well Sh!t i said that hours ago , and was told that i didnt play well with others

Life is not either or and people are not one or the other but we all ARE the sum of our experiences and our desires.

Who needs guys anyway.... Joy and I have plenty of fun at the bar buying our OWN drinks

yeah , but just because someone chick named debbie did me wrong , doesnt mean i should go around painting every debbie on the face of the plaet with the same brush , you get what you put out , I have had no job , a great job , been a stud , spent time where i couldnt even tie my own shoes , through all of that , i met some truly amazing women , and the crap you 2 are putting out there is an insult to them and every other decent woman ,then again , just gonna toss this out there , maybe it aint the women thats the problem , just sayin , if a pilot keeps crashing , maybe it aint the plane

WRONG... we are each an the sum of our experiences and desires and mine do not affect yours.. Some how someone had this assinine idea that people are an mathmatical equation.. WE ARE NOT.. the MIND is something that is unique, no people are exactly alike not even family, believe me I think I was adopted! The problem is that so many won't take responsibility for their actions or the lack thereof and feel better to blame others.. I say "go ahead, I have big shoulders, blame me if it makes you feel pretty.. I am real enough and truthful enough to know the difference"...

Ya know. IP and I spoke about this last night in another thread...

When I first came here, I found myself having been burned quite badly by a couple of women.

For a time, it caused me to feel things very similar to what the OP was referring to.

I also know that I posted some things that, in retrospect, sounded very angry, and bitter, and jaded.

But. After having been here a while now, I can honestly say that the friends ( females ) that I have made here have made me rethink some of the things I thought to be complete truths.

I have also learned to think about the way I post things. I know I can still come off as a bit jaded at times, but I am not nearly as bad as I used to be about it. Of course, there are things that I feel to be true, that no amount of denying by the women folk here will change. That's just the way things go.

But, keep in mind, that it took well over a year for things to clarify themselves to me. He's been here a little over 5 months.

Maybe he'll mellow and realize that the way he thinks of women now isn't the way things really are. Maybe he won't.

I believe this thread was spun on pure insecurity and thats just too bad for him. Women like CONFIDENT men, not ones who b!tch about how unfair the world is.

Guess what, the world isn't changing so deal with it the way it is and move on with your life. If you TRULY believe this of women and that you wont be able to find an exception that suites you then start lookin at the dudes.

This is true Myka

we could both be jaded and slam men but why? we know all men aren't pieces of sh*t..

So Atlantis and Monier, women are gold diggers and money hunger.. Tell me how you can compare the wrong of that to a man trying to kill you?? I'm just curious b/c as I said before it happened to me and I've never ever slammed ALL MEN for it..


And Guy thank you, I've known you since you signed on right after me I think and you're a wonderful man that takes responsibility and actually listens to people and their point of view...

I try.

For all the good it's done me....lmao

Did you just say wrong and then proceed to say the same thing and just add something to it?

After that, the arguement seemed to be focused at somebody else claiming something different than me.

Then a statement of how I am not adversely affecting you in the least, which I was not trying to do.

huh?

No I did not.. I'll wait while you read again... I am saying exactly the opposite "except" the fact that I used your "sum of experiences and desires" saying they are OUR OWN not we are each the some of one another's....

Lemme splain this for you monier...

You guys are jaded because you think women are gold diggers based on past experiences ...

Is that so bad compared to a woman who has had had her life threatened by a man? What does it say about your sissy asses that she can endure that and not stereo type men?

Not sure what part you didn't get.. I did have a type, meant money hungry not hunger....

and let me clarify what I said. We used in the context as each of us.