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let's keep it real .... ur on here u got a depressed dude at home whats wrong seems like u lookin for a new cat ......please cheezzzzzz i'm not messin with no drepessed cat sorry life is short got no time for a dudes drama .tell him to cry a river at some other b!tches doorstep .
 
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He needs professional help and you need to leave so he gets it.
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yeppp he was sweeter bout it but is true
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Edited by
Kiena
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Mon 04/20/09 12:28 PM
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His actions and his words aren't matching up right now....He says he loves me and how gorgeous I am, but under the sheets he doesn't care about me, doesn't love me....just takes what he wants and passes out....that hurts the worst. I guess I just keep expecting him to just snap out of this and be like how he was....I don't know....the whole saying "wish in one hand and sh*t in another and see which one fills up faster" is coming into play here. I guess part of me is thinking that if I endure through some ****, he'll eventually come around and be okay again...this all sounds dramatic and anyone reading this knows what I should do. My brain knows, my heart says not to listen to logic.
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Anyways, thanks everyone for their help...
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serious clues to cheating
you need to follow him, and find out check his phone if all checks out clean perhaps his work is not going well home life with family or friends are not going well he is thinking, that you are not the one, hasn't cheated, but would like to date some one else thinking of a change in this life, new life, new city, new state sorry for your pain rejection hurts, no matter how it is packaged usa |
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I think my fiance is depressed....I have been trying really hard to cheer him up by fixing nice dinners, renting his favorite movies, trying to cuddle...nothing is working. He usually just snaps at me or tells me to go find something to do. If I cry about it, he gets frustrated and says that it's all I ever do. I don't know what to do....He doesn't even want to have sex with me. I try holding him in bed and he shrugs me off....he says he is too old...I am twenty and he's twenty nine...I hardly think that that is an explanation.... Any suggestions? Any thing I can do to help him out? That is not a normal explanation. Take him to a physcitrist and have him checked ouy. Make sure you go with him or else he will say what he want to and receive no help. Good luck with it, It helped me alot. Sorry about the spelling. |
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Maybe you need to look closer at the facts...
He may have outgrown you and the relationship, just does not know how to end it. Remember sometimes letting go it the better thing than holding on to something that may end up souring more. Maybe he needs time out, maybe you are smothering him, take a few steps back, he either will move forward towards you or move backwards and away... never hold anyone by emotional blackmail, if you love him as you say you do, let him go and if you are right for each other, you will bond again, if not, move on. |
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Why can't people just end things? Ugh...myself included.
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Why can't people just end things? Ugh...myself included. Fear of change is a powerful thing. It is, at it's base, an insecurity with yourself. "What if I can't find another man. Maybe this is the best I can do" I'm not really preaching to you here. I'm still dealing with my own level of confidence in this area. They key is to take stock of you. Know your value. Learn to love yourself. And know that you deserve to be be happy and to be treated well. |
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