right you have no care and no emergency cash you might be loving and trusting but doesnt mean these people are you need to think twice before rebelling and running off to a complete strangers house and spending the night

I trust the girl is who she says, and the family is (actually spoke to the mom very very briefly tonight), the other stuff is the main issue, my grandma refusing to let me go, refusing to give me the money needed to go, etc.

O screw it, go live life for Gods sake, everyone will get their panties out of a freaking wad eventually, FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!


JESUS!!! Your not 12! You can meet a girl im pretty sure you can, you can do it allll by yourself...


I hope you knock her up.


JEEBUS!!!!

No one can be trusted on line, Not me or you or anyone,
well we all know JT is a perv, but whats new.. lol
I could be anybody, that picture doesn't mean a thing. On the internet, everyone is guilty until they are proved innocent.
You have to be careful of people like JT and...ummmmm and UHHHHHHHH welll JT.....

I'm glad you can see my side of this.

I don't like that whole guilty till proven innocent idea, it says that everyone has something to hide, and that isn't always the case.

I have just never heard of such a thing in my life....the part with her mother and you staying at their home....something is just not right with this picture.

No it is not always the case, but it is always wise to find out first instead of finding out after you have a knife in your throat or a bullet in your head. No your right, everyone is not like that, but the sad thing is, we don't know who is and who isn't, so we have to be careful with all of them.

This is true, but I hate to suspect everyone like that, some people maybe, but generally there would be signs to look for no?

O lord, you know most people go out younger on dates, and to dances, and with friends, and are on the road in their own cars.


If he were deficent somehow, hed STILL have to live his damn life.


If they dont wanna shell out some cash, they still should stay out of his business.

hell be staying at her PARENTS for god sakes with permission.

Alot of people his age have their own place, and go all kinds of places.

Hell I have a retarded cousin who is married with a 2 grown kids.

I mean come on.

if there were signs people wouldnt be kidnapped and rapped and stabbed or shot or held hostage

if i re call right they had a special on serial killers and they said that the man that did the killings was so normal that nobody knew he went around killing people.

truth is you dont know what deep dark fantasy people are hiding so rather then taking the risk of being buried alive or happend or get a bullet to the brain people need to be careful

o jeez.

Maybe someone in her family needs a kidney

To the untrained perhaps, but I would think if one looked close enough they'd see something amiss, thing is some don't so they get used as a result.

I will admit maybe at times I've been naive, I'll be honest about that, but in this case I don't see that as being so.

Where in the world do you get that from?

it puts the lotion on the skin and rubs it in unless it gets the hose again..

as for being naive you dont know that until something happens and so now your a trained eye?

This is not a joke, people have been kidnapped and then a kidney is surgically removed. They are worth thousands of dollars. In one article I read a man survived, woke up in a hotel room then called for help. He had been on a date with a woman he had just met.

I believe that is called an extreme case, VERY extreme, as in far from the norm.

the thing is you dont learn that you were naive until you been taken for that fool then you can look back and go ahha i learned from that

your willing to put yourself in a room full of people that you have no idea about their past

a girl was murdered by the order of her boyfriend b.c he didnt want the baby and she didnt know she was in danger til there was a cord around her neck..

If something was wrong, I'd likely know it let's put it that way, especially given we've spoken on the phone several times.