That isn't a mess. That is smart.






It's only a mess if everything is in HIS name and you're paying for it.

Or it's only mess if everything is in your name and he's paying for it.

It's only a mess if you're pregnant

Not currently...i am going to try to get back in...

Why did you quit?

i hate to say it but from how you described how he is ignoring everything you do...EVEN when you touch him and try to have sex with him.....it sounds like he MIGHT be seeing someone else or losing some of his feelings for you

that is ONE option of what could be wrong.....if it lasts for a long time i would DEFINITELY want to make sure that he is being faithful or just make sure that he is still in love with you

JMO

I couldn't afford it...his truck needed a new front end, bills, I had to make a trip to the er this year...

You know, maybe you should seek counseling. We are not professionals here on this site, and if we are we can't advise on the basis of one sided testimony very accurately.

Some things to ponder...

Your friends have been distanced... your fiance is distanced... you have lost weight... you have put your college plans on hold for financial reasons... it sems you are doing everything you can think of to hold on to this relationship...

Please get counseling for the both of you. You will benefit from it immensly.

Good luck, and God Speed!

I don't know if he'd agree to counseling...

Then would you? Think about your well being here...

My guess is that your co dependent on his finances as well as yours?.. if so.. well that's a hard road to walk. If you can't make it on your own then maybe a room mate? some one of the same sex? who could use the help just like you?. If its not about finances and he acts this way? my thought is what normal 29 year old man shuns a good looking woman? he has a job, so thats not likely it? gives me reason to believe there is more to this then meets the eye.. Maybe he is thinking its over and just can't do it? or he might be thinking a new girl in his life? the point is you have tried it sounds like to do everything except ask HIM..... why? and if its someone else well sorry but life goes on

If you are twenty how much time have you really put it to this relationship. Your just starting the fun path of life... Don't get caught in bills go back to college.....

counseling is a waste of time and money, such a silly suggestion.

im with him on the counseling,

your what 20,

you haven't even turned 21 yet get ready

You should never speak ill of yourself.
Your not at fault and your not broken.
Shouldn't say those kinda things
about yourself. too negative and your might start actually
believing them.

your not "just a cashier" either
your a person who holds a job
at a well known establishment that most of us shop at.
Its an important job or it wouldn't exist.

I've been crushed in a relationship.
It took me a long time to get over it
maybe 15 minutes or so

But seriously,
your strong because you want to work it out with him.
thats admireable, and shows loyalty, your independent,
your have your feet on the ground,
Any lady with those qualities
is a great catch to a lot of good men.

Dont fall into the co-dependent thing.

You said "HE'S DEPRESSED" not you.



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you got some dirt on your shoulder,


let me help you brush that off

Whats up dubz?

Who ya talking to?

i was talking to the OP

But hey how you doin

Doing alright

How about yourself?

im great no compliants here,

tgif,

and yourself?