Hell Yeah u r beautiful, don't ever doubt urself

To get to the other side. OH, wait a minute, wrong joke.

Looks and size has nothing to do with love. At all, period!!!

EveryoneEveryoneEveryoneEveryoneEveryoneEveryone

is (((((((beautiful))))) and people who can't see that are shallow.

michael

ty michael from a average body type i guess lol
but slender can have a good heart just as a larger gal

Nobody said that you didn't have a good heart b/c ur skinny. LOL, that
was never said. I have been on both ends of the spectrum and I had a
big heart the whole time. She just means why is that alot of men seem
to think the only women worth loving are the skinny ones. I don't think
thats true, but I can see where if given enough bad experiences it could
seem that way. I wonder sometimes myself, and I'm not big anymore. I
have to remind myself of that...

you just got to keep looking and keep your eyes and heart open, but be
protective of it at the same time! trust me dating for all of us here
has sucked! at some point lol

thanks tina211. Your beautiful too and from now on i won't doubt mmyself

LoL Soritygurl, You mean we're not all here because we are experts in
the dating world?
I feel so disallusioned now, I hope I can get some sleep tonight...what
a wake up call....lmao

interesting

its because every one has different preferences, people will never
change, if you find a guy who likes thin women and he likes your
personality, no mater how much... HE WILL ALWAYS WISH YOU WERE THIN.

people never change they only pretend like they do. Acceptance and
admiration are two totally different things.

My recomendation to you is find a bbw lover or a guy closer to your
weight, its kind of hypocritical to ask for a guy whos in shape or
skinny when you wont go out and make the effort and get in shape. then
to call those people shallow and heartless, its outragous.

maybe your not looking for that I dont really know I just feel like that
needed to be put out there.

those guys are LOBSTER LOSERS!!! dont ask. <3


sweetie dont waste ur time on shallow guys like that. all they want is
SEX!!!! dont change urself 4 anyone else besides u.

trust me i

understand....dont give up ull find the rite guy hun.

eeeeegggggaaaadddddsss not this thread!

I've lived with a life long disablitiy. This is the first time I have
posted about it in the forums. Mine is not visiually apparent, but I am
a heavy set woman. So I have both to contend with. Kepp your head high,
strap yourself in for the ride if you get depressed and wait it out. You
prince is waiting/looking as we speak. Just have to be patient Sweetie.

welcome Creation good to meet ya

Buttons, I would have you any day,but some of your recent posts,you said
you already have a guy,that brings me to my previous post in thread "Is
it just me".

Ms Pinky
I'm sure all the good folks here on JSH inspired you and boosted your
confidence; they're good for that.
My advice - stop worrying about the ones who aren't seeking you and open
your heart and soul for the ones who are...

All good things

Im sorry, I didnt know I was gender bashung. Since whatever I say in a
post, offends everyone, maybe I should stop posting in the threads. No
one seems too see what I say anyway, except when it offends
someone.

That is not true Hal... we see what you say, but don't put yourself down
either! you are a nice guy and I would miss you in the threads.....

(scratch Tuffy for me )

PinkyStar, you are beautiful and who gives a rat's patootie if some guys
only want skinny girls, they don't know what they are missing!!!!!
Keep smiling Honey!

That's right, because love comes in all shapes and sizes. Not only do
they come in all shapes, and sizes, they come in all colors also. When
it is time, your heart will let you know that, he or she is the one for
you. The only thing you have to do, is just wait for that moment to
come.

When that moment comes, grab it with both hands. Never let go of that
moment, because it will take you on a ride that the two of you will
never forget. Therefore, keep your eyes open, and your heart safe.

Romeo, I couldn't agree more. :)