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I think we get over people when we're really ready to. I let myself be all caught up with a guy for 7 years. I did it by choice, I didn't want to let his memory go, it comforted me. When I decided I wanted to be over him, I was. Only you can control your thoughts, when you feel yourself thinking about her, block it out. When you see something that reminds you of her, go somewhere else. It will take time, and it will hurt for a while, but it will go away. I won't say I know how you feel, because I don't. I've never been in that situation. But I have been hurt by people, and that's how I deal. I hope you feel better soon.
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That is painful I am sure and I'm sorry for you. I have a question for you, will you take her back when she comes a knockin??? Might want to give that some thought.
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aww hun well i know you're hurting but he cheated on you and you dont need to worry about someone like that who isnt going to be faithful to you and bail out like that!
i know it hurts but trust me you really dont need her and you need to move on and just worry about your life and get your stuff together! and always remember you have alot of people who are here to support you and get you through this hard time! |
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Ok, How about i start with this. Me and my girl have been dating since Feb of 08... So about a year and a half... We've had our ups and downs like every couple but i loved her with all of my heart... Well almost 2 weeks ago now this is wut happened... Me and her where hanging around the house (my sisters house bc she was letting us stay with her for a little while) tryin to get **** together... Well my sister wanted us out by the weekend so we had to find a place to stay. Neither one of us had a job at the time bc there was really no jobs to get. So we didnt really have anywhere to go but we usually figure something out. Well it was around Noonish and she said she's gonna go put in a couple applications... she also said she would be back around 3-4pm. Well she left and didnt come back till 10am the next day with 2 small hickies on her neck... She said she went to her aunts house and her Aunt wanted her to move in with her for a while. Well i told her that if she moved in with her aunt that we couldnt be together bc i would most likely be moving out of town bc i have nowhere to stay in the town i live in. Well we where talking about it all day. (I let the hickies on her neck go for the time being) Finally i said "Lets just go to sleep and we'll talk about it in the morning." she said ok and we went to sleep... When i woke up the next morning... She was gone with all of her stuff... My Brother in-law said she was being really quiet and packing her stuff while i was sleeping so not to wake me... then she snuck out when he left the room... Its been almost 2 weeks and i haven't seen or talked to her since... I cant stop thinking about if she's ok, where she is, or if she even cares. If you took the time to read all of this... can u please give me some advise? I really need it. So sorry you are hurt and that you still love her. But, It's time to move on. Clearly, she want to move on otherwise, she would talk to you nicely but she want to leave and leave without you knowing where she is going or where she is at right now. I wish you the best of luck and keep your eyes open. There's always something nice coming your way. 
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theres so much wonderful advice here for you...as you can see, great people on mingle...believe it or not, in time it will get easier and it will get better. i know it sucks, and im sorry you are hurting...
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Well I got $20 thats says she has a new place to stay for a while too.
And I got another $20 that says she is going to treat this new guy just about the same way she treated you. Yep, it's going to hurt for a while, but it will pass. |
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At least she didn't break up with you via email (see 'Dear Joan'Thread). be seeing you I've had that happen before too. with the only other girl i ever really loved. after 2 years. ****in myspace thats why im trying out mingle |
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Ok, How about i start with this. Me and my girl have been dating since Feb of 08... So about a year and a half... We've had our ups and downs like every couple but i loved her with all of my heart... Well almost 2 weeks ago now this is wut happened... Me and her where hanging around the house (my sisters house bc she was letting us stay with her for a little while) tryin to get **** together... Well my sister wanted us out by the weekend so we had to find a place to stay. Neither one of us had a job at the time bc there was really no jobs to get. So we didnt really have anywhere to go but we usually figure something out. Well it was around Noonish and she said she's gonna go put in a couple applications... she also said she would be back around 3-4pm. Well she left and didnt come back till 10am the next day with 2 small hickies on her neck... She said she went to her aunts house and her Aunt wanted her to move in with her for a while. Well i told her that if she moved in with her aunt that we couldnt be together bc i would most likely be moving out of town bc i have nowhere to stay in the town i live in. Well we where talking about it all day. (I let the hickies on her neck go for the time being) Finally i said "Lets just go to sleep and we'll talk about it in the morning." she said ok and we went to sleep... When i woke up the next morning... She was gone with all of her stuff... My Brother in-law said she was being really quiet and packing her stuff while i was sleeping so not to wake me... then she snuck out when he left the room... Its been almost 2 weeks and i haven't seen or talked to her since... I cant stop thinking about if she's ok, where she is, or if she even cares. If you took the time to read all of this... can u please give me some advise? I really need it. |
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Fa get about it.Yeah it will be hard .Call your friends go out.Fa get about it
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For Heavens sake, MAN UP, have a good cry, drunk, ***** session, beat on something. Then pull up your pants & MOVE ON.
