Topic: i am finding it difficult to date interracially, any tips
notquite00's photo
Fri 12/19/08 01:31 AM
Edited by notquite00 on Fri 12/19/08 01:32 AM

There are good ones and bad ones in all ethnic backgrounds.


Sorry, Asian girls are only good. love

...jk oops

Edit: Oh, I'm outside your race and willing to date, but I'm a bad one. T_T

no photo
Fri 12/19/08 02:59 AM
laugh laugh laugh




ya wanna go to the white side?????laugh laugh laugh

ok here are my thoughts. You want to go out with someone based on their colour. Screw personality, compatability, love, lust whatever........

I shake my head!!!!noway laugh noway

bry11calcool's photo
Fri 12/19/08 07:11 AM
Waer a Burkha . . . noone will know what race you are.

Just Kiddin

Neener, neener, neener

Bry

CaliGamer85's photo
Mon 12/22/08 07:38 PM
I personally find it very offensive when someone dates me just because they want an interracial relationship. I don't want someone to date me because "they've never dated a black girl before" (and yes, I HAVE heard that one several times before believe it or not)I want them to date me because they like ME! not for the amount of melanin (or lack thereof)in my skin. So, with this said, you might be offending guys if you are telling them you are dating them because they are a different ethnicity than you. Also, if you tend to buy into an ethnic stereotype, you will typically only attract guys from that ethnic group. If you do find a guy outside your race, get ready to face some opposition. Not everyone is as open-minded as you are and may not lie seeing you with someone outside your race. Be prepared for stares, glares, mumbles as you walk by, and some elderly have the audacity to walk up and tell you to your face... but that's just because they are from a different generation.

chin up... keep looking... you'll find him!

keepthehope's photo
Mon 12/22/08 10:11 PM
I think you are trying to hard to look outside of your race. Don't worry about the race, look at each man apart from the color of his skin. You may be missing someone really wonderful by trying to date someone because of one aspect of their lives.

Totage's photo
Mon 12/22/08 10:12 PM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears


Do or don't What's the difference?

no photo
Fri 01/02/09 10:07 PM

I personally find it very offensive when someone dates me just because they want an interracial relationship. I don't want someone to date me because "they've never dated a black girl before" (and yes, I HAVE heard that one several times before believe it or not)I want them to date me because they like ME! not for the amount of melanin (or lack thereof)in my skin. So, with this said, you might be offending guys if you are telling them you are dating them because they are a different ethnicity than you. Also, if you tend to buy into an ethnic stereotype, you will typically only attract guys from that ethnic group. If you do find a guy outside your race, get ready to face some opposition. Not everyone is as open-minded as you are and may not lie seeing you with someone outside your race. Be prepared for stares, glares, mumbles as you walk by, and some elderly have the audacity to walk up and tell you to your face... but that's just because they are from a different generation.

chin up... keep looking... you'll find him!


all true. drinker

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 01/02/09 10:59 PM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears


I wouldn't advise dating farm animals. Race... like we're different.

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 01/02/09 11:03 PM
im color blind flowerforyou

nogames39's photo
Sat 01/03/09 12:11 AM
Edited by nogames39 on Sat 01/03/09 12:13 AM
I think that interracial dating is a great way to lose bad friends and in general to figure out who around you is a hidden pig.

As for not finding a good one... Honey, that's why we are all here. It's not easy, but if you date outside of your own race, mathematically, you stand much better chances unless you're Chinese. (all the races are now within your selection).


Someone said this, I don't even know who, but it's a great thought (i think): "Let us all marry someone from a different race, let us all get somewhat equally beige, so that we can finally put an end to all this racial bullsheet."

Finally, I am good and you look pretty. If you lived nearby, I'd take you out.

Don't despair.flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 01/03/09 12:20 AM
I don't get it. It's difficult to find a decent compatable guy, why try to make it harder by insisting he's of a different race?? Or the same race for that matter??

Good luck I hope you find a good guy!flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 01/03/09 12:46 AM
don't mention dating to them, just say you want to hook up or you want friends with benefits and see how many takers you get.:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/03/09 01:36 AM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears
flowers

s1owhand's photo
Sat 01/03/09 01:38 AM
it's a guy thing

laugh

i agree with the just hang in there comment!

flowerforyou

PunkRockPrincesS's photo
Sat 01/03/09 01:53 AM


i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears


Do or don't What's the difference?
Just go Out one night and meet someone and approach it the same way you would if you were dating a black guy or an asian guy or whatever.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 01/03/09 02:11 AM
I have only dated humans ohwell

And some not so human laugh laugh laugh

krupa's photo
Sat 01/03/09 06:16 AM
A good date is a good date....skin colour and ethnicity have zero to do with it. I have dated pretty much everything but an Inuit (I will if I get the chance)....

I suppose that I am lucky that I never once heard a disparaging or condescending remark...but, I don't carry myself like I am willing to take any crap from anyone. Seems like the women just automatically sense that I am not intimidated by thier families or thier cultures.

papersmile's photo
Sat 01/03/09 06:22 AM

i have always wanted to date outside my race, but i am finding it extra difficult to do so, tears

i figure the best thing is to find a man who interests who on all major issues and let his race be secondary.

no photo
Sat 01/03/09 11:26 AM

A good date is a good date....skin colour and ethnicity have zero to do with it. I have dated pretty much everything but an Inuit (I will if I get the chance)....

I suppose that I am lucky that I never once heard a disparaging or condescending remark...but, I don't carry myself like I am willing to take any crap from anyone. Seems like the women just automatically sense that I am not intimidated by thier families or thier cultures.


That's good, I guess.

7z3r05's photo
Sat 01/03/09 11:30 AM
i have seen some rly good lookin black girls.

id have no problem with it.