Topic: Is finding a date based on looks or personality?
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Fri 08/14/09 06:28 PM



i don't date - they are ALL quite crazy, without a doubt! tongue2


nothing wrong with crazy:tongue:


crazy psycho scared


me? oh most definitelyglasses

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Fri 08/14/09 06:28 PM

Well, my computer reads to me what's on the screen. I can type just fine, very fast in fact lol. You can adjust the rate of the speech, so people who are sighted laugh when they hear it because it sounds like jibberish, lol. I guess they're making lots of audio electronics for us blindies now, like talking clocks and timers to for cooking and scales in the bathroom. So I've got lots of things in my apartment that talks lol. I do have to listen to what someone might sound like and get to know them, but it's hard to do that when you have a computer reading a profile, but I don't mind. I've dated from the net before, so that's nothing new I guess. But I do read braille. I had a little bit of vision when I was younger, but not enough to read print, but I could see it if it was really big. So I hope that answers your question.


That is so kewl!!!!!.....like I said before, you probably need to hear their voice or get to know them by interacting them on here.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:29 PM

all about looks for me, I don't care if they are a jerk, they just have to look good being one.


see there's nothing wrong with shallow as long as it walks hand in hand with honesty :wink:

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Fri 08/14/09 06:29 PM


all about looks for me, I don't care if they are a jerk, they just have to look good being one.


see there's nothing wrong with shallow as long as it walks hand in hand with honesty :wink:


LMAO

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Fri 08/14/09 06:29 PM

Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?
its all about finding both looks and personality....wanting your cake and eating it tobigsmile

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Fri 08/14/09 06:29 PM




i don't date - they are ALL quite crazy, without a doubt! tongue2


nothing wrong with crazy:tongue:


crazy psycho scared


me? oh most definitelyglasses


*case rested*

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Fri 08/14/09 06:30 PM


all about looks for me, I don't care if they are a jerk, they just have to look good being one.


see there's nothing wrong with shallow as long as it walks hand in hand with honesty :wink:


finally someone who gets it!!!drinker

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Fri 08/14/09 06:30 PM
Lol I just had to laugh at that reply about people being crazy. Depends on what kind of crazy you mean? lol. But just the way it was said made me laugh. It's laugh always nice to make friends then at least.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:32 PM


all about looks for me, I don't care if they are a jerk, they just have to look good being one.


see there's nothing wrong with shallow as long as it walks hand in hand with honesty :wink:

LMAOrofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl !!!!!!!!!!!!

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Fri 08/14/09 06:32 PM

Lol I just had to laugh at that reply about people being crazy. Depends on what kind of crazy you mean? lol. But just the way it was said made me laugh. It's laugh always nice to make friends then at least.


i mean crazy as in weird, not like the mainstream. i have a thing for men who are considered "weird" by most people.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:33 PM


Lol I just had to laugh at that reply about people being crazy. Depends on what kind of crazy you mean? lol. But just the way it was said made me laugh. It's laugh always nice to make friends then at least.


i mean crazy as in weird, not like the mainstream. i have a thing for men who are considered "weird" by most people.


i have a thing for them too - it's called a penis oops

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Fri 08/14/09 06:35 PM
Oh wow that's interesting. Well then, good luck to you. I do think to, if I wasn't born blind, I probably would think differently than I do now, but there's nothing i can do about that, so I'm glad to be what I am. I'm glad people are expressing they're oppinion. It's interesting to read. lol.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:36 PM



Lol I just had to laugh at that reply about people being crazy. Depends on what kind of crazy you mean? lol. But just the way it was said made me laugh. It's laugh always nice to make friends then at least.


i mean crazy as in weird, not like the mainstream. i have a thing for men who are considered "weird" by most people.


i have a thing for them too - it's called a penis oops


why you dirty dirtylove laugh

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Fri 08/14/09 06:37 PM

Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:45 PM


Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.




Of course there are women who do not want to "domesticate" men. You must be looking in the wrong place.

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Fri 08/14/09 06:47 PM



Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.




Of course there are women who do not want to "domesticate" men. You must be looking in the wrong place.


....Earth....?


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Fri 08/14/09 06:47 PM

Oh wow that's interesting. Well then, good luck to you. I do think to, if I wasn't born blind, I probably would think differently than I do now, but there's nothing i can do about that, so I'm glad to be what I am. I'm glad people are expressing they're oppinion. It's interesting to read. lol.

LMAO... she is so surprised...I wonder what her facial expression was...laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 08/14/09 06:49 PM




Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.




Of course there are women who do not want to "domesticate" men. You must be looking in the wrong place.


....Earth....?




Precisely Lex, you and me are not of this world...we are screwed.shades

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Fri 08/14/09 06:49 PM




Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.




Of course there are women who do not want to "domesticate" men. You must be looking in the wrong place.


....Earth....?





LMAO there lies the problem

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Fri 08/14/09 06:50 PM





Hey guys,
I just wondered since it seems that I'm the only blind person on here, which is ok. But I was wondering when you look for a partner online like this, are you looking for what they look like, or are you trying to get to know them? Of course since I can't see very well I go by personality since I would like to date someone who is a great person, not just by looks. If they're good looking, that's great, but looks aren't everything. I'd rather date someone who's not very good looking, but who is a nice and wonderful person. So I was just wondering what you guys think of this or what your views are?


Looks are a part of it, but then again, I've never been attracted to the kind of girl most guys go after....

But, for me, it was always more about the compatibility, the communication. It wouldn't matter how great she looked; if her only intention was to try to "domesticate" me, I wasn't interested. And since I determined that there isn't anybody who ISN'T that way, I stopped looking.




Of course there are women who do not want to "domesticate" men. You must be looking in the wrong place.


....Earth....?




Precisely Lex, you and me are not of this world...we are screwed.shades


Got that right! -- When your only options are "goat" and "Ward Cleaver," you don't have much to work with....