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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Sun 11/02/08 11:35 AM
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You're on a dating site sweetie. Also, the one picture of you is too dark and difficult to see. The same thing happens to women on here, most of the time people assume the person emailing them is desperate and ready to get married so they just ignore without even talking to them. I even admit to ignoring anyone who's profile sounds down right desperate. Your's isn't...lol, but some people are just rude and think they're too good to to talk to people. Those are the people that make you wonder why they ever joined a website that has to do with socializing...
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look who is talking about being fake.... 
IM real as it gets, And i still can't get a date!!! 
baby i meant the pic...i hope you know i was talking about that |
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 i think the chiks on these sights are pretty cool......... but i rarly get replys eather man. and i think it has alout to do with the fact that there are way way way more guys hear than chiks. i mean thay must get hundreds of letters from guys like us, im suprised if mine get red at all:) ..... have fun and good luck
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i think the chiks on these sights are pretty cool......... but i rarly get replys eather man. and i think it has alout to do with the fact that there are way way way more guys hear than chiks. i mean thay must get hundreds of letters from guys like us, im suprised if mine get red at all:) ..... have fun and good luck well if you emailed me i would reply 
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Why do you want a girlfriend?
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Im here to just tease you and make you horny!!! 
 ITS not working! lol,lol
 ok,maybe a little,lol
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Being a young male on a dateing site is not a lot of fun. Even women your age are looking for older a lot of the time.
Your profile is not helping you a lot. I could give you a rewrite that might help. Better pictures would defintely help. Whineing is online suicide if you want to date. There is nothing wrong with women for not wanting you. You don't give enough for people to draw a conclusion about you, at least in your profile, so the women go on to the guys who connect. |
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baby i meant the pic...i hope you know i was talking about that this is a real pic, i took it at the club last night,!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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baby i meant the pic...i hope you know i was talking about that this is a real pic, i took it at the club last night,!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think you know what i mean.....i hope you do 
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It's true what just about every one is saying. Your on the net. So, you have your players, you have people that don't know WTF they want so they lead people on. You have the ones that say they want a relationship, but don't want to work for it. Then you have at lest half this site of people that are on here that just want to shoot the chit. I come to realized that there are a few people on this site that could be with somene and be happey, but they chose not to want to be happy and thats there problem. Then i have seen people that actually do the foot work and are happy because they wern't looking for that so call "ONE" Hm, i rather be happy then be alone for the rest of my life.
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i think you know what i mean.....i hope you do
no acutally i don't know what you mean, guess im that dumb, 
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i think you know what i mean.....i hope you do
no acutally i don't know what you mean, guess im that dumb,
i will email you |
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good girl:)
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Thanks everyone for the advice.
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The truth of the matter is this. Some are interested, some are not. You just have to learn what to say and how to say it properly. I've only been on the sight a few days and I've already had an inbox full of messages saying 'what's up?' and nothing more. That doesn't make me want to reply. If you really want women to reply to you, say something worth replying to. And some of them still won't respond. Also, do some profile work if you must. Be meaningful and deep. I really dislike shallow men and nice guys aren't always enough. You have to be interesting and be someone a girl would want to talk to. You have to remember, most girls are looking to start a friendship first and build their way up to a relationship. If you're just looking for a good time, perhaps you should hit the bars instead. Be approachable, be meaningful and make as much of a good first impression as you can. I hate to say it, but girls are dreadfully shallow. If we don't like your profile from the start, chances are you aren't going to get a reply. Hope that helped. I'm not just looking for a good time lol. I understand the fact girls want to start a friendship first. Thats why when i send them an email, i ask them if they would like to chat with me. And thanks, that did help. |
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I do not understand the women on these dating sites. I email them whn i am interested in them and then get no response back. Am i like ugly or unattractive or something? All i want is a girlfriend and its so ridiculous that the women on ANY dating site completely ignores me. Im usually a nice sweet guy and will treat any girl with the highest respect. I just don't understand what i am doing wrong. My advice... Stop trying to look for a girlfriend online, and start enjoying being here. Hang in the forums, get to know ppl, and let them get to know u by contributing to threads. Having a gf/bf isnt the only thing in life. Totally agree. Heck I started here a year ago .. I've gained a sense of notoriety in the threads 
Still don't have a BF/GF but then I wasn't looking .. 
Actually could have if I'd been available. Many times over. Just RELAX! You're young for goodness sake. Take time to enjoy the community. 
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I do not understand the women on these dating sites. I email them whn i am interested in them and then get no response back. Am i like ugly or unattractive or something? All i want is a girlfriend and its so ridiculous that the women on ANY dating site completely ignores me. Im usually a nice sweet guy and will treat any girl with the highest respect. I just don't understand what i am doing wrong. Well this is a dating site not Mcdonalds and you have been here less than a week. Frankly what did you expect? To come out here and find the love of your life in 24 hours. Dude I have no clue if you are a nice guy or not but when I heard a person self proclaim I am a nice guy/girl... I cringe I wonder what they are hiding since if they are that will show.My advice is to take a chill pill mellow out and shop around. |
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TheShadow Hm, i rather be happy then be alone for the rest of my life. Can't someone be happy with themselves and not NEED a relationship? I would personally LIKE one if it happens, but I'm 100% happy on my own. THAT could be why most relationships fail these days. They rely on the other person to make them happy instead of learning to love themselves and be their own best friend. |
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TheShadow Hm, i rather be happy then be alone for the rest of my life. Can't someone be happy with themselves and not NEED a relationship? I would personally LIKE one if it happens, but I'm 100% happy on my own. THAT could be why most relationships fail these days. They rely on the other person to make them happy instead of learning to love themselves and be their own best friend. Well said! |
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TheShadow Hm, i rather be happy then be alone for the rest of my life. Can't someone be happy with themselves and not NEED a relationship? I would personally LIKE one if it happens, but I'm 100% happy on my own. THAT could be why most relationships fail these days. They rely on the other person to make them happy instead of learning to love themselves and be their own best friend. So well said. I totally agree, since I believe if you are not totally happy and content with yourself then how in the world can someone else be??? I am perfectly content and happy in my life therefore I am more than ready to share my life with someone. |
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