Topic: Do nice guys really finish last?
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Mon 08/31/09 06:34 AM

drop your head and shoulder and bull your way through it,,, Dammit man,, give a lil gusto in life.


And it is possible to do this without being a complete jackazz, too. Confidence, belief in yourself, being assertive, these are NOT bad traits.

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Mon 08/31/09 06:34 AM
Whining about whiners is still whining about something

Whining is what the majority of people do here just the subject that change

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Mon 08/31/09 06:36 AM
What does it mean "nice guys finish last"?

Finish last at what?

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Mon 08/31/09 06:39 AM
Edited by Darknight1981 on Mon 08/31/09 06:39 AM
"And it is possible to do this without being a complete jackazz, too. Confidence, belief in yourself, being assertive, these are NOT bad traits.
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Nice Suzin winking

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Mon 08/31/09 06:45 AM

What does it mean "nice guys finish last"?

Finish last at what?


Being last at getting what you want, be it a girl or a guy. Usually referring to men "missing out on the opportunity to be with a woman".

Because he whined :laughing:

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Mon 08/31/09 06:46 AM
most situations can be solved in a few very simple ways,, if your a nice guy and you feel like your always last,,, HIT LIFE with a sledge hammer and see what happens to the nice guy image then,

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Mon 08/31/09 06:52 AM

Whining about whiners is still whining about something

Whining is what the majority of people do here just the subject that change

I disagree.What I see so far in this thread are some sound minded ppl.offering this young man some beneficial advice that he will greatly benefit from.There's a huge diff.between whining & informing someone.Yes there are many whiners at this site & much more however your comment is not applicable at the moment.Godspeed!Cy

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Mon 08/31/09 06:58 AM


Whining about whiners is still whining about something

Whining is what the majority of people do here just the subject that change

I disagree.What I see so far in this thread are some sound minded ppl.offering this young man some beneficial advice that he will greatly benefit from.There's a huge diff.between whining & informing someone.Yes there are many whiners at this site & much more however your comment is not applicable at the moment.Godspeed!Cy


As i said before, a lot of the people on this thread had some very valid points that i will take under consideration. I believe that is a part being well informed ;)

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Mon 08/31/09 07:01 AM
I like nice guys! BUT (big butt :laughing: ) I think there is such a thing as "too nice". No one wants a person that is so willing to please that they end up being a doormat. The "Whatever you wanna do", the "I like what you like" and the "I'm flexible for you" guy isn't very attractive because he's willing to compromise himself for someone else. JMO flowerforyou

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Mon 08/31/09 07:30 AM

I like nice guys! BUT (big butt :laughing: ) I think there is such a thing as "too nice". No one wants a person that is so willing to please that they end up being a doormat. The "Whatever you wanna do", the "I like what you like" and the "I'm flexible for you" guy isn't very attractive because he's willing to compromise himself for someone else. JMO flowerforyou


Yeah I agree with that! So I'm seeing the moral of this thread is *DRUM ROLL*.................... Maintaining a Balance? spock

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Mon 08/31/09 08:25 AM
the moral of the story is don't be a pu$$Y

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Mon 08/31/09 10:28 AM

no nice guys do not finish last

they give up halfway and whine about how unfair life is

some people confuse being nice with beiing a doormat


Yep, they stop halfway through the race and complain to the refs that the 'bad guys' are cheating...'bad guy' finishes race while 'nice guy' is still complaining about it.

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Mon 08/31/09 10:31 AM

the moral of the story is don't be a pu$$Y
drinker drinker drinker drinker

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Mon 08/31/09 10:32 AM
or what the marines say: D-BAPhappy

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Mon 08/31/09 10:34 AM
Do nice guys really finish last?


:laughing: they don't even get to start!! :laughing:

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Mon 08/31/09 11:52 AM
I think it's ok to be nice to people, like I tell people though it is ok to bend, you have to be flexible in a relationship, but it is not ok to bend over,a woman like any other person would rather respect a man, would you respect anyone who is trying to always kiss your butt.

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Mon 08/31/09 11:58 AM
"I'm gonna post my drawing I posted before.


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Mon 08/31/09 11:59 AM
yes......nice guys finish last. Unless they throw me up against a wall and kiss me passionately........devil :tongue:

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Mon 08/31/09 12:10 PM

yes......nice guys finish last. Unless they throw me up against a wall and kiss me passionately........devil :tongue:


If they throw you up against the wall and kiss you passionately won't you most likely finish first anyway? :tongue:

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Mon 08/31/09 12:12 PM


yes......nice guys finish last. Unless they throw me up against a wall and kiss me passionately........devil :tongue:


If they throw you up against the wall and kiss you passionately won't you most likely finish first anyway? :tongue:
Im hoping so!!:wink: laugh :tongue: