hi im single and never dated it no lie, i have ask out girls but always got rejected, pretty sad ha im just unlucky so thought id see if this is normal or abnormal

That's a shame!! Hope you get some nice dates soon.

hi and welcome

that does suck man! i havn't had a GF in a few years, but i have found one promising beauty, so it could work for you too!

hmmmm you must be reaching for the crotch before you hold there hand

There's a lot to do with self-confidence in this case. Body language like shuffling and holding the head down along with failing to meet eye-contact is a real no-no. What it sounds like in your case is your approach may be all wrong.

Everyone isn't a Don Juan but you have to be a bit more energetic and maybe less nervous. I don't know you well enough to tell you what you're doing wrong. Women are people too so approaching them isn't impossible, just something that takes practice. Believe it or not they feel the same too.

Be Casual. Act as if nothing gets to you and dont be a wuss about things. Theres a time to be a bit mushy, and a time to be a little tough.As far as internet sites go, youve come to the right place.Like you, i was never horribly lucky myself. Had a few relationships, but nothing serious. Roll with the punches and learn from mistakes. SOme people it takes alot longer to figure out whats going wrong, just be observant, confident and casual. If you cant find a girl interested in you on this site, somethings seriously wrong. Not saying girls on this site are easy, but it's easier to connect here than other sites, for sure!

You better get with the program. Most men by your age have at least a child and an ex-wife.

wow...this totally means ur a virgin.....that sux....... bro i wish i really was a pimp cuz id have to hook u up thats a shame.....



Dude....just wow....

You're not a bad looking dude, I think you just need to work on being more comfortable and confident around chicks. I recommend watching the movie "School for Scoundrels"

lmao thats fuucked up

i am not lieing i have never been with a women i am not whinning but im just confused. i understand if you guys make fun of me but im not being a asshole

Women like men who are self confident and in charge. ( not bossy )

Are you going after the wrong kind of girls?

Reading a post like yours makes me so happy to be a girl.

I can totally relate.

thats cool dude. its not a curse, its kind of a blessing. youre a clean slate to girls. no baggage, stds, no crazy ex girls, hang on to that and dont be in too much of a hurry to lose it. dont let any of these brosephs talk down to you. itll happen.

Confidence, not arrogance, is definately key. I wouldn't say that you are unlucky. Maybe the timing has been off. I'm sure she'll come along when you least expect her.

I agree.

It is better to let them reject you than for you to reject you before they get a chance. If you find a wallflower talk to her. She might be willing to give up being a wallflower. Wallflowers are fun people to talk to.

Thanks for sharing!