personally i'd go for you if you were in my area. but everything the people are saying here is true.

the only different think i'd say is maybe lower your standards? idk... i dont think you should even have to do that.

For every woman on a dating site there is 10 guys if not more. All the friends (female) I have made over the years on other sites (new here) they all say the same they get tons of BS mail and a lot just get discourage after a while and don't even look at them unless they are the one who contacted them first.

well with me its just if I can develope a repore with them..some kind of trust..and then go from there...I try and answer most emails..but some people are to well out there...

Well Robin you shoulda written him then ..

Patience is a virtue

Not only that, but, most women don't respond to emails right away. Think how many they probably get a day, hell, they probably don't even bother reading all of them.

Do something unique to impress the girl... make her feel like she HAS to read your email somehow.

just a suggestion... I clearly don't know how you do that.... but it sounded smart.

The women like to play hard to get.

What you should do is continue to mail them until they reply. If they block you then you should create further profiles and continuosly email her through those.

After a while you will have worked out some personal details and will have hacked her mingle account and emailed all the men on her friends list calling them 'sad weirdo's with no lives'.


Simple! lol

wow... sounds like somebody has some experience doing this ? lolol

not trying to be rude here, but you have been here 2 weeks only 8 posts and you are whining personally I would ignore you too

Thats ok we don't understand the male species either. But for some reason we still try to figure each other out when really we would be further ahead beating our heads against a steel wall.

just live and have fun. if you waste all your energy trying to find "theone" you will be too tired to notice when "theone" appears right in front of your face.

Somehow I knew if you were in forums you would get me in my warped sense of humor.
I hope you have taken to heart some of the advice in this thread OP there is alot of great advice inhere.

In time the right one will come along, hang in there

Very well said

Dude, first of all, like all these guys already mentioned, we as men are many, and they are few. The ones we are attracted to are even less. For every one message you send, a girl potentially receives 20 or more. The other thing, you said it yourself, you're a nice guy. Don't be a nice guy; be unique, be different, be interesting. Nice guys are a dime a dozen, but truly interesting unique young men are a handful. Become one of these and women will notice. I'm not your typical "nice" guy, and I don't put all my eggs in one basket. This website is only but one of many ways of meeting women. Get out in the real world and explore those opportunities. This site is a learning tool and you should use it as such. I don't belive in luck so I won't say "good luck" to you, however, I will say be confident that you have a bright future ahead.

What do your messages look like?

I came here from another dating site because I was getting a lot of messages (a good thing) but 90% of the messages were less than 7 words (a bad thing).

Examples:

"hey babe how R U"
"you pretty girl hit me up"
"How are you girl, lets f**k"

Most guys didn't even read my profile. I don't respond to these short messages. Not even the short "How are you, have a nice day" ones. There's just too many guys and too many messages and I'm not going to spend an hour a day sending out rejection letters. You need to stand out.

If you write me a message with at least 4 or 5 sentences and mention something you think we have in common from my profile I will usually reply even if it's just to tell you to go away.

When women see those short 5 word messages we know that the guy is just spamming every pretty girl he sees. Most of us women like to feel special.

In your messages, go for quality, not quantity.

p.s. If you have been sending out good messages, well then, I don't know what your problem is.

he's just probably messaging girls out of his league. he needs to bat lower to get positive results.

If you have "no answer" on your profile for "Married, Single, Widowed or divorced" I'm not answering you.

If your email has a lot of shorthand instead of words, I'm not answering you.

If you select me for "Mutual Match" then never email, I'm not emailing you.


Give it time, give it thought, good luck !

women suck,that's why

i get the same and wonder what the hell is up with these women not responding i begin to wonder about myself and say they are passing up somthing good if they are waiting for mr right with a million dollar account they will be waiting the rest of their lifes waiting because any man that rich is going to have 4-5 g string clad young women running around the built in pool behind the mansion it"s a shame how us honest guys dont get a chance to prove ourself!!!