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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship. that actually makes a hell of a lot of sense... 
Sadly it does, but most would deny it. up until i read that post i hadn't thought of it that way.i'm going through my mind and realising that's exactly what i've been doing... i don't know how to, and i'm scared to try. hence sabotaging relationships and going for bad guys...
where the heck was msmyka ages ago darnit!! 
Ages ago??? Yer only 19 for f**ks sake...lol i was 19 last year silly  
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SOME women like a**holes for the same reason SOME guys like crazy chicks... it hurts 10x more to have your heart broken by a nice guy/girl, at least with the jerk/crazy chick you half expect it. It's a way people set themselves up for failure because they dont know HOW to have a functional relationship. forgot one thing though. Nice guys usually don't do what 'not nice' guys do. Otherwise they wouldn't be nice. On top of it, nice guys end up marrying or living together for a long time with their loved ones and once they do that, they are out of the dating scene. What you have left over are 'not nice' guys and some nice guys. So you go for the not nice guys.
I don't really follow you on this one
that's too bad. Basically saying, there are many happy marriages. Actually there are more happy marriages than bad ones. So we must assume those are nice guys. Bad marriages comes from a couple who aren't compatible or either or both aren't nice people (fake relationships, other purpose than love etc) . So you must account for a bunch of nice guys always be taken out of the pool of all the singles, because nice guys end up in a long lasting relationships, they are not single anymore and they don't go to dating sites anymore. So you stil have a bunch of nice guys and also a bunch of not-so-nice guys. And the reason you stay behind being single, is because you continue to only choose a not-so-nice guy. |
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Yeah cuz being a jerk is COOL. 
Oh come on. You KNOW you ladies all love the a**holes. You just won't let the nice guys be justified in THINKING it....lol 
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? |
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Edited by
msmyka
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Sun 08/09/09 09:42 PM
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Atlantis I hope you're not talking about me... I was just sharing my perspective on this topic, not specifically talking about myself.
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? That would seem like a funny joke until your girl leaves you for a nasty. Then guys are like, omg that guy was right! |
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? It's because they're all in their "slut-phase", where they wanna schtoop the rebellious, sideburn-wearing, jason-priestley-and-luke-perry-wannabe out there for the instant fling. The "nice" guys only come into play if they need help with something, or if they've reached the age where they burned out their slut circuit. If the latter's the case, they end up settling for the nice guy to pay their bills with. |
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i dont need a mamas boy but i dont need a devil worshiper either.i need some that wont be all "yes dear" to me 24/7.i want someone that wont get mad when i play video games or gets mad when i want to see a horror movie or get freaked out by my skull collection but sence he isnt real then i dont see the need to date.
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Atlantis I hope you're not talking about me... I was just sharing my perspective on this topic, not specifically talking about myself. No honey, I'm generally speaking, just running my thoughts. Sorry if i made you feel that way, if I was, it wasn't my intention. 
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WOW, this is the biggest Man/Woman war I have ever seen in my two weeks here.
*******Jumps off the top rope******** AHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! |
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts?  Because we are evil!!
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Its a loosing battle guys, we are battered and bruised and the ladies are unscathed and beautiful, we cant beat em....
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Edited by
msmyka
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Sun 08/09/09 09:50 PM
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Atlantis I hope you're not talking about me... I was just sharing my perspective on this topic, not specifically talking about myself. No honey, I'm generally speaking, just running my thoughts. Sorry if i made you feel that way, if I was, it wasn't my intention.
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? yep, I got that one....its a shame really
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? It's because they're all in their "slut-phase", where they wanna schtoop the rebellious, sideburn-wearing, jason-priestley-and-luke-perry-wannabe out there for the instant fling. The "nice" guys only come into play if they need help with something, or if they've reached the age where they burned out their slut circuit. If the latter's the case, they end up settling for the nice guy to pay their bills with. woooooooo, that ones gonna hurt.... whoa look out behind ya, DUCK!!!!!
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Atlantis I hope you're not talking about me... I was just sharing my perspective on this topic, not specifically talking about myself. No honey, I'm generally speaking, just running my thoughts. Sorry if i made you feel that way, if I was, it wasn't my intention.
I was just reading over my comments. You must have thought I put the "you" in it, meaning "you" personally. Kinda came out wrong, I meant "you who do this and reading this" not personally you msmyka. |
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why does it seem like women walk all over us " nice guys " yet kiss the feet of the " bad guy " ladies anythoughts? Because we are evil!!
yes, see, I told you lol |
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Atlantis I hope you're not talking about me... I was just sharing my perspective on this topic, not specifically talking about myself. No honey, I'm generally speaking, just running my thoughts. Sorry if i made you feel that way, if I was, it wasn't my intention.
Ummm like nice guys who act like jerks cause we think you don't want us...... |
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I was just reading over my comments. You must have thought I put the "you" in it, meaning "you" personally. Kinda came out wrong, I meant "you who do this and reading this" not personally you msmyka.
Thats why I asked... I don't particularly care for strangers telling me about my life LOL |
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Ummm like nice guys who act like jerks cause we think you don't want us...... Not even remotely close, but thanks for playing! |
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