You count male to female responses? Thats odd. Did you look at why the males received responses? I went back and looked. The males asked questions that I feel needed answering and the males made most of the post. The females just stuck to the op topic and gave their opinions without asking a question needing a response. I dont reply to every post because there are too many. I reply to the post that ask questions.
Did you see I did start ignoring males that starting getting off topic or mean? Go back and look again and see who asked the questions.

random answers

i wasnt accusing.. it wasjust an odd patern i noticed..

and you didnt answer all the questions thatyou were asked.. just the ones asked by the males..


i just noticed that most people (female in this instance) who are here for dating and not jsut friendship come in and do what you just did.. scan thru the female posts, and reply to the male posts..


it doesnt seem to be a concious thing.. just somethin odd i noticed.

didnt mean to offend you.

I wasnt saying you were a ugly man that needed a kitty pic. I just was agreeing with your post. bad kitty. (I hope its ok that I posted to you, seems that youre supposed to post to males and females in the same amount or you make some upset)

I happen to look at who is responding to hot topics as well, even gender. It can be very telling. It's called "listening".

I personally felt I made the "most of your post", but got ignored...not that I'm going to loose any sleep over it, mind you.

I'm just saying, that often times the best comments derive from those given without the need to answer a question.

Repeating....OH, to be 21 again!

I think we should have an "all face" day so I can trip out even though I'm sober. heh heh heh

My argument is flawed??

On the contrary. My argument is perfectly sound.

Think about this for a minute.

What people put up as avatars usually go a little way toward letting someone know what they are about.

If a woman was to see my the picture I have up, see the fact that I am a guy, and think that me having a cartoon such as the one I currently have is kinda funny and she wants to know more about me, THAT is the kind of woman I want to get to know.

If my avatar doesn't make her wonder, then chances are, we probably won't have the same kind of sense of humor...if she has one at all.

I have another cartoonish pic in my profile that I call the Bondage Bear. When I use that avatar as my main, my profile gets a lot more views than it does when I use something else.

Why?? Because seeing the Bondage Bear makes them wonder.

I want someone who has curiosity in their nature. Someone who would look at a picture like the bear and wonder what kind of guy would use that image. If she is curious enough to actually want to know, then she would probably click on my profile and would then get to see what I look like from the 12 or so pics I have of myself IN my profile. Then, if she likes how I look, she would probably read what I have to say.

Someone who bases their decision to click, or not click, on one picture will not be getting the full story and may be missing out on something really good.

I want the woman who will take a chance on digging a little deeper and putting a little more effort into it then just looking at a picture.

Whether or not she is a forum person has no bearing on what I want. There are a lot of women on this site who have never gone anywhere near the forums. That doesn't change what I want. If I don't find it...so be it.

I use real pics of myself, and I don't want to date anyone on this site.

(addressing two up) A bondage bear would make me click because its an unusual pic. The one you have now is just an average cartoon that fits the forums but does nothing for those searching the profiles looking for a guy.
Bondage bear Just you mentioning it got me to click your profile.

okat I saw that bondage bear and that would so make me click.

(addressing one up)
Okay then?

See what I mean??

It made you wonder.

THAT'S the kind of thing I am looking for.

(one up) When I first saw the one you have now I thought you were a female.

I have heard that a couple of times. Unfortunately...Snoopy never opened an advice stand....lmao

Also....keep in mind that had you looked at it a little closer....it does say JustAGuy2112 above the " Doctor Is In " part. :-)

BY the way...just a hint....

The best way to let people know you are referring to their post is to hit the " Quote " at the bottom of the post. :-)

I know. I use quotes usually but not always because over quoting makes the page too long.

Ah. Ok. Just trying to help. :-)

I did notice. A girl pic and a guy name but it didnt matter at the time, not until you said bondage bear.

Yeah, very easy to overlook when HIS s/n is JustaGUY, eh?

That gets 'em every time...lmao

Funny how that works, eh??? lol

Well, I just changed mine, not to a cartoon, but to Marilyn Manson. Why? Because some weirdo kept perving me, he must have viewed me 5 times in 5 minutes. So I hope he enjoys Manson, LOL