Wanna hear my 'nice guy' experience for the week?

Nicest guy I've met in a long time, he's cute and funny and wants a lot for himself in life. But he's caught up in a rescue mission for this girl who is doing meth behind his back. He somehow thinks he can save this girl who he can never trust while he's at work and he certainly can't trust the guys she hangs out with.

So what I learned about nice people is that sometimes they truly wanna be someones hero and usually that someone is crazy...

Makes me not wanna be nice.

And that my friends is our point proven....

aka "Captain Save-a-ho" syndrome

Hi do you think you know me or something?

ok everybody wants attention,be it goo or bad

so girls being stupid dumb ******* sometimes that we are will go find a man and say hes a project and want to transform him into some retarted american eagle model.but he doesnt change he treat us like crap and well we figure its attention and well hes a good looking guy so we stay until one day he makes us cry hard and we run to our closest not gay guy friend.who would bend over for you and treat you nice.

but women think (and im not saying all women so shut up and read)feel they must have a man in their life and if they dont they feel unloved and ugly and then they go out and find any attention that they cant get.and they get used to feeling like crap b,c they keep dating losers

and dont learn to love themselves!

Think I can use that? "Hey Cap'n Save-a-Ho, it's a no go. Don't be a schmo."

Too much rhyming?

HUH!!!! Where did that attitude derive from, I made a comment supporting your thoughts and you spit in my face. Another prime example of, "Your not good enough to speak to me so back away" syndrome. No worries...

There is this lady that I'm really really into (not on this site) and she is totally into me but 6 hours away.

Now I could act like a total sap and tell her how googoo gaga I am over her all the time but I hold back. See, I'm bitter and a realist, a bad combination that some mistake for a pompous jerk, but not so. Any man that disagrees with what a woman says or wants is'nt an evil force bent on bringing down the walls of her fantasy land, that's a guy just doing his own thing. This is the classic 'conquest' that some women enjoy.

Now the man who sits and listens to the lady, is always there for her, talks to her about her problems, listens and 'understands' like nice guys claim to do is quite frankly seen as a friend and in terms of mating, a pushover.

If you're a nice guy, you just have'nt figured out women yet. Most of us are good people inside, regardless of how we label ourselves.

It should be noted that there's a pretty large dichotomy between "good" and "nice". Good people are people who don't believe in being vicious toward others. Nice people are pushovers.

There IS a difference.

I was just saying that your guess was not even remotely close to my situation... and your comment didn't support what I said at all.

And I was being sarcastic in saying, yea like all of us guys that step in here and claim to be nice guys but act like jerks trying to prove that point. NM isn't doesn't matter and definitely isn't worth arguing over, no disrespect or low blows was intended.

you are passing up a golden opportunity i will teach you the ways of the jerk young grasshopper

You're far too young to be thinking you know enough to teach someone else... but good luck with that.

what a ****ing tripe!

yeah like you know anything

I know that the kind of women who like jerks are insanely insecure... guess preying on women like that is your gig huh?

Okay i don't thinks so. Ive been with all sorts of different women but that does not mean their insecure they probably had too much confidence if you ask me. All i think is that most girls in our society can get away with murder and I'm one of the few guys who doesn't take their ridicules behavior if you have a problem with that then hey sorry but don't accuse me of preying on insecure women.

amen sister!!!

Glad to know it's not just me he pulled that stunt with, tiring isn't it?

I have no problem with you not takin **** from women, thats far from being a jerk tho. You call YOURSELF a jerk and then wonder why I accuse you of being one?