Topic: The older I get
REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 09:44 AM
When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow.

I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm notlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time.smokin

franshade's photo
Mon 11/24/08 09:46 AM

When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow.

I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm notlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time.smokin


woooooohhhhhhhhooooooooo :banana:

do things without expectations
meet people without expectations
enjoy each moment
make memories
no stress


wtg!!!!!!!!!!

:banana:

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 11/24/08 09:49 AM
I have found as I have grown older that I'm no longer in a big hurry to rush into a "committed" relationship. I was already married for almost 10 years and there are certain thing I do miss having, the sleeping alone was a hard one to get used to.

But I think the older we get, we start to realize we don't have to settle



no photo
Mon 11/24/08 09:50 AM

The older I get, the more I find people get set in their ways and are inflexible to a relationship.

The older I get, the more I find lots of men suck in bed. They are selfish, lazy, and don't communicate or pay attention. (I have noticed that giving women oral is "popular" though, so hey kudos to that and it's about time!)

The older I get, the more I realize men want a woman to fit with them, rather than to mesh and compliment one another.

The older I get, the more sad, sorry and pathetic dates I go on.

The older I get, the more I realize the struggle to remain optimistic can be hard.

The older I get, the more I appreciate the support of my friends.


Wow! Get outta my head!flowerforyou

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 11/24/08 10:18 AM

The less I want to be in a "committed relationship". Does anyone else feel the same way.


Humm afraid not, I'm also one that is older and some day I do hope to find that special someone. But....the older I get there are cerain things I do look for and will not settle. I want that one that when together we fit like a glove but also have other interest as well. One that wants me as much as I want them.

Being alone I have done for a long time now I do enjoy having my freedom as well but would love to find someone to also share those special moments with as well. But I'm not in a hurry within time it will happen.bigsmile

no photo
Mon 11/24/08 10:27 AM

No, but a little sex would be nicefrustrated


A lot of great sex would be nice. Not just a little.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 11/24/08 10:30 AM
the older i get, the more i appreciate the special
people i find everywhere.

the older i get the more i find.

the older i get the more variety i experience.

the more variety i experience the more fun i have.

the older i get.

bigsmile


REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:31 AM


The less I want to be in a "committed relationship". Does anyone else feel the same way.


absolutely !...I just ended a 24 year marriage...there's something to be said for privacy, and freedom...drinker
drinker drinker Hi Gioflowerforyou

Tanzkity's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:33 AM
Oh its not that bad.............if we all felt that way we would all never be borned..............come on a little optimism......flowerforyou

FETTS61's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:35 AM
the older i get

the better i wasohwell

REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:36 AM

The older I get the more I think I just need to be committed
rofl rofl rofl

REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:38 AM

Being that I'm sitting at home & alone during the holiday season, I'll answer with "the older I get, the more I'd like to have someone to pass the time with".

As for sex, more frequent and better quality are always welcome ;)
:thumbsup: :banana:

no photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:39 AM
I was very young, and I wanted a committed relationship. I got older and I grew a serious aversion to commitment. Now, I'm sort of in between. I'm not sure if it has anything to do with age, maybe more just like time and circumstance.

REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:39 AM

Nope.

I don't care how old I get, I miss being a wife.
Never been a wifetears Never been askedbrokenheart

no photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:41 AM
I just realized that if I dont go out and try that I may be an old maid!!noway

ChrisMarines05's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:46 AM
well the older i get (im 22) the more i realize ive got PLENTY of time to find the right one.




so for now im just enjoying the rollercoastershades

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:48 AM
One thing is for sure..

The older I get

the more things I do that could GET ME COMMITTED..

TO AN INSTITUTION!!

REDGIRL67's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:49 AM

Oh its not that bad.............if we all felt that way we would all never be borned..............come on a little optimism......flowerforyou
Don't get me wrong, I am happyhappy I love being alone since their seem to be no more men out their that want a "relationship". Let's face it though. All men want anymore is to have a little fun and be able to walk away, "no strings". All i'm saying is, since we can't change "the game", we mine as well play it.flowerforyou

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 11/24/08 11:50 AM


Nope.

I don't care how old I get, I miss being a wife.
Never been a wifetears Never been askedbrokenheart


Hey Redgirl...Wanna get hitched? LOL!

Giocamo's photo
Mon 11/24/08 12:01 PM



The less I want to be in a "committed relationship". Does anyone else feel the same way.


absolutely !...I just ended a 24 year marriage...there's something to be said for privacy, and freedom...drinker
drinker drinker Hi Gioflowerforyou


Ciao...Ragazza Rossa...