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At least she didn't break up with you via email (see 'Dear Joan'Thread). be seeing you I've had that happen before too. with the only other girl i ever really loved. after 2 years. ****in myspace |
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but... no matter how much i try to be mad at her. i still miss her. just as i typed "i still miss her" my eyes waterd up... EFFIN A! yea... i deff kno the feeling... it sucks... i just dont kno wut to do... |
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Let her go... she wanted to go... she left... let it be.
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Step 1: grab balls and squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze them.
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You will get over that once the anger of what she did sets in. Don't want to be with someone who doesn't care more about you and for your feelings.  This type of stuff always happens to me with girls. I'm a very nice guy and obviously u can tell i have a sensative side. im the guy every girl "SAYS" they want. but they really dont. 21 with 2 jobs and your own place. You got your chit together and that is something ALL women admire and desire. Dont look at it like: "can I find a woman who will like a guy like me?" Look at it like: "Can I find a woman, WORTHY of me." Oh and dont worry about your ex....worry about when her life starts to go bad and she suddenly pops up saying how she missed you and wants to get back together. |
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Let her go... she wanted to go... she left... let it be. i already let her go... but i just wanna kno the easiest way to foget her... get my mind off of her... anything... |
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Step 1: grab balls and squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze them. ha believe me babe i got balls i just have feelings too |
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but... no matter how much i try to be mad at her. i still miss her. just as i typed "i still miss her" my eyes waterd up... EFFIN A! yea... i deff kno the feeling... it sucks... i just dont kno wut to do... |
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You will get over that once the anger of what she did sets in. Don't want to be with someone who doesn't care more about you and for your feelings. This type of stuff always happens to me with girls. I'm a very nice guy and obviously u can tell i have a sensative side. im the guy every girl "SAYS" they want. but they really dont. 21 with 2 jobs and your own place. You got your chit together and that is something ALL women admire and desire. Dont look at it like: "can I find a woman who will like a guy like me?" Look at it like: "Can I find a woman, WORTHY of me." Oh and dont worry about your ex....worry about when her life starts to go bad and she suddenly pops up saying how she missed you and wants to get back together.  
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Let her go... she wanted to go... she left... let it be. i already let her go... but i just wanna kno the easiest way to foget her... get my mind off of her... anything... You have to tell your mind she is gone... it's part of letting go! |
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If you are still thinking/talking about her, or of letting go of her, it means you havent let go. Knowing that is step 1, step 2 is to take care of yourself and give yourself time. It is a big blow to the ego to feel like you weren't good enough...
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Ok, How about i start with this. Me and my girl have been dating since Feb of 08... So about a year and a half... We've had our ups and downs like every couple but i loved her with all of my heart... Well almost 2 weeks ago now this is wut happened... Me and her where hanging around the house (my sisters house bc she was letting us stay with her for a little while) tryin to get **** together... Well my sister wanted us out by the weekend so we had to find a place to stay. Neither one of us had a job at the time bc there was really no jobs to get. So we didnt really have anywhere to go but we usually figure something out. Well it was around Noonish and she said she's gonna go put in a couple applications... she also said she would be back around 3-4pm. Well she left and didnt come back till 10am the next day with 2 small hickies on her neck... She said she went to her aunts house and her Aunt wanted her to move in with her for a while. Well i told her that if she moved in with her aunt that we couldnt be together bc i would most likely be moving out of town bc i have nowhere to stay in the town i live in. Well we where talking about it all day. (I let the hickies on her neck go for the time being) Finally i said "Lets just go to sleep and we'll talk about it in the morning." she said ok and we went to sleep... When i woke up the next morning... She was gone with all of her stuff... My Brother in-law said she was being really quiet and packing her stuff while i was sleeping so not to wake me... then she snuck out when he left the room... Its been almost 2 weeks and i haven't seen or talked to her since... I cant stop thinking about if she's ok, where she is, or if she even cares. If you took the time to read all of this... can u please give me some advise? I really need it.  damn
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 u r better off without her
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 Punch her in the throat
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I been there, I was with a guy I only dated for 3 months and then out of nowhere he left with out a word. I was so hurt cause I was falling in love with him, but you know you gotta learn to forgive and move on. she was not for you and trust me someone is out there for you.
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Punch her in the throat  This guy kills me! To you,PATS be seeing you
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Punch her in the throat 
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First off I am sorry it happened you. It hurts to lose the one you love. But its time for you to pick your heart up out the floor where she stepped on it and move on. she has. or she did before she moved out. but its your turn. Go out have fun. Any girl would be lucky to have you. you have a good head on your shoulders Have fun your young go out. And good luck
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After 3 years, I had someone break up with me via Yahoo Messenger.
Totally sucks, dude. But...for the time being, you are gonna hurt like hell. Then one day, you'll wake up after a night's sleep, and suddenly, it won't hurt anymore. |
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I had a very similar situation many years back. I dated her about 5 years, lived with her 3 of those years and we decided together to move to another state. We got all packed and I had to start the new job so I left and she was gonna meet me there a week later after she buttoned up some things. Never heard or saw her again. All I can tell you is what not to do:
1. Don't start drinking heavily and think beer or whiskey will make it go away. It does for the night to tell you the truth, but her memory is still there the next day. 2. Don't find a rebound. Its not fair to her or you for that matter 3. Don't try to find her. Brother, its going probably going to hurt for awhile and there is no way around it. Try immerse yourself into hobbies or work as only time is going to heal you. |
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