He's 5o??? Well, you certainly like mature guys! Ok, i can understand why he told you a little white lie. So he's a little bit nearer his pension, but then you didn't exactly go out with him because you liked his school uniform, did you? Are you scared that he's older? Why? Doe's it make you feel less immortal???

Women do it all the time and nobody says a word, yet a guy doe's it, the whole world falls apart? Why is that!? Because we expect men to be less two-faced than women??? Talk about one for rule for them and another for us! Listen, it's not like he's jail bait claiming he's 2o and trying to get into your knickers! :p

Thank You Male2009!
I just had a BD Jan 1 & thought about pushing my month up a few so it still read 49. You know how many profile 'looking for' brackets that I now am out of!! LOL

The dishonesty is clearly the issue here and I can see that point being made. However the age difference itself is insignificant. You are 28 and he is 33. Will this matter when you are 85 and he is 90? You will both be gumming your steak. It doesn’t matter now either.

Right. Like women don't.

Please.

And just how long have you been 28?

And you reach this conclusion based on?

I don't see what 5 years has to do with anything, but if he will lie to you about his age, he will lie to you about other things as well, in my opinion.
I won't tolerate any dishonesty, but this is your affair, so the ball is in your court. I would tell him why, and send him down the road for being a damm liar.

my interpretation of most all of the responces here.

Oh because I dont see that at all.

IMO ,just seems many 'luv to jump on the band wagon' based on past emotions. allways takes two to tango. No two people (or gender or age bracket) are the same & percieved intolerance should not be used to judge. But is really hard on the internet!

Like I have said a few times in this form, it is not a fact that he is older then he said he was, it is the fact that he felt that he needed to be dishonest. The fact that he is actually older did not change my feelings for him, it is the fact that he lied that changed my feelings for him.

Both men and women lie I get that, but when you get into a relationship, then honesty should be one of the key ingredients. Just my opinion though, I mean everybody has traits that they look for in a partner, mine just happen to be mature men for the most part and honesty. My list could go on, but that would be for another forum topic that has already been played out too many times.

Like I have said a few times in this form, it is not a fact that he is older then he said he was, it is the fact that he felt that he needed to be dishonest. The fact that he is actually older did not change my feelings for him, it is the fact that he lied that changed my feelings for him.

Both men and women lie I get that, but when you get into a relationship, then honesty should be one of the key ingredients. Just my opinion though, I mean everybody has traits that they look for in a partner, mine just happen to be mature men for the most part and honesty. My list could go on, but that would be for another forum topic that has already been played out too many times.

I do, but that's the kind to be a friend to and witness their recovery. There are a couple examples that come to mind in that area.

Quadrupedal post sorry

Like I have said a few times in this form, it is not a fact that he is older then he said he was, it is the fact that he felt that he needed to be dishonest. The fact that he is actually older did not change my feelings for him, it is the fact that he lied that changed my feelings for him.

Both men and women lie I get that, but when you get into a relationship, then honesty should be one of the key ingredients. Just my opinion though, I mean everybody has traits that they look for in a partner, mine just happen to be mature men for the most part and honesty. My list could go on, but that would be for another forum topic that has already been played out too many times.

Like I have said a few times in this form, it is not a fact that he is older then he said he was, it is the fact that he felt that he needed to be dishonest. The fact that he is actually older did not change my feelings for him, it is the fact that he lied that changed my feelings for him.

Both men and women lie I get that, but when you get into a relationship, then honesty should be one of the key ingredients. Just my opinion though, I mean everybody has traits that they look for in a partner, mine just happen to be mature men for the most part and honesty. My list could go on, but that would be for another forum topic that has already been played out too many times.