Honest, sincere women who say it how it is and tell you what you need to hear rather than what they think you want to hear because they care about you? Women who get to know people as individuals and respond to them with empathy? Women with a great sense of humor and sound judgment?

You mean that type?

Sorry, I was only trying to make a joke with myself as the object.


Well I guess that means I have to give a real answer to your topic... I only have problems with women that say they will go out with you, and then you show up and no one is there. That's so rude it's ridiculous. Short of that, I don't remember ever having to many problems with the opposite sex until the infidelity started kicking in.

I tend to have issues with not shutting the hell up. Not that I talk incessantly, but I say things I might do better keeping to myself.

Aw heck, just ask Lily. She'll explain.

I think you're swell Lilith

you say what you mean - mean what you say, and hell you've got a wicked sense of humor

Aww thanks Fran....


(((((Fran))))

I sent that pic you sent me to my friend, a male friend... he laughed and laughed and said he was now a "hard Democrat"..

Sorry...

Well, no if a person can't deal with someone "over talking" or "taking something a little too far" then they might as well live like a hermit. Sooner or later everyone will "go that extra distance" and make and azz out of themselves.

Trust me, that's not a problem most people can't handle. Now, assuming you run into someone with a devious sarcastic streak such as myself, you may want to be prepared for the occasional retort to an overstatement. However, longwindedness can at sometimes be a blessing. It will sometimes allow you to dig yourself out of your own hole, by talking so long, that they forget the original"overstep."

Oh no, that isn't what I mean. What I mean is this. I'm pretty good at observing and figuring things out. It's my job.

Sometimes I point those things out, things others don't know I can figure out. Things men might rather tell me on their own rather than have me point out. Well, this sounds pretty high and mighty of me when I type it out like this, but it is true. It's just how it is. So I need to shut the fvck up.

I have so many more at home - if I remember I'll email you some more - they are really hilarious plays on both parties
sorry

if you don't mind me saying so...


You're a bright lady Lilith....


not all men are smart enough to handle


a woman with a brain who uses it...


i have found that many men are intimidated


by a lady who is intelligent


it makes it tough to find a compatible partner

OOHHH I didn't see where you were coming from.

Trust me, I know your pain. Pointing out things that you think should be blantently obvious comes at a price does it not? The extreme burden of being... what's that word... intellegent? Oh, the suffering is great for your kind. But alas, I've already used my muzzle today or I'd loan it too you.

Thanks, to both of you. I'm trying out a muzzle. I don't need everyone to know what I know, or even that I know it.

You know?

luv ya Lil.....

your secret is safe -

hey but intelligence sure does making dating fun, humorous, frightening, and scary at the same time. Making finding that compatible partner like a scavengr hunt but it beats a blank

Right back at ya!

My dear Wise Mother always told me


to maintain a well~guarded aura of mystery

Yes, true. Mystery is appealing.

Leads me to another type not to date.

Mr. Vague: You have no idea where you stand with this person. He is open, seemingly, but as friends or as a date? Who knows. You get a feeling he might be waiting for you to make a move so he doesn't have to put himself out there... but what you think is a move isn't taken as one. The vagueness continues until you just can't take it anymore. I don't want to live in Switzerland.... I don't care how prety the view is. And gosh it was phenomenal...

The guy who wants to take you to dinner, then to bed. A therapist friend of mine says statistics show if you sleep with him within te first three dates, odds are it won't last. Haven't made my mind up if it's true or not yet.

I'd love to find out where your therapist friend got those stats. You mind asking?