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Topic: i am finding it difficult to date interracially, any tips
ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:34 PM
i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears

ZeeZee's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:35 PM
You mean uncomfortable or can't find anybody?

ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:40 PM
hi how r u doing? i cant find anyone

CaliGamer85's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:41 PM
I've always dated outside my race and the only opposition I've had was from black guys giving my white boyfriends dirty looks! What issues are you coming across?

ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:43 PM
i am just finding it difficult to meet the good ones.

franshade's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:48 PM
at the top of my page

www.interracialdating.com

good luck to ya


FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:49 PM
I'm having difficulty meeting anyone, at least your meeting bad ones.

Krimsa's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:50 PM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears


I dated an Indian man (from India) for a spell of time and I am Caucasian. You just need to mentally prepare yourself for other people making comments that are insensitive and very naive. Sometimes people do it and you can tell its not meant to be hurtful but more just out of their own ignorance. After a while, you become accustomed to it

Im not saying that you need to build an "us against the world" mentality, but just be aware that it will happen in public settings when you are out together.

PBug's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:53 PM

i am just finding it difficult to meet the good ones.


We all are, regardless of race.

ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:55 PM
awwwwwww i know we r all one, just want to try something different

ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:56 PM
r u looking for a particular race though?

eastcoastblood's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:57 PM

i am just finding it difficult to meet the good ones.

im a good one :)

ijegirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 12:59 PM
really? now i am happy atleast we have one good one out there

no photo
Wed 12/17/08 06:16 PM
It depends upon how you define "good one".

If you prefer a specific religion then you could try going to churches of that religion.

Otherwise places where people volunteer can provide a unique opportunity to meet people.

Then again you might prefer the traditional meeting places like work or some social activity.

Seakolony's photo
Wed 12/17/08 06:25 PM
There are good ones and bad ones in all ethnic backgrounds.

buttons's photo
Wed 12/17/08 06:28 PM

There are good ones and bad ones in all ethnic backgrounds.
agreed....

Dragoness's photo
Wed 12/17/08 06:30 PM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears


I have found that the cultural difference can be difficult if you are not open and understanding of the fact that misunderstandings will happen.

Cultural differences cause different meanings to words used daily, different interpretations of actions, different traditional and social interactions, etc...

So good luck with that, be open and understanding of the differences and you should be alright.

galendgirl's photo
Wed 12/17/08 07:39 PM


i am just finding it difficult to meet the good ones.


We all are, regardless of race.


Kinda what I was thinking...it's got nothing to do with race. Meeting what is a "good one" for you is always a challenge and when you do, they might not even be what you thought you were looking for.

no photo
Thu 12/18/08 12:33 AM

i am just finding it difficult to meet the good ones.


good luck with that

squonk's photo
Thu 12/18/08 05:38 AM
Interracial or not people are people and some are blessed with a good personality and others aren't.

Now I will say that interracial dating could have some serious ramifications such as loss of family, loss of friends, and also very uncomfortable behavior. So it could potentially be an overwhelming burden to some people which makes even the best of the couples split up.

Love is love and I do believe it can be found anywhere but finding the right person to love you like you love them... Well I haven't been so fortunate.

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