That's a good point, but it's not as if I'd be seeing her anytime soon in real life though, least not at this point.

Her parents probably wouldn't even approve of the two of you emailing each other.

Ever since you said what you did yesterday about possibly falling for me, it's had me thinking about a lot, about my life, my future, who it will be spent with and when. I really am not totally sure what to think at this moment in time about it all.

In the month or so since we first met on omegle, even though you haven't been around here to talk to particularly much, you have been there when you could, either responding to any messages I left, or to chat as we did yesterday.

However because of how often you've been around, though I always had you in the back of my mind as a possibility for a mate, I never really had given it a whole lot of thought, since I wasn't totally sure when or even if sometimes I'd hear from you again.

But with the events of yesterday and what you told me, I'm beginning to think different, wondering if amidst all the confusion I've been feeling with regards to relationships lately, that perhaps what I have been seeking, searching for and wondering about has been right in front of me all along in you, and I just never really realized it.

Having said that, while part of me wants to pursue things with you, there's another part of me thinking what if. Like, what if I decide to see how things go with us, and the girl from Australia I began to tell you about yesterday were to show up again. Though at the same time, there isn't any guarantee she is going to be available either, as even when her and I had talked a week or so ago, she was still trying to figure out what was happening with her and a guy in her area. So it may be she could come back, and still be with him, leaving me of course on the outside looking in.

It's all rather confusing and I'm still trying to make sense of all it. I hope you understand where I am coming from here. I don't want you to get the impression I'm not interested in you, because I am, it's just I'm not completely sure what to do at this point given the situation as it now stands, and I don't want to hurt anybody here if I can help it.

I would like to keep talking to you though at the least, as I'm sure you do me as well. In fact I'd like to exchange phone numbers if that's ok with you so we can talk more frequently then we can right now because of how often you are able to come online. My number is (not sharing it here).

I hope to hear from you soon, and again I hope you understand.

God Bless,
Adam

She's 16.

Yeah I know I'm not all that worried about it though.

I don't understand why.

I don't understand why.

Well for one I'm willing to wait if things were to be really really serious, and two age is only a number, and it's not like I'm double her age or anything, just 5 years difference or so.

if that were my child talking to a man over the age of 18 id block all contact with him and id be worried hes a weirdo or something

Wow.

just....

Wow

And then you'd effectively be trying to run her life. I understand the concerns, but in a case like this, it would be better to actually get to know the person yourself instead of making snap judgments that may or not be true, not to mention forcing your daughter to do something she doesn't want to, which would likely make her rebel and do it anyway.

So....just sit back and allow your 16 year old daughter to talk to a " man " that is quite a bit older than she is on the computer.

Completely disregard the fact that you don't know who this guy is or what he's about. Ignore the concerns that he very well could be a pedophile.

After all...if you try to make the daughter break off contact, she's just gonna do it anyway.

That about right??

Have I missed anything???

And then you'd effectively be trying to run her life. I understand the concerns, but in a case like this, it would be better to actually get to know the person yourself instead of making snap judgments that may or not be true, not to mention forcing your daughter to do something she doesn't want to, which would likely make her rebel and do it anyway.

Perhaps you could ask her for her home phone number...if she replies to your email.

With her home phone number, you could then call her folks, and introduce yourself... let them know that their daughter and you have been communicating...offer your details to them, let them know that you are comfortable waiting until she is a little more mature, and sure of how she feels..

By being completely open, and honest....you have nothing to lose.


Some parent's are still very, very fearful for their children after the Craig'sList killer...irrespective of their child's age.


I am not saying you are like that, I am only suggesting you create a form of dialogue with her parents.

Yeah that may be an idea, and no I'm not like that obviously. I kinda left the door open for her to give me her number herself through her reply when she gets to it, so she may give it on her own, if not I will ask.