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Nope. I don't care how old I get, I miss being a wife.  Never been asked Hey Redgirl...Wanna get hitched? LOL!  
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow. I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm not since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time. I don't see a problem with just having fun for now. You don't have to give up on that committed relationship forever, though. |
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absolutely !...I just ended a 24 year marriage...there's something to be said for privacy, and freedom...  You'll feel differently as more time passes. I was married for 22 yrs. and it's been 3 yrs. and I'm more than ready to settle down again. I hate the dating scene!!!! It's horrible. |
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absolutely !...I just ended a 24 year marriage...there's something to be said for privacy, and freedom... You'll feel differently as more time passes. I was married for 22 yrs. and it's been 3 yrs. and I'm more than ready to settle down again. I hate the dating scene!!!! It's horrible. Don't ya!!!!! I hate dating!!!! Such a pain. Last date I went on neither one of us called each other again. Yes, someone I met on mingle.
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow. I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm not since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time. I don't see a problem with just having fun for now. You don't have to give up on that committed relationship forever, though. Hi ya Em....I try to have fun in the dating scene....but my morals get in the way. The one just earlier talking about the guys who just seem to want it to be a "booty call" .....well....so I try to communicate w/ a guy who says I want only friendship first and see how things go....afterall don't put the icing before the cake and then I date him and go out for a few dates...then accept a dinner date the following night and woa baby!!!! "wait a min....what happened to making a friendship first....or seeing the cake first....or whatever the hel* you want to call it. His response was " well the icing is far tooooooo tempting!!" WTF!!!!!!! Don't think so!!!! Go ice somebody else's cake then!!! |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Mon 11/24/08 12:20 PM
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". And if they make you feel like a "booty call" than you charge em like one... Oh hey dude... I need some new boots, some jeans, maybe alittle bling... and youll be paying for everything.. yes. Thats how I deal with that! And no, im not a prostitute or a gold-digger! But my "Booty Calls" aint free! |
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 That was a mingle guy!!!!
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow. I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm not since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time. I don't see a problem with just having fun for now. You don't have to give up on that committed relationship forever, though. Hi ya Em....I try to have fun in the dating scene....but my morals get in the way. The one just earlier talking about the guys who just seem to want it to be a "booty call" .....well....so I try to communicate w/ a guy who says I want only friendship first and see how things go....afterall don't put the icing before the cake and then I date him and go out for a few dates...then accept a dinner date the following night and woa baby!!!! "wait a min....what happened to making a friendship first....or seeing the cake first....or whatever the hel* you want to call it. His response was " well the icing is far tooooooo tempting!!" WTF!!!!!!! Don't think so!!!! Go ice somebody else's cake then!!!   I run into that all the time! First they want to go slow and before you know it they're all over you like white on rice.
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". And if they make you feel like a "booty call" than you charge em like one... Oh hey dude... I need some new boots, some jeans, maybe alittle bling... and youll be paying for everything.. yes. Thats how I deal with that! And no, im not a prostitute! But my "Booty Calls" aint free! |
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The less I want to be in a "committed relationship". Does anyone else feel the same way. Actually, I'm exactly the opposite. I would LOVE a committed relationship. There just aren't any suitable candidates. |
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When I first started out with this "dating site" thing, I did want a "committed relationship" but the men I meet seem to just want a "booty call". So I have given up and trying to find anyone special. Now I just go with the flow. I just realized i'm sounding bitter. But i'm not since I have given up on finding that special someone and started going with the flow, i've been having a great time. I don't see a problem with just having fun for now. You don't have to give up on that committed relationship forever, though. Hi ya Em....I try to have fun in the dating scene....but my morals get in the way. The one just earlier talking about the guys who just seem to want it to be a "booty call" .....well....so I try to communicate w/ a guy who says I want only friendship first and see how things go....afterall don't put the icing before the cake and then I date him and go out for a few dates...then accept a dinner date the following night and woa baby!!!! "wait a min....what happened to making a friendship first....or seeing the cake first....or whatever the hel* you want to call it. His response was " well the icing is far tooooooo tempting!!" WTF!!!!!!! Don't think so!!!! Go ice somebody else's cake then!!! Yeah, I know what you mean. There aren't even many around here that I'd even want to meet. If I could even find some in my area to meet just as friends, that would be cool. |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Mon 11/24/08 12:24 PM
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The less I want to be in a "committed relationship". Does anyone else feel the same way. Actually, I'm exactly the opposite. I would LOVE a committed relationship. There just aren't any suitable candidates. Hey Les... I want a committed relationship too! And you and I have the longest profiles on Mingle. I fear,however,if we ever got together, neither one of us would be able to get a word in edgewise! lol. |
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The older I get, the idea of bringing a child into this world becomes more bleak.
However, I would still like to find my "soulmate" or whatever and settle down. |
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hell the older I get, the better I get better at making choices better at making deadlines better at being me Do I need a man? - No Would I like a man to share my life? - absoflippinglutely!!!!! Would I settle? - HELL NO! Well said!!
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thanks
here's another, the older I get the more I enjoy and value life
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Hey Les... I want a committed relationship too! And you and I have the longest profiles on Mingle. I fear,however,if we ever got together, neither one of us would be able to get a word in edgewise! lol. It's funny, but in real life, I do way more listening than talking. I'm everybody's designated therapist, and that involves a LOT of listening. I really don't TALK to anybody very much at all. Writing is another thing entirely; that's my outlet. |
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Edited by
Winx
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Mon 11/24/08 12:46 PM
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The older I get, the idea of bringing a child into this world becomes more bleak. However, I would still like to find my "soulmate" or whatever and settle down. It's not so bleak. You have another 15+ yrs. to think about having a child. I was older then you when I had my child. |
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Hey Les... I want a committed relationship too! And you and I have the longest profiles on Mingle. I fear,however,if we ever got together, neither one of us would be able to get a word in edgewise! lol. It's funny, but in real life, I do way more listening than talking. I'm everybody's designated therapist, and that involves a LOT of listening. I really don't TALK to anybody very much at all. Writing is another thing entirely; that's my outlet. |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Mon 11/24/08 12:49 PM
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Hey Les... I want a committed relationship too! And you and I have the longest profiles on Mingle. I fear,however,if we ever got together, neither one of us would be able to get a word in edgewise! lol. It's funny, but in real life, I do way more listening than talking. I'm everybody's designated therapist, and that involves a LOT of listening. I really don't TALK to anybody very much at all. Writing is another thing entirely; that's my outlet. I talk so much!! That is... unless you put something in my mouth. heehee. |
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Definitely, the older I get the more I want to be in a committed relationship. There's something about the thought of growing old and being alone that makes me want to sit in a corner and shiver. :) That's a sad sad sad thought.
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