It's not always the other person who is the problem; it's society, friends, family, co-workers, neighbors, etc. The average person isn't strong enough- or willing- to stand up to criticism and abuse based on who they date, so it's easier to stick with your own race- and yeah I know, we're all the "human race" I'm referring to the common conception of race, ie. ethnicity, black, white, asian, etc etc.

It's also because of ingrained prejudices that usually prevent it being more than an "exotic friends with benefits" situation.

Note: This is just my opinion, before the politically correct people start bashing me for being "narrow minded," so calm down. If you're into ir relationships, go for it. Just be prepared to face the consequences, we don't all live in fairytale land, and there are some really intolerant a$$holes out there.

Im pretty fly for a white guy

in a couple hundred years ewre all gonna be the same color anyway, so may as well start to get used to it.

and i wouldnt care, then again, people find it hard to relate to me!

but seriously. why dont we find something of a bit more substance to be worried about?

You are one beautiful Lady.
A couple reasons you may be having a hard time is a lot of men are intimidated by a taller woman and I can imagine there aren't many men taller than you. Secondly, I don't know where you find the men you say aren't so good to you. The last place I'd look for a good woman is in a club or that type of environment. You might also state in your profile that you are open to dating outside your race.
Again, you look to be one fine woman. Hang in there and it will happen for you.
Too bad I'm so danged old.

LOL, about us all being the same color eventually. I seriously doubt that; I know alot of people who don't date/marry/sleep with/have kids with people outside their race, so while it is becoming more widespread, not everyone is doing it.

Btw, I just perved your profile and see you're only 21 and full of idealism so I'm sorry to be so hard on you, you haven't seen or experienced what I have, so you have no idea.

i used to be super "realistic" and it was sad. i have to be ideal or else everything else just seems pointles.

I guess. I just don't feel that way anymore, I used to...

lets get back to black girls looking for white guys



my tip is "just do it"

or don't

a cow is getting arrogant.

back in the herd brian, back in the herd...

lmao

who's the cow?

im saying that humans are the herd, and we all are cows, but as one strays from the herd to do his own thing and think his own way, the rest of the herd gets arrogant and upset.

hmmm perhaps. i like doing my own thing, even though it usually bites me in the a$$

If the two connect and the time spent together equates to a smile...a good mental tattoo...or just amazing sex...

Ethnicity becomes pretty much irrelevant when you are dealing with a naked person. They are either smiling..or they aren't.

unless they're laughing, then you have a problem....

i wish you luck!!!!

unless they're laughing, then you have a problem....



Muahahahahahhaa...you are soooooooo wrong. Seriously! I swear,....getting sunk hilt deep right at the point of..(Pushing the Happy Button)..then you whisper something into your lovers ear as she busts up laughing...directly in the middle of a serious orgasm....and you feel the vaginal walls going crazy...Dude! Nothing else like it. I love to make them laugh.

The real secret to doing that is very simple.

Don't see, think, or act in anyway that THEIR different than YOU, wink..

WE ARE ALL human beings and to know that and really feel that..
FOLKS don't have a color or a group...their just a stranger, until you call them a friend.
and welcome here..Good luck in your search....