I mean I understand sweets plight here. There are some stubborn men. There are some droll, dull, feelingless men. And there are some men that are so simple its ridiculous. But right now you are not talking to two of them. I'm a combat decorated vet with 2 degrees, 15 diplomas, 5 adcoms, TSA authority, cultured, world traveled, bonded, and 18 years at my job. I have an exemplarary record. And if you ask my feelings I will tell them to you after I hand you a helmet- just in case. Sal is an educated, cultured, intellegent man. My advice? Sweets? Don't date those droll lifeless feelingless men. You deserve better.

Please stop what?Trying to find a common ground with you...I am apologizing and playing nice...why is that hard to take?

Thanks. And I do understand that when some women ask questions, they really don't want to hear the answer. So, I can understand the frustration there. Just know that we're not all like that .

Well Fran...as you can see..it takes two to heal.I have extended a hand and apologized...so now what?

Give it a rest already. You've called me a liar, threatened to report me to mods, told me all about how I should be worried about my reputation here, told me you're "on to me" and not fooled by me. So no, I'd rather not be friends.

You have ridiculed me...called m a creep and bashed my beliefs...yet i am still willing to be friends.People are allowed to feel...but i would rather be friends.

Again, please stop. If you want to argue, find someone else to argue with.

I am not arguing...but looking for a peacful conclusion!How can a man apologizing and saying he honors your beliefs be arguing?

I understand. And if anyone needs any references you can go to my freinds list. They will all tell you the same. That I'm quite animated and expressive. Gots noooooo problem expressing feelings. Just not very good at controling the splatter and spray. Like hitting the liquify button on a blender without the lid on. Whoops! Sorry I got my feelings on your ceiling!

There are many, many people here for you to be friends with.

(still in my therapist impersonation)

Sal - sings does not want to be friends

Sings - if you ever want to be friends w/Sal just let him know

now everyone knows how you both stand

I am friends with everyone i am in contact with!Doesn't mean i don't have room for another.You seem to think i am out to get you.My hand extended out to you long before all of this.Actually...from the very begining of my thread i reached out!I still am.I mean you no harm .... I am only trying to figure out how one can be so involved with my beliefes and yet want no part of the person behind them!
Truly understand ....i do honor you more than you know!

At least we know you don't avoid talking.

Oh good lord!

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I may be cultured. But I've never been accused of having taste or style.

OH MY