is stronger than me. That would be a refreshing change.


like an amazon woman?huh



Oh no, I mean personality laugh


oh. so you want a b!tchy woman? that shouldn't be hard to find, tons of them about.


Now a woman that a man is afraid to tick off, that's hot

southern_bee's photo
Mon 09/07/09 01:29 AM
people know not to mess with me ill cut them laugh