She OBVIOUSLY already has. MAKE A LIFE.  
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For Heavens sake, MAN UP, have a good cry, drunk, ***** session, beat on something. Then pull up your pants & MOVE ON. She OBVIOUSLY already has. MAKE A LIFE. |
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For Heavens sake, MAN UP, have a good cry, drunk, ***** session, beat on something. Then pull up your pants & MOVE ON. She OBVIOUSLY already has. MAKE A LIFE. Wow !!! I've never seen you grumpy Sage....  I think I like it...........  (but then I'm sick like that....   )
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People that let a building fall on them & then cry about it.
No wonder this world is screwed up. Want a worse story, I know where somebody left home, wanted to come back, but they were dead. Always a worse situation than what you are dealing with. Life goes on, you need to to. Not grumpy Jess, just giving the young man a kick in the pants.   
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I have read this thread, and stayed away from it....
Reason being, is I would have said something similar to you, Sage, possibly not as eloquently, however, mine would have been misconstrued... and I would have ended up on 'vacation' again... 
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I have read this thread, and stayed away from it.... Reason being, is I would have said something similar to you, Sage, possibly not as eloquently, however, mine would have been misconstrued... and I would have ended up on 'vacation' again... Hi Jess !
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I have read this thread, and stayed away from it.... Reason being, is I would have said something similar to you, Sage, possibly not as eloquently, however, mine would have been misconstrued... and I would have ended up on 'vacation' again... Hi Jess ! Hello Bry!!!!!!!!!!!  yeah same sh*te...different day.... 
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I have read this thread, and stayed away from it.... Reason being, is I would have said something similar to you, Sage, possibly not as eloquently, however, mine would have been misconstrued... and I would have ended up on 'vacation' again... Hi Jess ! Hello Bry!!!!!!!!!!! yeah same sh*te...different day.... Jess; you take more vacations than anyobne I know. 
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Really a lot of good advice.
It sicks when someone kicks you when you are down but evidently it was a blessing in disguise because you seem to be getting your life together without the anchor around your neck. It is really easy to look at someone as more desireable than they really are when they aren't around to prove you wrong. Don't idealize this person's faults away. Do yourself a favor and put up a picture of her with a list of all the "stuff" she did to you in big bold black letters. Betraying me and putting my life at risk by sleeping with you after she was obviously getting busy with someone else would be on top of my list but you have your own insults. Second would be making a limited time of day that you allow yourself to think this over and greive. I would suggest in an early morning workout or shower. When that is done then put it away until the next day. You dwell on it in the evening or at night when you are tired it will only disrupt your rest and normal interaction with others. Third Make a savings account and save for something big you really want. Then you will have some funds to bail you out in a pinch and something to look forward too if you don't. Hang in there and jump into the forums and you will have more friends than you can count soon. |
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She bounced like a bad check homie .... sounds like she did you a favor  My thoughts exactly, no hassle in getting rid of her.. dont go getting all emotional, and bent, and nostalgic, now that SHES the one who ended it, and you didnt. Get on with yourself, she was obviously dead weight anyway. |
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I have read this thread, and stayed away from it.... Reason being, is I would have said something similar to you, Sage, possibly not as eloquently, however, mine would have been misconstrued... and I would have ended up on 'vacation' again... Hi Jess ! Hello Bry!!!!!!!!!!! yeah same sh*te...different day.... Jess; you take more vacations than anyobne I know. Is it my deodorant????  
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