I see many of you use cartoons as your main picture and many of you have other cartoons on your profile so I have to ask you. Aren't you trying to meet people for dating and don't you think the cartoon pictures hurt your chances because people can't see what you look like? I am not judging I am just curious. With some of you the cartoon you use almost becomes who you are. The ones with scary cartoons have me thinking the person is mean or scary. I don't think it on purpose but it seems I just associate you with your picture.

actually the cartoon of choice is usually a pretty good indicator of the persons personality

some of us are here only for existing friends and aren't interested in dating. For me, I have a girlfriend and I'm not interested in meeting girls so it is a plus if my cartoon choice inhibits the girls trying to contact me

Some of us have up pictures other than ourselves b/c it shows our personality or interests. Some of us that have been on this site long enough are less eager about meeting a potential partner than we are to making and maintaining friendships.

Its a personal preference, do what you want with your profile... and good luck!

Welcome to another newbie ! just relax were not all nuts it's called a sense of humor . Join in and you'll find a lot of good people here !

I think its wrong to mislead people with your photo so i always put up pictures that accurately show me for who i am.

I like showing of my personality

having a picture of me up didn't bring anything but sexual advances

now the guy sees I have a brain and am not just another pretty face

just my

Quiet and Tanya are right.

It is ones preference to do as they please with their profiles.
If having cartoons up or other images other than them selves helps them express themselves than kudos to them. If it does not work for you simply pass them by and skip along.

Best of luck to you finding what you can here

youll shot your eye out with that thing.

I hope you dont wipe what you pull out of there on the wall. Im talking about the picture you have up now.

hello and welcome

I change my default pic according to my mood, no other reason.

Personally, I don't have a lot of hope in meeting my significant other on a dating site. There's just too few who use in my area. I'm here for a while to shoot the sh!t with some fellow Minglers. I've met quite a few potential mates on here, they're just too damn far away!
The chipmunk was cause I recorded & posted some Alvin & the Chipmunks style songs for a few ladies here.

Your a chipmunk for cryin out loud DUH !

I didn't think I looked that scary!

Hawaii you live in, that must be great. I plan on going there in the future. I plan on going everywhere in the future. I've visited about a dozen states so far and now I just need to go to Alaska and Hawaii and Europe. I work for a internet travel agency so I get great rates and I love to travel.

welcome to mingle, post in the forums

I am arent you paying attention? Hi

I am not a cartoon :(

That's shweet! I recommend Kauai & Maui, the most gorgeous of the isles IMHO. The Big Isle is nice too and has some great sites to see. I'm a country guy myself, so I'm not crazy about Oahu. I just got my passport & am going on my first out of country trip in Jan to Cambodia. Hopefully it won't be my last since I'd love to visit south isle New Zealand & Europe someday! If I didn't have my boy, I'd probably wander for a while.

I refuse to even call a site such as this a "dating" site. I call them "socialization sites". Personally, I am only here for my friends, past, present, and future. I am not interested in the least about finding a date, as I already have that taken care of. I am here to socialize (mingle -- funny how that works) with people. Those that ARE here looking for a date still must socialize in order to get to know somebody else.

On another site I belong to, you're only allowed to put up actual pix of yourself...& they have to show your entire face. Of course, some people will post pix of themselves that are quite a few years old or of another person entirely, so the point is rather moot...

I enjoy the freedom of expressing myself in cartoon, Klingon Warrior, or natural form! It's fun & keeps the place interesting...