I'm learning new stuff about some guys too!

If nice guys/gals are whiny - low self esteem due to abusive relationships demanding control over another or feeling lost and under appreciated & bad guys/gals are selfish/sly/out for themselves/and are desperate too.

If nice guys are last to get in a relationship because of being too whiny. Then it does have a lot to do with insecurities within themselves. I.E. ( not happy with life, things doesn't go your way, pointing blame on others, not facing and learning from their mistakes .

If the guy is bad. It usually gets boring because its the same attitude every time. I.E. arguing/fighting/never changing for the one he/she choose to stay with. Its always been a control issue with those types.

Also if his/her family isn't connecting and their always rude to people (I only notice bad people being rude to others causing problems because they want attention focus on them) Its very rare when bad/good people has any self control or respect over themselves and can earn the respect of everyone else around them.

Then We all feel the negative/un-positive/unsure truth of who to trust, be friends, and who to fall in love with. The only difference between us all is the sex organs.

I know I am me . Everyone can judge in their own way , but the final choice is left up to me! To change or to be respected for who and what I am .

I thank you all for letting me speak my mind on this subject...