... What, for you, is the difference between a girl who you want to date (IE try something meaningful with), and a girl you think of as just a screw?

dude

you do not want me to answer this one

I want every guy to. Trust me, it's a VERY interesting topic to girls.

i just want a wholesome relationship,that does not evolve around sex,more passion and meaningful

The difference is a heart stopper that makes me want to share my life with (lifetime) or a great looking girl that has no affinity with me (one night).

So every girl you see is a possible relationship?

How do you know the difference right away?

well i dont see as every girl.eventually the right one will come along

guys wanna sleep with most everyone they see..but they don't want a relationship with everyone they sleep with...

Good way of thinking about it. :)

See, the thing is, it's hard for women to know how to attract someone who wants something meaningful, rather than just sex. How does a girl dress where a man will even notice, but not think of her as a whore? It's such a balance!

Hard to say the first meeting but sometimes it is pretty obvious. I do not go for one night stands so unless she makes my heart twitch a little she goes into the second category (which is not a one night stand category but the maybe a friend probably a nobody one). Sometimes it takes 2 minutes to realize what category she falls into sometimes a lot longer.

Yeah, but the question is, what's the difference?

Wow this can be a loaded question

I would have to say it would be about like interests. If I can meet a woman and hold a decent conversation with her (2 sided) then there is a good chance I would pursue more. You can tell alot about a person from the first 30 mins you talk to them. IE....knowing that she could be worth more than just a $@#%

okay ready for your answer?

Yeah, but men who think like you aren't found in bars. Still haven't figured out where they ARE found... Pfft.

So you'd actually TALK to a girl, not just flirt with her?

I had a friend tell me last summer that the best way to interest a guy is to act like a dumbass. "Men don't want to talk about books. That makes them nervous and makes them feel like you're acting better than them. Just flirt and use all your physicality. THAT'S what they want."

Sad thing is, she's in a GREAT realtionship rigt now. SO...?!

Yuppo!

Yeah. Not all guys are full of the typical lines that get thrown out there.

Men "date" women and "think of just as a screw" them for the SAME EXACT REASONS

Do you really think we are dogs? That all we want is to HUMP?

Okay, maybe...there are the small percentage of men who are like that. But who cares about them because I do not even consider those people men.

So, the difference is this. When we meet a girl we ask ourselves some questions. And they are ALL different for ALL men. Some of the questions may be, "Does she like football?" "Does she like my Mom?" "Does she like Video Games?" "Will she lick my nipples and not make it a big deal?"

Now, if this girl...in his opinion allows him to answer YES to those questions, whatever they may BE, she then goes from "just a screw" to "possible" girlfriend.....

So, you girls

Its your choice, not ours

Wait... but... that's what GIRLS do! So then what the hell?

I must be doing something majorly wrong here.