Topic: Why do so many women take advantage of good guys
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Sun 08/09/09 09:07 PM

If you're hot and nice, I'll like you, if you're ugly and nice, I ignore you. Case closed. No offense. Whatever.
rofl rofl rofl rofl

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:09 PM
Maybe for the same reason so many guys jump out of their britches every time a profile pops up with a girl busting out of her top.

1SexyJerk's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:11 PM

why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?


Oh my friend talk to me and i will change your life! Seriously

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:17 PM
Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. slaphead

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:19 PM

Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. slaphead


Oh come on. You KNOW you ladies all love the a**holes.

You just won't let the nice guys be justified in THINKING it....lol

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:22 PM
Edited by msmyka on Sun 08/09/09 09:23 PM
SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.

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Sun 08/09/09 09:22 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sun 08/09/09 09:23 PM


Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. slaphead


Oh come on. You KNOW you ladies all love the a**holes.

You just won't let the nice guys be justified in THINKING it....lol


that's why they don't like smart guys. They might be able to see through them .

They like dummy ones better. It's illogical, but there is no logic behind why women pick which guys and why, is there? laugh

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Sun 08/09/09 09:24 PM

SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it.


Yeesh. That one kind hit home....lol

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Sun 08/09/09 09:24 PM

SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... ohwell

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:25 PM



Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. slaphead


Oh come on. You KNOW you ladies all love the a**holes.

You just won't let the nice guys be justified in THINKING it....lol


that's why they don't like smart guys. They might be able to see through them .

They like dummy ones better. It's illogical, but there is no logic behind why women pick which guys and why, is there? laugh


Meh. There's no real logic behind why anyone picks ANYONE.

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Sun 08/09/09 09:25 PM

SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.

I totally agree with that.

I usually see a nice guy or girl being treated like dirt by some a-hole or crazy broad and I just think they LET it happen. If you allow people to treat you like that, it's your problem. Personally I refuse. I'm a b!tch like that.
bigsmile

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:28 PM

SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


forgot one thing though. Nice guys usually don't do what 'not nice' guys do. Otherwise they wouldn't be nice. On top of it, nice guys end up marrying or living together for a long time with their loved ones and once they do that, they are out of the dating scene. What you have left over are 'not nice' guys and some nice guys. So you go for the not nice guys. ohwell

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:29 PM


SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... ohwell


Sadly it does, but most would deny it.

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:31 PM


SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


forgot one thing though. Nice guys usually don't do what 'not nice' guys do. Otherwise they wouldn't be nice. On top of it, nice guys end up marrying or living together for a long time with their loved ones and once they do that, they are out of the dating scene. What you have left over are 'not nice' guys and some nice guys. So you go for the not nice guys. ohwell


I don't really follow you on this one ohwell

Monier's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:33 PM

Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. slaphead


Not just COOL, it can be downright FUN :banana:

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Sun 08/09/09 09:34 PM



SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... ohwell


Sadly it does, but most would deny it.


up until i read that post i hadn't thought of it that way.i'm going through my mind and realising that's exactly what i've been doing...
i don't know how to, and i'm scared to try. hence sabotaging relationships and going for bad guys...ohwell

where the heck was msmyka ages ago darnit!! sad

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:35 PM


SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it.


Yeesh. That one kind hit home....lol


I just call em like I see em spock

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Sun 08/09/09 09:36 PM



SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it.


Yeesh. That one kind hit home....lol


I just call em like I see em spock


It was only ONE crazy chick.....twice.....lol

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:36 PM




SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... ohwell


Sadly it does, but most would deny it.


up until i read that post i hadn't thought of it that way.i'm going through my mind and realising that's exactly what i've been doing...
i don't know how to, and i'm scared to try. hence sabotaging relationships and going for bad guys...ohwell

where the heck was msmyka ages ago darnit!! sad



Ages ago??? Yer only 19 for f**ks sake...lol

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/09/09 09:37 PM




SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship.


that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... ohwell


Sadly it does, but most would deny it.


up until i read that post i hadn't thought of it that way.i'm going through my mind and realising that's exactly what i've been doing...
i don't know how to, and i'm scared to try. hence sabotaging relationships and going for bad guys...ohwell

where the heck was msmyka ages ago darnit!! sad



I do have a way of putting things into perspective... glad my twisted view could help you too flowerforyou