Topic: Why do so many women take advantage of good guys
LewisW123's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:52 AM

Basically I think we do it for excitement.. Who wants to stay at home all the time doing the same thing day in and day out.. We want fun + the occasional snuggle.. lol


...and then post on here: "why do I always pick the wrong guys?"

snarkytwain's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:58 AM
Edited by snarkytwain on Sun 08/09/09 06:02 AM
What is your definition of "nice guy" and your definition of "bad guy"? huh

ETA:
you don't have to be a "nice guy"....be a strong guy. strong guys beat up bad guys, and get respect from both men and women, and you can just be yourself.....after all, treat people how you want to be treated.....just don't get "puppydog eyes" and you should be Ok.....good luck.....and you may end up with the "best girl"....i did!


WORD!!!! OMG YES YES YES!!!!

... embarassed what..?

Yin, you crack me up! laugh

papersmile's photo
Sun 08/09/09 06:39 AM
Why do so many women take advantage of good guys


why do so many men allow it?

Tootsweet13's photo
Sun 08/09/09 06:55 AM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I want a nice guy who is an animal in the bedroom. Is that too much to ask?

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Sun 08/09/09 07:02 AM


why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I want a nice guy who is an animal in the bedroom. Is that too much to ask?


RRrRRrrRaaaaaaaaAAAAaarrrRRRRRRR devil

Tootsweet13's photo
Sun 08/09/09 07:06 AM



why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I want a nice guy who is an animal in the bedroom. Is that too much to ask?


RRrRRrrRaaaaaaaaAAAAaarrrRRRRRRR devil


YES! I've found him! Online dating DOES work! Thanks, Mingle! laugh

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 08/09/09 08:59 AM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


I think you have confused "nice guy" with "sucker"

no photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:09 AM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?
noway Because WE nice guys let them,,,and they know that WE will never hurt them, or try to.
The bad boys like to be in charge and HANDS on type of guys ,,,so if a lady FEELS she needs a brute, caveman type,,she picks that kind...(although I would suggest some counceling)It might come from their
childhood and something missing or carried over, that never got dicussed?? But I have met so many women who felt they wanted to love and stay with a guy who would be abusive,,it made me sick,,,knowing the women ALL FELT it was SUCH A GREAT LOVE,,,,
But that my take on this,wink...:wink:

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:09 AM

What is your definition of "nice guy" and your definition of "bad guy"? huh

ETA:
you don't have to be a "nice guy"....be a strong guy. strong guys beat up bad guys, and get respect from both men and women, and you can just be yourself.....after all, treat people how you want to be treated.....just don't get "puppydog eyes" and you should be Ok.....good luck.....and you may end up with the "best girl"....i did!


WORD!!!! OMG YES YES YES!!!!

... embarassed what..?

Yin, you crack me up! laugh


:tongue: haha

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:11 AM
Have you hugged a nice guy today

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Sun 08/09/09 09:11 AM
where be these nice guy's one can take advantage off???

gparamore's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:21 AM
what are you people talking about seriously... ... Nice guys are the ones who settle in life you have to be a fighter and a survivor to get what you want even if you have simpler needs and you dont want to be effective in life you still have to be tough ... Treat your women good but dont sit there and put up with all her ********. think about how people are condidtioned if you let someone treat you like **** and dont do anything then ofcourse that is going to happen... they coorilate you with being able to take an emotional dump on your face... Guys dont be fooled by The V ok they are human and will set traps for you to fall in if you arent careful i let my gaurd down but im ready for anything... Just live life dont let ******** keep you from it..

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Sun 08/09/09 10:16 AM
Some of the "nice guys" are just doormats who allow both women and men to take advantage of them.

Happygirl00's photo
Sun 08/09/09 04:46 PM
OK I could be setting myself up for a backlash here..but heyy what the hellll!! lol

Here goes..

I personally am NOT attracted to a man who will let me..or anyone walk all over him...I like a man who is sure enuff of himself and who he is to stand up for himself when hes being taken advantage of. Now, that doesnt mean he should be a loudmouth blowheart either....

I try to treat people how I would like them to treat me...I think if we all did that...would there really be any such thing as bad guys or good guys?

There are definately women out there who get off on the uncertainty of being with the BAD boy...I think that speaks more for the character of the woman then the BAD guy....

Just my thoughts...lol




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Sun 08/09/09 05:43 PM
well as i say in every WEEKLY nice guy thread ill

newarkjw's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:50 PM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


Welcome and may your camel have two humps.......smokin

4974's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:50 PM
gimme a nice guy...and he will be treated like a king

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:52 PM
So it would seem that what women really want, in spite of all the threads by women whining about what a bunch of a holes men are, is a guy who will take them out and show them a good time, smack them around a little bit, father a couple of kids with them, and then leave them for something younger and not all used up??

chevylover1965's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:52 PM
laugh drinker laugh

John1932's photo
Sun 08/09/09 05:55 PM
Edited by John1932 on Sun 08/09/09 05:56 PM

well as i say in every WEEKLY nice guy thread ill

Weekly, where have you been, it is every other day now. LOLgrumble