Topic: Do nice guys really finish last?
Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 05:47 AM






AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! scared LOL!!! winking


Shark attack.laugh


More like Jaws!!! dun dun dun dun dun dun!!!! scared

tanyaann's photo
Tue 09/01/09 06:54 AM
Bacon, did someone say bacon?!?! bigsmile Breakfast! laugh

OkieTech1974's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:13 AM
I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:13 AM

Bacon, did someone say bacon?!?! bigsmile Breakfast! laugh


Bacon does sound good but stay away from pork, clogs arteries sick

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Tue 09/01/09 08:15 AM

I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant


You guys just don't get it, do you? And even though it's spelled out in this thread in black and white, you're not using your listening ears. There's a difference between being confident, assertive, and NOT A DOORMAT and being an azzhole. There IS a happy medium and it's not that difficult to find or do. But you guys want to think in terms of black and white, I'm either a doormat or an azzhole. Women don't want EITHER frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:17 AM

I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant


Haha! word!

OkieTech1974's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:18 AM


I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant


You guys just don't get it, do you? And even though it's spelled out in this thread in black and white, you're not using your listening ears. There's a difference between being confident, assertive, and NOT A DOORMAT and being an azzhole. There IS a happy medium and it's not that difficult to find or do. But you guys want to think in terms of black and white, I'm either a doormat or an azzhole. Women don't want EITHER frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
thats a load of BS. You know when a guy stands up for himself no matter what the situation he is an "A" hole.

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:18 AM


I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant


You guys just don't get it, do you? And even though it's spelled out in this thread in black and white, you're not using your listening ears. There's a difference between being confident, assertive, and NOT A DOORMAT and being an azzhole. There IS a happy medium and it's not that difficult to find or do. But you guys want to think in terms of black and white, I'm either a doormat or an azzhole. Women don't want EITHER frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated


And that is exactly why i'm a libra :thumbsup:

Winx's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:18 AM
Doormat - not good!!




Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:21 AM

Doormat - not good!!






Haha! That's too funny ;)

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Tue 09/01/09 08:30 AM



thats a load of BS. You know when a guy stands up for himself no matter what the situation he is an "A" hole.



Oh please. You know, if that's the kind of woman you're running across, you really need to look at your part in this. You are choosing the same type of person to come into your life. THAT'S your responsibility, not any/all women.

Myself, I could never be with someone who let me push him around and wouldn't stand up for himself, with anyone, not just me. And frankly, among my friends, I don't know anyone else like that either.

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Tue 09/01/09 08:36 AM




thats a load of BS. You know when a guy stands up for himself no matter what the situation he is an "A" hole.



Oh please. You know, if that's the kind of woman you're running across, you really need to look at your part in this. You are choosing the same type of person to come into your life. THAT'S your responsibility, not any/all women.

Myself, I could never be with someone who let me push him around and wouldn't stand up for himself, with anyone, not just me. And frankly, among my friends, I don't know anyone else like that either.



I agree, I would never let a woman push me around, only in bed pitchfork

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Tue 09/01/09 08:38 AM

I agree, I would never let a woman push me around, only in bed pitchfork


laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 09/01/09 08:40 AM
Nice guys don't finish last. Nice guys that can't seem to offer anything other than "I'm a nice guy" finish last. The rest of the nice guys, the ones that don't think they're entitled to a relationship just for being nice, actually finish quite well.

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Tue 09/01/09 08:42 AM
What is a Nice Guy ?

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Tue 09/01/09 08:43 AM



I am sure nice guys finish last...perhaps I will stop being nice and try on my "A" hole hat for a while...maybe that will attract women.rant


You guys just don't get it, do you? And even though it's spelled out in this thread in black and white, you're not using your listening ears. There's a difference between being confident, assertive, and NOT A DOORMAT and being an azzhole. There IS a happy medium and it's not that difficult to find or do. But you guys want to think in terms of black and white, I'm either a doormat or an azzhole. Women don't want EITHER frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
thats a load of BS. You know when a guy stands up for himself no matter what the situation he is an "A" hole.


If that's the attitude you have, you'll probably continue to have difficulty attracting women.

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Tue 09/01/09 08:54 AM
Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.

Winx's photo
Tue 09/01/09 08:56 AM

Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.

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Tue 09/01/09 09:08 AM


Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


That said it all.....

the thread is closed.

please move to another communitydrinker

Winx's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:09 AM


Doormat - not good!!






Haha! That's too funny ;)


It's true, though. lol That's what being a doormat feels like, right?