Topic: Do nice guys really finish last?
Irish23468's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:09 AM


Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


Somewhat, but I disagree a little also. I agree with you that the cheater is to blame and not the cheatee, but I also think that being "too nice" for lack of a better term, loses some of the excitement for the woman, while the Ahole creates that excitement. Attraction is attraction, wrong or right as it may be.

I'm not saying this is a definite law or anything, but it has proven true in more than a few of the "relationships" that I've witnessed.

Winx's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:09 AM



Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


That said it all.....

the thread is closed.

please move to another communitydrinker


Thanks.laugh flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:12 AM

Do you have to be a jerk to get what you want?




a jerk will never get ANYTHING from me.

Winx's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:15 AM
Edited by Winx on Tue 09/01/09 09:16 AM



Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


Somewhat, but I disagree a little also. I agree with you that the cheater is to blame and not the cheatee, but I also think that being "too nice" for lack of a better term, loses some of the excitement for the woman, while the Ahole creates that excitement. Attraction is attraction, wrong or right as it may be.

I'm not saying this is a definite law or anything, but it has proven true in more than a few of the "relationships" that I've witnessed.



If the women is a women with morals and is in love with a man, they accept the man for whom they are. If they are cheating because the excitement lessens, that doesn't say much about the woman, IMO.

If that woman wants more excitement, she should have more respect for herself and her partner and end the relationship before pursuing another. Cheating is all about the cheater and not the one being cheated on. It says more about the cheater then the "cheatee".

Every relationship loses some of the excitement eventually. That's because the relationship is maturing. There's different stages in relationships.



no photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:22 AM


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


Somewhat, but I disagree a little also. I agree with you that the cheater is to blame and not the cheatee, but I also think that being "too nice" for lack of a better term, loses some of the excitement for the woman, while the Ahole creates that excitement. Attraction is attraction, wrong or right as it may be.

I'm not saying this is a definite law or anything, but it has proven true in more than a few of the "relationships" that I've witnessed.



If the women is a women with morals and is in love with a man, they accept the man for whom they are. If they are cheating because the excitement lessens, that doesn't say much about the woman, IMO.

If that woman wants more excitement, she should have more respect for herself and her partner and end the relationship before pursuing another. Cheating is all about the cheater and not the one being cheated on. It says more about the cheater then the "cheatee".

Every relationship loses some of the excitement eventually. That's because the relationship is maturing. There's different stages in relationships.





I think the pertinent quote is about morals.

The thing is, where the responsibility lies with the cheatee, if they are consistently being cheated on, they have to figure out why they are choosing the same sort of woman/man, then figure out how to stop that behavior. We all fall guilty of falling for the same "type" of person. But when that type is bad for you, then the responsibility lies on you to change it.

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:33 AM



Depends on what you are going for. Really nice guys usually end up in relationships that last longer but then end up getting cheated on for the Aholes.

Aholes get the more immediate sex but can't get **** for a meaningful relationship.

Being the confident "I'm the man and I don't take **** from anyone", while still acting like a respectful human being is usually your best bet for combining the two worlds together.

And you generally won't get cheated on. No promises.


I don't think that people get cheated on because they're too nice.
The cheater is responsible for the cheating - not the person that they cheated on.


That said it all.....

the thread is closed.

please move to another communitydrinker


yeah I think it's time to rap this up, this topic is long over due. All I wanted was some peoples opinions but I saw where it ended up. grumble

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Tue 09/01/09 09:37 AM



yeah I think it's time to rap this up, this topic is long over due. All I wanted was some peoples opinions but I saw where it ended up. grumble


Welcome to M2 threads! laugh

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:37 AM


Do you have to be a jerk to get what you want?




a jerk will never get ANYTHING from me.


May you live a long and prosper life from jerks flowerforyou

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 09:51 AM




yeah I think it's time to rap this up, this topic is long over due. All I wanted was some peoples opinions but I saw where it ended up. grumble


Welcome to M2 threads! laugh


WHOOOOO HOOOOO!!!!

filmguy777's photo
Tue 09/01/09 10:20 AM
Basically, just don't be easy. Women like challenges so if you sound like you aren't going to be a challenge for them to get to know. Like if they can read you like an open book, you're screwed. Be mysterious, keep them guessing.

tngxl65's photo
Tue 09/01/09 10:23 AM

Basically, just don't be easy. Women like challenges so if you sound like you aren't going to be a challenge for them to get to know. Like if they can read you like an open book, you're screwed. Be mysterious, keep them guessing.


I'm always mysterious, but the duct tape usually scares them away.

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 10:38 AM


Basically, just don't be easy. Women like challenges so if you sound like you aren't going to be a challenge for them to get to know. Like if they can read you like an open book, you're screwed. Be mysterious, keep them guessing.


I'm always mysterious, but the duct tape usually scares them away.


LoL Kinkehhh!!! dude some like that stuff...

lilangel2's photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:00 AM
where's a nice guy?what

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Tue 09/01/09 11:01 AM

where's a nice guy?what
I..........dont............know???what

thumper95's photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:07 AM

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That a way dude

Darknight1981's photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:21 AM

where's a nice guy?what


They all got scared and ran away from this thread rofl

The sharks got to em!!

no photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:40 AM
I always thought a hard man finished last.......forget the nice guys and the bad boys.......devil :tongue: laugh

no photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:43 AM
Edited by IntriguingVictory on Tue 09/01/09 11:46 AM

where's a nice guy?what






smokin

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:44 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Tue 09/01/09 11:44 AM
this thread took a turn for the creepy

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 09/01/09 11:47 AM

this thread took a turn for the creepy


And it didn't even need me.smokin