Cause they just can't handle a real woman!!!!!!!

its basic biology its not really are fault are brains are fitted that
way..but when it hits you love that is,its not always the skinny girl we
fall for

yes see nyc girl has a few extra pounds..so she says..and i have a huge
crush on her...

I'm a big girl too, I've had my share of guys who said I was to big for
them. I just think to myself I am better off and they are the ones
missing out. I think the inside is the most important, but you do have
to find someone physically attractive in the end and I wasn't what they
were looking for. There are guys who like big girls, just not that
many...haha.

Men are like cows(just not as smart), and cows rarely stray from the
herd. There are LOTS of men who LOVE big women, there are just also
alot who listen to their idiot friends about what they are supposed to
like.

Its like a competition between men who can have the skinniest girl with
the hugest rack. I do know FROM EXPERIENCE that there are plenty who
love a big woman. I've never had any lack of men after me, even when i
was heavy. There is someone out there for you sweetheart, just be
patient. In the mean time hang out with ur girls and go wild! Thats
what bein young is for after all!

"Men are like cows" I thought we were like dogs? So which is it dogs
or cows? Because I want to know should I be barking or moooing? Maybe I
should be baooooooing or moooorking????


Just a thought

Sheesh!!! This is to no-one in particular, and to any that bother
reading it....

Stop with the men/women bashing!!!

People make choices...PEOPLE.

Choices to eat the wrong foods not exercise, or they have no control
over weight, through health related diseases...so what? PEOPLE choose
their partners for a whole lot of reasons..

B. F. D.

Stop with the gender bashing, and sitting in 'victim' mode...stop with
the whining...men always want this...women always want that.

PEOPLE.


Stop tarring all with the one brush.

I've not met a man who wasnt' like I descibed, so until I do I'll bash
all I want when I want...lmao.

No offense, I know you meant well.

I agree with what the others have said so far. I f people cant
accept someone for who they are then and is looking for the looks or
money then they are no good to be with. I think personality and what
is on the inside matters most to me, I know I have my extra weight
and I am not hot as most guys are but I am comfortable being me.

I personally have nothing against a larger man, as long as he does take
care of himself. Same as with any man though, i can't be with anyone
who's teeth are rotting out due to meth. And on that same note, if its
due to lack of being able to afford dental care or just genetic, I can
accept it.

Just realize that as long as you love yourself, everyone else will too.

Its not that i don't take care of myself its just that i have tried
everything and it has failed. I appreciate all of the good advice and
the awful advice. I guess you just have to look past an image to find
whats there. Guys an girls are all alike in how they think. So we all
should get along.

I totally understand where ur coming from I absolutely hate my weight.
Giys who see u for who u are are amazing and the rest can f**k
themselves lol

I am a thin woman, always have been, and I get asked thingss like "do
you have an eating disorter, are you anorexia??? sheesshhhhhhhhh.. that
hurts too!!! I am a small woman and I truely admire my BIG girl
friends....... you are beautiful.. I wish I could have some of yout
beauty!!!

You are beautiful just the way you are.

Honey, I didn't say you didn't take care of yourself darlin...lol, MEN
they don't always take care of themselves no matter how big or small
they are... HAHA
(its called lift and scrub fellas)

lol always do sweetie

Pinky...... hugs to you
aweetie !!

Now read what you just said to the lady above you and say that same
thing to yourself. YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!

sweetie.. (sp) sorry....... more hugs to you though

Thanks i'm starting to get that more and more each day. I am beautiful
just like everyone else is to.