Topic: why must guys be so {{mean}} ??
CrazzyBeautiful's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:05 AM



well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


i hope your right....

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:06 AM


what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...




probably because they are fake. they hook you in, and its hard to let go sometimes, i know iv been that way with a few girls who treated me bad. i think its good to just stand strong and move on

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:07 AM



well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:07 AM




well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


i hope your right....


well im 23. so i hope so for my sake too lol ;)

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Fri 05/15/09 12:07 AM


what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...



because you like it lol.. im not a kiss ass. but whats wrong with the guy who speaks kind words to youslaphead

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:09 AM
Edited by spkeck on Fri 05/15/09 12:11 AM




well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger

but hey im bias lol tho i agree there are many young college guys especially frat boys, well most- not all who are that way.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:09 AM


what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...



Because, in general, the guys like that are just more " exciting " than the " nice " guy.

Not to mention, a lot of women have this penchant for thinking that they, and only they, are the one " special " girl that will turn the complete jackass into the mushy romantic.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:10 AM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Fri 05/15/09 12:11 AM





well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger


Well.it would seem that the girls you know wound up dating the " bad boy " type anyway. Even if they were older.

Like I said, I know there are older dudes out there that are just as bad as any of the younger guys.

Keep in mind...I AM one of the " older guys ". LOL

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:12 AM



what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...



Because, in general, the guys like that are just more " exciting " than the " nice " guy.

Not to mention, a lot of women have this penchant for thinking that they, and only they, are the one " special " girl that will turn the complete jackass into the mushy romantic.


amen to that

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:12 AM
Edited by spkeck on Fri 05/15/09 12:13 AM






well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger


Well.it would seem that the girls you know wound up dating the " bad boy " type anyway. Even if they were older.

Like I said, I know there are older dudes out there that are just as bad as any of the younger guys.

Keep in mind...I AM one of the " older guys ". LOL


i know. i AM one of the "younger guys" lol
but really age shouldnt matter. you date someone who is, hopefully, in the end good for you

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Fri 05/15/09 12:13 AM
I dont know..........but can we have 25 more why are guys mean threads???laugh :banana: There just doesnt seem to be enough!!!laugh

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:14 AM

I dont know..........but can we have 25 more why are guys mean threads???laugh :banana: There just doesnt seem to be enough!!!laugh


Having trouble keeping up, love???

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Fri 05/15/09 12:14 AM





well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger

but hey im bias lol tho i agree there are many young college guys especially frat boys, well most- not all who are that way.



CrazzyBeautiful's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:15 AM



what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...



because you like it lol.. im not a kiss ass. but whats wrong with the guy who speaks kind words to youslaphead


honestly, nothing but i guess i've always had a thing for the strong, protective type...but what i always end up with is conceited and controlling... u see my problem here??

CrazzyBeautiful's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:17 AM







well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger


Well.it would seem that the girls you know wound up dating the " bad boy " type anyway. Even if they were older.

Like I said, I know there are older dudes out there that are just as bad as any of the younger guys.

Keep in mind...I AM one of the " older guys ". LOL


i know. i AM one of the "younger guys" lol
but really age shouldnt matter. you date someone who is, hopefully, in the end good for you


but u never feel like its a lost cause?

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:17 AM



what you should do is stop going for the guys who treat you like dirt. i dont know why but most girls my age go for the dude that treats them the worst.. spock


yea...i dont know why that is.... we know their bad for us but we still go for them...



Because, in general, the guys like that are just more " exciting " than the " nice " guy.

Not to mention, a lot of women have this penchant for thinking that they, and only they, are the one " special " girl that will turn the complete jackass into the mushy romantic.


has nothing to do with being a mushy romantic. truth be told im just out to get laid at this point in life but no need to be an ass. so i dont see why you have to be a jackass to be called fun.

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Fri 05/15/09 12:17 AM
ur not talking to the right one

CrazzyBeautiful's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:18 AM







well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger


Well.it would seem that the girls you know wound up dating the " bad boy " type anyway. Even if they were older.

Like I said, I know there are older dudes out there that are just as bad as any of the younger guys.

Keep in mind...I AM one of the " older guys ". LOL


i know. i AM one of the "younger guys" lol
but really age shouldnt matter. you date someone who is, hopefully, in the end good for you


but u never feel like its a lost cause?

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Fri 05/15/09 12:18 AM
Time to change you........unless you like being heart broken.

spkeck's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:19 AM








well 'said' guy cheated on me and then proceeded to blame his ex girlfriend for his bad behavior
then he desides to tell me that he is a sex addict and i should get with the program...hahahaha....
not gonna happen...
i know there are nice guys out there but i'm starting to lose faith in them....



Don't look for a " nice " guy. Find yourself a " GOOD " guy and you'll be much further ahead.

Don't lose faith. Especially being as young as you are. Just realize that the vast majority of men your age are completely driven by their penis. They have yet to learn that treating a woman with dignity and respect is going to get them a lot further along in life.


i agree with you for some extent. but i think a lot of older men have either the same flaw or a problem of being full of oneself. i think its easy to say that about young guys because it what people see on tv, or maybe youve seen in in your experience, but i tend to think theyre some good younger men out there for women.


In no way am I saying that there aren't some good younger guys out there. Note that I said the vast majority, but not ALL.

I am also, in no way, saying that older men aren't just as guilty of being sex driven.

I am only saying that, unlike most younger guys, older guys have the experience to know that life doesn't revolve around sex.


i dont know what older guys you know. but all the girls i know that dated older guys have that exact problem that life revolves around sex for them. or because the older man is very condescending towards the girl because she is younger


Well.it would seem that the girls you know wound up dating the " bad boy " type anyway. Even if they were older.

Like I said, I know there are older dudes out there that are just as bad as any of the younger guys.

Keep in mind...I AM one of the " older guys ". LOL


i know. i AM one of the "younger guys" lol
but really age shouldnt matter. you date someone who is, hopefully, in the end good for you


but u never feel like its a lost cause?



well thats life isnt it. i mean whats most important to you right now? finding someone to be with, or furthering your career and doing what YOU want to do in life. and finding a good guy is just a bonus maybe?

its never a lost cause.