Topic: why must guys be so {{mean}} ??
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Sun 05/17/09 05:05 PM



wow amazing. my girlfriend is prego and has ben treating me like **** . telling me im never there for her yet the last three months she is the only person ive been around. i bend over backwards and it is never good enough for her. like yesterday at my brothers graduation party she got mad at me because i was talking to my aunt alot... have not seen my aunt in a while... she gets mad and tells me that i never consider her feelings. she thinks i was hitting on my aunt ..what the fuk?????


She's pregnant and single? She's having crazy hormones and worries too. Cut her some slack. It won't last forever.


yes i will do that the next time she wants to pick up an object to hit me with, because i say sorry ing to eventhough im not doing anything to hurt her


Was she doing that before she got pregnant?





yes thats why we broke up. but she called and told me she was going to have my kid. so what was i to do run off like a fool. ive done what i feel to be the right thing being there because ima have a baby and im not going to run from this

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Sun 05/17/09 05:06 PM

I'm a really nice guy but when a girl tries to mess with my head, I can be incredibly mean. If somebody really gets under my skin, which is hard to do, I try to forget they exist.

Empathy goes out the window when you're on the defensive.


yes THANK YOU

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Sun 05/17/09 05:07 PM
Pourquoi le soleil place-t-il dans l'ouest ? Pourquoi les gens emploient-ils des absolus ? Je n'ai aucune réponse.

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Sun 05/17/09 05:10 PM

I'm a really nice guy but when a girl tries to mess with my head, I can be incredibly mean. If somebody really gets under my skin, which is hard to do, I try to forget they exist.

Empathy goes out the window when you're on the defensive.


yes THANK YOU

nolaking's photo
Sun 05/17/09 05:13 PM
Not all guys are mean they still have a few really nice guys left out here, speaking for myself of course

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Sun 05/17/09 05:14 PM


I'm a really nice guy but when a girl tries to mess with my head, I can be incredibly mean. If somebody really gets under my skin, which is hard to do, I try to forget they exist.

Empathy goes out the window when you're on the defensive.


yes THANK YOU

dont run like some kind of ***** but if she wants to have the kid that is awesome that doesnt mean you guys have to be together..be there for the kid but my advice is to be at the doctor visits and that stuff you will never get those experiences again buddy theres nothing like seeing the kid for the first time....try to make it work it could be a faze and hormones she should calm down a little after the kid..but the emotions get crazy

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Sun 05/17/09 05:20 PM




wow amazing. my girlfriend is prego and has ben treating me like **** . telling me im never there for her yet the last three months she is the only person ive been around. i bend over backwards and it is never good enough for her. like yesterday at my brothers graduation party she got mad at me because i was talking to my aunt alot... have not seen my aunt in a while... she gets mad and tells me that i never consider her feelings. she thinks i was hitting on my aunt ..what the fuk?????


She's pregnant and single? She's having crazy hormones and worries too. Cut her some slack. It won't last forever.


yes i will do that the next time she wants to pick up an object to hit me with, because i say sorry ing to eventhough im not doing anything to hurt her


Was she doing that before she got pregnant?


yes thats why we broke up. but she called and told me she was going to have my kid. so what was i to do run off like a fool. ive done what i feel to be the right thing being there because ima have a baby and im not going to run from this


You can still be a good parent and supportive on her and the child without being with her. I would document the abuse though.

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Sun 05/17/09 05:32 PM
In the same frame of mind; why are some women so mean? I've met quite a few nice women, what seperates the nice one's from the mean one's?

I think it is selfishness, but that is just me. Nice people exist, they are just hard to come by anymore.

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Sun 05/17/09 05:44 PM

In the same frame of mind; why are some women so mean? I've met quite a few nice women, what seperates the nice one's from the mean one's?

I think it is selfishness, but that is just me. Nice people exist, they are just hard to come by anymore.


<---Nice Person :tongue:

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Sun 05/17/09 05:45 PM


In the same frame of mind; why are some women so mean? I've met quite a few nice women, what seperates the nice one's from the mean one's?

I think it is selfishness, but that is just me. Nice people exist, they are just hard to come by anymore.


<---Nice Person :tongue:


Very true, you are an excellent person!flowerforyou

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Sun 05/17/09 05:46 PM
<----- not a nice person

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 05/17/09 05:46 PM

<----- not a nice person


She's a meanie.:tongue:

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Sun 05/17/09 05:47 PM
TY Fear flowerforyou

papersmile's photo
Sun 05/17/09 05:48 PM
Yeah, thanks for the back-up Fear. :tongue:

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Sun 05/17/09 05:49 PM
<----- very nice person

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Sun 05/17/09 05:50 PM


<----- not a nice person


She's a meanie.:tongue:


laugh That is not what I hear. I understand you to be one of the most kind and smartest women here. flowerforyou

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Sun 05/17/09 05:52 PM

Yeah, thanks for the back-up Fear. :tongue:


Always here for reinforcement.:tongue:

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Sun 05/17/09 05:52 PM
shhhhh, I have an image to uphold.

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Sun 05/17/09 05:52 PM
she is nice looking anyway

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Sun 05/17/09 05:56 PM

shhhhh, I have an image to uphold.



oops :laughing: